addendum: i have two cats, i love them to death. i took pictures of all incriminating evidence incase she tries to hold me back in taking them with me. shoulld i just go or fight to take them with me back home.

>>34066608
Jesus teaches us to forgive, turn the other cheek and love pur enemies.
Forgive her, tell her to decrease the amount of men she sleeps with 20% every year.

>>34066632
kek that's not gonna help

>>34066632
Gross. Why are you even letting her touch other people?

>>34066608
You have two options:

>Stay
I'd only recommend this if you are severely financially entangled. Like you have no other options. You could forgive/confront her, but she will likely leave you and then finances go boom anyway. Not that you should even forgive her she'll just do it again.

>Leave
Anyway fuck option one. Just cut your losses. Learn from this and do not remarry, or heaven forbid knock someone up.

Bazinga.

>>34066645
Yes, op should go into more specifics with finances.

>>34066645
>>34066673
my personal finances are not bad, but i would be cutting into my long term savings for school and living. Fortunately my father is wealthy. I reached out to him despite my stubborn intent in keeping this private because I can pay him back in the near future. I'm completely horrified by this and fucked up over it. I don't think I can even possibly forgive this person. 2015 we began dating, we got married in 2021. I trusted her completely. We had our ups and downs, but I never thought she could possibly live this kind of double life and devolve like this, it's utterly shocking. I'm in shock, there is no other word to describe it. Trust is completely destroyed, I do not even know how forgiveness can even mend what has been broken. I've been suffering for three years keeping a steady path, I haven;'t approached a single woman while she was tempted into this double life.

Men, never get married. It's not a meme. Women are completely and utterly insane. ironically enough, at this same time a close friend's wife has betrayed him and my brother in law was betrayed as well. What is this, the surge of satan. It's all too surreal. You can't trust anyone, no matter your faith.

nothing matters to anyone anymore. regardless of differences and setbacks, nothing warrants this kind of betrayal. Never let love blind your best judgement. if you feel your SO is up to something, investigate and confront it immediately. Thankfully I didn;t, because if I found out the truth I might've killed her. This sounds like some christ cuck shit, but it was only after I opened my heart again and turned to Christ that I was able to not explode. its all a vent at this point, thank you for your honest feedback. no kids, and i have everything documented. im as safe as I can be and I want to fuck everyone around her and report this drug shit to the police. but i could be killed, idk. i just want my cats.

im drinking heavy and will continue doing so into the night. fuck it all

>>34066608
I mean, the answer you need is already in your picrel. Give your life to Christ and forgive her first and fore-most. Lord knows that you've sinned many times against Him, so shall you not forgive her for her transgressions against you? Read Matthew 18:21-35, and Matthew 6:14-15. Go from there and see where the Lord leads you on what to do.

Do the same shit. She won't have the right to complain

>drug dealing
gather proof and evidences.
get a good lawyer and explain situation
forge plan with lawyer
destroy her.
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>>34066632
>Matthew 19:9: "I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”
Read the Bible before saying retarded shit

>>34066608
get a amazing divorce lawyer and dump her ass, then read dating skills books and get ripped and wear better fashion and post pics of you dating a younger hotter woman and treating her to fancy stuff you never got your wife to make her jealous