I wish I had the courage to tell people that are doing annoying things to fuck off but I'm too afraid of getting my ass kicked.How do people do it?
>>34065997Sometimes you gotta just accept the smoke. I had some nigger today get upset that I parked my work van near his house and was talking outloud like he was gonna step and do something to me. I kept my cool, completed my order, and even sat in the neighborhood for a bit as he acted all tough on the phone. Alot of ppl are paper tigers, they'll talk but the majority of ppl can't fight and even if they can you should always carry a blade or something if a faggot wants to get real. So long as you're not the first to throw a hit, you can't get hit with assault charges.
>>34066011>So long as you're not the first to throw a hit, you can't get hit with assault chargesHow is that even provable? Isn't it your word against theirs?
>>34066023Witnesses and also if you're honestly telling the truth, someone came at you with an intent to harm and you defended yourself. The only way it backfires is if you go overboard and kill them or use excessive force when they're no longer a threat, like shooting someone who dropped the knife after they already saw you had a gun, but if they actually stab you and you shoot them, that's clear self defense and would make sense as a reason why you went that far.
>>34066011I can't fight and I'm afraid of the consequences (to my body) if I was to get into an altercation.I understand 99% of this is just shouting words at each other, but even with that, I don't know the right words to shout, thus the fear of looking stupid.
How?
>>34065997Use the social group as your audience and witnesses. A well-placed "shut the fuck up" in public followed by laughter or input from those watching will cause the annoying to either amp it up or stop. "I'm tired of you running your mouth, saying nothing, grow up". A physical fight isn't as bad as you think, it actually makes you feel alive and powerful.Also >>34066068Your fear is why they persist.
>>34067091>A physical fight isn't as bad as you think, it actually makes you feel alive and powerful.Well, lol, if you say so. I dunno if my insurance covers broken teeth from street fighting.
>>34067171So what if your insurance doesn't cover it? If someone breaks your teeth in a street fight, you at least could press charges and sue them for damages. Are you scared of confrontation? Some people will purposefully cross boundaries to instigate fights. You have to stand up for yourself when it is appropriate and know when to suck it up for a better outcome. FYI if women see you taking shit like this, their pussies are no longer an option for your dick... forever.Give us some examples and maybe we can talk shit about you overreacting to someone just living their life. Maybe it's something. The point is that you're a faggot for not giving us any details.
>>34067422Okay.Community showers. Each stall partitioned, with only white curtains to provide individual privacy. You're taking a shower and the guy next to you is having a phone conversation with his baby mama.Go...
>>34065997Get jacked. The anxiety will lower naturally. Eat a lot life heavy thing every other day.
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>>34067171You're such a nerdy loser
>>34068000LOL Thank you :P
>>34068046You're welcome :D
>>34065997What helped me with this is the realization that others are also limited by the environment they're in(and their self-image, etc). At that point it becomes a test of patience and boundaries, a lot of people will let you walk over them if you try, because just like you, they're trying to preserve harmony. Like the other anon said, there's some tards out there without self-control. You just have to spot em. They're too retarded to consider the consequences, so they'll lash out etc.
>>34067973IT'S A TOOMAHH
>>34066011I don't agree to fucking around with knives but the paper tiger thing is right. Most people just fold if you come at them assertive enough, most people want to avoid drama or being in the way, besides the initiator has advantage, the defender is not prepared for the confrontation and just wants it to go away.It's pretty much all fake and OP when you understand it. You just gather up the courage and put on a performance for 10 seconds to get what you want. If you pussyfoot around all scared, you'll look weak, they think they can get away without giving it up. Or if you act nervous and uncontrolled, the fakeness will get exposed. It's a skill. What you want to happen, you should act like the universe has already decided it's how things should be.
>>34065997Get a weapon (like a knife) and decide if they throw fists you're going to end them. It's not wrong to protect yourself so if they put you in that situation it's their own fault what happens next.
