A girl has spilled water on me on purpose after minor disagreement and slapped my face (as a joke) on two different occasions, did not apologize once after giving her countless opportunities to do so. Justifies her every action that she has "learned to act this way". I was hanging out with her because we related in few ways, we both were social fuckups and she felt like she was true to me, would point out the issues I have and not try to be just nice like rest of the people, of course she'd give me compliments for authenticity etc. but I wasn't thirsting for them. I just enjoyed her genuinity but now I feel like she's not good for me at all.
>>34067540Avoid her. It might seem harmless now but she will just get worse.
>>34067572Yes she had a single mother, you described her perfectly.She tests me non stop and she loves to be put in her fucking place. One time I came to a lecture pretty angry and in a strong voice I've shouted my attendance, she was digging that, I literally saw how she looked at me.I did "slap" her back slightly because I don't like hurting girls but she did deserve that, there's a shit ton of girls in our class and I WAS NOT risking women making shit up on me that I am a woman beater or something (I am in a woman dominant field at uni). After we left I scared her with a left hook but did not hit her. I told her afterwards to not do shit like this and she just smiled, she did not take me seriously at all.Whenever I publicly shittalk her in groupchat she really digs that.
>>34067706>>34067706>But if you get a gut feeling? DON'T IGNORE IT.Not really a gut feeling or anything but I do know for granted that she literally said that I tried fucking her when we split from talking first which was hilarious to hear. I don't think she can really hurt my image all that much since a lot of people know she's fucked up. She spilled her water on me in front of everyone and I've had eye witnesses where they've put me in the right and I seemed to get more support than she has. I am like the only person she talks to in uni. Other people she wanted to talk with cut her off and stopped talking alltogether.>If you haven't talked to other women in your social groupsas I said, majority of people in my field are women and I talk to them on a daily basis. I have a good image and even have inside jokes with several of them, I seem to be liked. We help each other out (me and other women) and I feel like I am in a much higher position than that girl is. I feel like one girl is even crushing on me lol.>storyholy shit, no wonder some guys are incels
>>34067706>>34067860Also she openly called me a pet in front of her friend and grope my shoulder lol. Denied later that it happened. I started calling her a pet afterwards and it was weird because she seemed to dig it? it's like sometimes she's doing things to me that she wants me to do to her, what's even weirder is that she has a fucking boyfriend already (which I drank with once).Right she had also hit my leg constantly before she spilled her water on me because I asked her "how does your boyfriend deal with you" in a joking way to stop her. (she shows that she likes people by hurting them btw, learned that from her former friend).Do I have a bad gut feeling around her? not really, I just thought she was an interesting person, but lately I feel more and more like I should just ditch her. So the question still stands, how should I proceed? Straight up come to her and tell her I don't want to deal with her anymore or leave it decaying and be more and more boring?
>>34067860>as I said, majority of people in my field are women and I talk to them on a daily basisThat's GREAT for you.(Same anon)>no wonder some guys are incelsyes, but I'll say again: I'm a Volcel, (Voluntary Celebate)I moved back to the Trash State mentioned in the article, into and even MOAR shitty, Fuxxated city FOR my family after being in 2 other states for more than 20 years.(Big fuggin' mistake)I have a little story of the one time I even considered "dating" since I've been here if you want to hear it.Back you your quandary:>>34067911>she has a fucking boyfriend already>how should I proceed?I think you're making the right choice cutting off your connection with her, and probably most would say just ghost her. The forthright approach *seems* like it would be better, but were I in your shoes, I'd go with the latter, as a neurotic like this might have a "Drama Panic", with a straightforward and honest,"I'm done with you" and try even harder to pull you back into her strange fantasy world where she controls you.
>>34067540she wants to fuck you
>>34068151But do I want to fuck her? Told her on several occasions I feel nothing towards her, even if there were some little feelings here and there.>Bro learn to have fun and make it a one night standIntimacy is sacred to me and being a manwhore is not my goal in life. While I do crave intimacy, someone has to be worthy of it. I don't need rape accusations because her fucking hormones told her so. Really unfortunate she was one of the only interesting people that I happened to get along, shame she chooses to be a genuinely shit person.
>>34067540She's flirting bro. Just take the opportunity and plunge
>>34073072She's a massive red flag>got back with ex that dumped her>spreads rumors if things don't go her way>"I hate youuuuuuuu" which is obvious what it means>literally told him that "she found someone more annoying than him">can be violent>rumored to have scored a shit ton of bodieswhy the fuck would I
