Does cold approaching women work?
what is meant here by "work"
>>34066806Yes. But you are going to have to eat dozens if not hundreds or thousands of rejections before your retarded brain figured it out.
>>34066806Depends on what you mean by "cold approaching" The old PUAs like Roosh and Mystery defined "cold approaching" as walking up to a completely strange girl in an every day setting like a coffee shop or grocery store.What most terminally-online zoomers think cold approaching today is actually "warm approaching," when you meet a woman at a party thrown by mutual friends or you meet at some event that has a mutual interest. It's called "warm" approaching because you already have a "warmed up" "lead" as opposed to going into your lead "cold"Sidenote: I've noticed most zoomers are fucking terrible at selling and sales pitches. >>34066815Also this. IMO true cold approaching isn't worth the hassle unless you are objectively top 10% attractive. It's not going to make you more resilient or care less about rejection, that's a personality trait you've already developed by the time you've become sexually active, it's just going to wear you down.
>>34066806Like others have said it only works a tiny % of the time and it only works if you're a very specific type of guys approaching a very specific type of girl.You're not that type of guy, and you wouldn't want to be with that type of girl either.You're better off being a (relatively) normal dude in a social setting and getting to know girls for a few hours or a few days before trying to go OH UH UHM EXCUSE ME SORRY HAHA I THINK UH YOU'RE CUTE YOU'RE ATTRACTIVE PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER SO I CAN FUCK YOU
>>34066806>Does cold approaching women work?I won't read threads posted by a lazy coward who wants reassurance that he can get what he wants without effort or risk.
>>34066806Yeah but it requires you to be smart about it and somewhat socially calibrated. Like casually starting a conversation about dinner with a girl shopping at a grocery store or chit-chatting at a train station and most importantly, shoot the shit with her a little bit after approaching her and telling her that you think she's cute so she relaxes and realizes that you're a normal guy and not some unhinged weirdo. If you do that you should be able to start getting numbers and dates within 15-20 approaches if not less.Problem is that most guys practicing it these days just go about it in the most autistic manner possible by asking each girl for a date like a robot until one says yes and not really even giving a shit about getting to know her a bit as a person. Even the biggest whores will adore you a lot if you put in the slightest effort to show her that you appreciate her as a living, breathing human being. Which I know is difficult for the average /r9k/ poster that inhabits this board who views any woman that isn't a pure virgin who shuns anything fun like raves and parties as a soulless wretch but do try at least to pretend like you aren't a misanthropic prick.
>>34066806Only if you have the looks. Otherwise it will get you arrested.>>34066815>>34066862>>34066891>>34066918>>34067050Fuck off Normalniggers.
>>34066806>Does cold approaching women work?If you have the looks of a movie star AND the charisma of an extremely successful second-hand car salesman, yes. Otherwise, no.
>>34066806No, but i still encourage you to do it to build good habits. Talking to strangers regularly will lower your anxiety. That's what matters. One of my favorite e-celebs frank hassle used to have bad social anxiety and cured it by harassing strangers on the streets and in supermarkets.
>>34067099Imagine being so pants on head retarded that you made the post in that screenshot. Incels are their own worst enemies and they're way too retarded to see it.
The odds are not in your favour. But in the right conditions there's no reason for it not to.
>>34066806No, and if it does work then she's not the kind of woman you want to be fucking around with. Its like asking if hitch hiking works. 99% of the time it doesn't work and the 1% of the time it does you're being picked up by someone who is out of their fucking mind.
Yeah I know men going on dates from daygame cold approach and getting laid from said dates. Some even getting same day lays. Don't listen to anybody trlling you it's impossible or that you need a million approaches. You do need good social skills though. And you absolutely need to be a good salesman/closer. It's a game for the brave, peristent and determined.
Yeah but it usually doesn't, and you have to be decent looking at least. You can do it though, just know that most women will say no and you should be careful of the ones that say yes.
No. They only want Chad for the most part. You would be lucky to not get immediate fuck off signals, uncomfortable body language, quickly hurrying a long to whatever they were doing, or one word replys
>>34066806Are you a young celebrity? Are you conventionally attractive, conspicuously wealthy, and have flawless social skills?If no, then no, it won't work.
>>34067050>If you do that you should be able to start getting numbers and dates within 15-20 approaches if not less.Haha
>>34068096>eah I know men going on dates from daygame cold approach and getting laid from said dates. Some even getting same day lays. Don't listen to anybody trlling you it's impossible or that you need a million approaches. You do need good social skills though. And you absolutely need to be a good salesman/closer. It's a game for the brave, peristent and determined.First of all, pic relatedSecond of all, this is you and anyone who actually tries to attempt this bullshit IRL: https://youtu.be/TCEYB4pF33c?t=3
>>34066806What a mediocre ass and body all around. What's even the point of creepshotting this, she's in a thong? Big whoop.
>>34066806I've seen men do it consistently but they were tall, status maxxers, and creeped a lot of women out at crowded bars til one was receptive when they went out. Unironically, the Boomhower Method from King of the Hill.
>>34066806yes and its kinda based and fun when you start doing it. I got browbeaten my entire life by other people about "social rules" and "respect" and suddenly people show interest when I stop giving a fuck? screw em, even a negative reaction is funny and entertaining, watching them squirm. just walk away if things go bad
>>34067050Making casual conversation with women you come across is a low stakes way to possibly get a girlfriend.If she doesn't seem interested, just don't ask her out and you won't have to suffer rejection.If she does seem interested, you can ask her out.
>>34068006Kys Normalnigger
>>34067099>>34069416What the fuck is your problem?>inb4 "normalnigger"Well you're a fucking gay faggot nigger with AIDS cum in his ass
>>34069428>What the fuck is your problem?My problem is you fucking tourists coming to this board with your>Ohhh you just have to be confident also there's nothing wrong with being a Nosexsissy so you should only lose your virginity to someone specialbullshitWhy can't you Normalfags just stay on Reddit where you belong?>Well you're a fucking gay faggot nigger with AIDS cum in his assI'm not the one who believes in fairy tales about confidence and personality. Also I'm White.
>>34068010/thread
>>34069439I've been on this website longer than you>Also I'm White.Brahmans are not White, Parkreet
>>34069448>Brahmans are not White, Parkreet
>>34066862>Sidenote: I've noticed most zoomers are fucking terrible at selling and sales pitches.kek, funny that you say this. I was just in a photo store and asking the zoomer in charge about cameras. I gave him my requirements and also the price range. Only after I explicitly asked if he could show me something (it was about some of their used cameras) he brought two cameras. The two most expensive ones they had, way out of my pricerange. Only later did I see on their website that they had actually a couple way more fitting ones in stock.
>>34067050>not some unhinged weirdo.damn, foiled again.
>>34069547Are you a scalemodeller?
>>34072971Yes! I was wondering if someone would ask about the stains.
>>34072995That model isn't finished yet btw
>>34066806In the West? No. Absolutely not. It's just not the done thing. My Nigerian friend says it works in her country though because men are super respectful and immediately listen to you if you say no.>>34066862Do people really mean warm approaching when they say cold approaching? That would explain this website's bizarre fixation on "cold approaching". I agree with you that cold approaching is a waste of time. You should only bother with warm approaching.
>>34067099>Otherwise it will get you arrestedWhat the fuck you have in mind at the time of talking to women? LMAO
>>34067099you are so retarded you should actually kill yourself
>>34066806Cold approach is okay if you're Chad, but cold approach is not what our European ancestors did. There's no reason to talk to a stranger and that burning sensation of nervousness that you feel when you approach a stranger is your survival instinct, set in place back when you were an African ape. What our European ancestors did was warm approach: Friend of the family. Warm approach nowadays would be friend of a friend or met them at school or met them at college. I honestly think the smartest men marry their high school or college sweethearts, but our society has been pushing against that for decades now. I would've married my high school sweetheart if it wasn't for internet porn. Then I went bald at age 23. That's how I know the blackpill is real, I've seen both sides of it. I'm going to ascend in a couple days with a woman who's past her prime (my age) but she's still good looking. I think her daughter lives in another state, so she doesn't expect me to be a stepdad. So I low-tier beta buxed I guess? It's okay to lower your standards sometimes. Plus, I keep telling her that we need to make it easy for both of us to walk away when we don't feel the spark anymore.
>>34066862>It's not going to make you more resilient or care less about rejection, that's a personality trait you've already developed by the time you've become sexually activeAnd there it is, the dumbest post I read today.Due to Neuroplasticity, the opposite is true. Fear and anxiety rapidly diminsh as your brain gets used to a formerly unknown situation. This is true in other areas of life as well, for example when starting a new job.Fear is also not static, if you stop exposing yourself it will rise again. Often times, former Chads who have been in relationships for a long time also struggle when starting out again due to this.Resilience however increases permanently, as you teach yourself on a gut level that you will be able to cope whatever happens, and that the negative stuff actually doesn't affect you all that much.>isn't worth the hassle unless you are objectively top 10% attractive.Next reatrded statement. Cold approach is literally brute forcing the matter, you will likely not bat above your league this way, but you will definitely get laid through simple statistics. Codl approachgin as a regular way to meet women is not advisable becuase its a ton of effort with relatively little return. BUT it is a great tool to confront and diminish your fears in a radical manner. A handful of cold approaches will significantly lower your inhibitions and make its far easier to flirt with women in a more comfortable setting, i.e. warm approach.
>>34073356>but cold approach is not what our European ancestors didAbsolutely pathetic cope. My grandfather ahd a millsion stories about going to the park and rizzing up chicks there. In fact people used to flirt a lot more openly in the past generations.>That's how I know the blackpill is real>I'm going to ascend in a couple days with a woman who's past her prime (my age) but she's still good looking.What in the everloving fuck makes you think you are qualified to give advice? Good for you that you managed to dodge getting totally brainwashed by incel forums, but good god my man. You've got quite a bit of living (and fucking) yet to do. And no, your hair wasn't the reason for this.
>>34073522So are you purple-pilled, in that you think the only thing that matters is game, or are you red-pilled in that you think the only thing that matters is being alpha and making lots of money?
>>34073542You should really, really get off youtube. Anyone who blubbers about "pills" of any kind is a terminally online retard who just blubbers a bunch of nonsense. Enjoy your time with your milf, and use it to shaope your worldview through some bitterly needed real life experience instead of TikTok feeds.
>>34073577So you're bluepilled. Women don't get into relationships with everyone they think "treats them with respect." That's the lies your mom and feminists told you. And by the way, I had abandoned the manosphere long ago, way before the Tate era, because it became full of grifters and really depressing people. It doesn't mean it didn't teach me a lot about life though. You can tell by the violent hatred that people have towards the blackpill and redpill that it's true. Whitepill is the best though. That's where you accept there's some truth to all of it, but to stop being angry and just accept female nature. That's why I wish you well. No big deal if we disagree.
>>34066918 Look,,, it's the "I won't read threads posted by..." guy again.
>>34073301I only talk to women when it's in the family or work-related. I'm an autistic incel so me getting arrested because some girl was insulted by my mere presence is more likely than any woman showing interest in me, at least where I live.>>34073331No one has ever refuted my points, and you are just an addition to the list.>>34073653Why are you arguing with him? Get off this board and watch Rehab Room videos if you really don't believe in the blue pill.
>>34073356>ascend>beta bux>blackpillGrow up
>>34073782hes doing this for years, there are some mentally ill anons on here for surethere is another guy who keeps post i accept your concession everytime he doesnt like what someone writesunbelieveable how retarded some arei remember the schooler in adv who kept writing you can only meet women in school for years here lol, is he still here?wtf is wrong with these neurotic idiots
>>34073515Wow this sure is a bunch of idiot cope written by Indian hands>muh Neuroplasticity Greatly overrated, all this bullshit about your brain still “developing” in your 20s and 30s is exactly that, bullshit. The VAST MAJORITY of mental development occurs in childhood. >You teach yourself on a gut level to cope with whatever happensExactly THE OPPOSITE of how habitual training works. You become conditioned to EXPECT THE SAME RESULT each time, not to wait for the opposite. God you are such a stupid little pajeet. “SAAAR YOU MUST BE CONFIDENT” yeah for animals like you being confident is jerking off in front of of mopeds drivers
>>34073805>>34073806>Go to incel website>Get mad when incels are thereI will never understand Normalniggers.
>>34069547Wow a picture of someone’s hand with a file format that anyone can copy that proves nothing
>>34073857What else do you want me to post as proof? Do a reverse image search if you are so confident.
>>34073653The whitepill is just the redpill for redpillers in denial.>Dude wgmi just be confident and have game! It just began!Same shit that Tate and Hamza have been pushing for years.
>>34073874No way. True whitepill is about inner peace, not what any of the other pills push.
>>34073841>The VAST MAJORITY of mental development occurs in childhood.Sure thing bud. If you have somethign on hand that disproves the fundamentals of Neuroscience I'm reptty sure me and the entrie scientific field of Neuroscience would be incredibly keen to hear it.I simply smell cope of someone who wants to avoid the exertion of changing things in his actual life. Neuroplasticity has fuck all to do with dvelopment, it simply describes the ability of your brain to rehapse itself according to what demands are put on it, similar to ma muscle. So yes, your choice of staying inside and engaging in gooning sessions all day is very much not determined by your childhood, but a choice you make every day again. What you are doing is smiliar to claiming that there is no point to hitting the gym if you haven't started lifting at 12. >Exactly THE OPPOSITE of how habitual training works.The entire highly effect9ive methodology of cognitive behavioural therpy works as I have described. Because that is exactly NOT what happens. You notice that your fear were unfounded, and become inured to setbacks as you learn that the world keeps going and you are able to cope and deal with it. >God you are such a stupid little pajeet.Time and again I have found that incels will invent a complete alternative reality headcanon to simply avoid the effort of doing anything about your situation. Currently, you are trying to deny everythign we know about how the human brain works, and something that has been successfully applied millions of times IRL.
>>34073891>inner peaceExact same cope pushed by wannabe stoics like the grifters I mentioned. Humans are SOCIAL ANIMALS. The entire purpose of our existence is to reproduce and be a member of the tribe/society. Any man claiming he doesn't care about being a virgin or never having been in a relationship is coping.
>>34073903>Currently, you are trying to deny everythign we know about how the human brain worksAnd you are denying that we are unable to get unpaid sex. I don't get why you argue with us over that, especially on this board where you don't belong. You would be much happier on Reddit as the people there hate us as much as you do.
>>34073907Yeah, you're an animal, and you have to take care of your animal side, but the animal cannot be #1 either, you know? Gotta have a goal in life that transcends your biology.
Imagine being afraid of approaching if you don't look unkemptLol
>>34073952What is it with 4chan and calling everyone Indian? Do actual Jeets even browse this board?
>>34073960I’m talking to one right now
>>34073952Its cool just look up a wikipedia article on Behavioural cognitive therapy and the science it is based off, works without issue in millions of cases.You have done this yourself every single time eyou picked up a new habit or have done anything new in your life whatseover.Your weird ass idea of people being incapable of learngin anything new or changing anything at all once childhood is finished spits in the face of science as well as things that people do every day. >Being consistently successful at cold approach is more like being a pro athleteThe only thing required for that are basic social skills and not lookign like total shit as well as far too mcuh time on your hands. As I said, its brute forcing the matter. However, it is a good learnign experience to lower your anxiety in other setting and to build resilience.
>>34073972>basic social skillsDon't exist for autists. You can't fix a congenital subhuman brain through training.>However, it is a good learnign experience to lower your anxiety in other setting and to build resilience.Fucking a sex worker gets you to the same destination with no risk and a lot less effort.
>>34073990I don't understand the appeal of sex workers, how could it help to fuck a woman who doesn't desire you? And then it's something you will most likely have to keep secret from any women you meet later, that's lame.
>>34074005>I don't understand the appeal of sex workersBecause you couldn't understand what being an incel is like.>how could it help to fuck a woman who doesn't desire you?It liberates you from virginity and thus reconquers your manhood.>And then it's something you will most likely have to keep secret from any women you meet laterIf your only access to sex is via prostitutes, you were never meant to date.
>>34074014But I'm technically an incel, as a 37 year old virgin (I don't believe in blackpill shit, or any pill). I don't understand how I could "reclaim my manhood" from fucking a woman who does not want me.
>>34074057Simply put: Virginity is feminine. Read>>34069416
>>34074064> Virginity is feminineI think it's weak to let others define who you are.
>>34073935source??
>>34073935lolI bet this guy paid this random woman to do thatI'd kill myself
>>34066862Wow, I haven't heard Roosh's name in a while. But yes this is correct.The only place cold approaching really works is in the grocery store, because you obviously have a reason to be there, and you can easily comment on something.Hitting on girls at the bar is technically cold approaching but women are there because they're open on some level to being approached. Cold approaching in the bar/club is the most socially acceptable place to do it, with the highest chance of success.The key is the vibe you give off, not what you say. You could literally say "hi" but if you have a great smile and happy/energetic vibe, you can charm them. And yeah being attractive helps a lot here, but if you're charismatic and they're lukewarm to you at first, you can win them over.
>>34073806>i remember the schooler in adv who kept writing you can only meet women in school for years here lol, is he still here?Gone but not forgotten.
>>34066806sad body
>>34075172pretty avergae body, but the thong bikini is really asking for attention
>>34075163That's a good meme. It instantly conveys to normies what the problem is.
>>34073915all sex is paid. if you have to take the bitch out to dinner and buy her jewellery, you're paying.
>>34069547>>34072971>>34072995Such a cute and autistic interaction :)
>>34075204>all sex is paid.Cope. Handsome men get genuine attraction from women which is why they don't have to rely on red pill copes like "muh status" or "muh money".
>>34076286Cool guys get genuine attraction. Handsome is optional.
>>34076286Looks, money, status. Those are how men get their feet in the door.
