I have a BPDemon cunt mother and a pussy whipped father who let her do whatever she wanted with me and all that entails. I ended up an extremely depressed schizoid neet who literally can’t talk to people. Is there anyway to recover from this?
>>34067608Yeah you’re supposed to break up with her. You might not know it but you’re under the spell of what is known as “emotional incest”. That’s what devouring mothers do to their kids. It’s a type of incest that is completely non-sexual, so don’t go freaking out about the word ‘incest’ there. Reason it’s called incest is precisely because the devouring mother burdens their own children with adult-sized baggage that was supposed to be kept for their husband.>trauma dumping>venting>nagging>shit tests>ultimatums>meltdowns>demanding affection or attention>power plays and control gamesAll things children have no business being a part of yet devouring mothers find ways to wrap their own kids up in it. So effectively, you’re psychologically bonded to your own mother the same way as a man would be bonded to a wife. Just without the romance or sexual aspect. Hence the name, emotional incest. So you need to break up with momma.
>>34067658Pretty much sums it up for me. Fucking insane and evil talking about suicide to an eight year old child and discouraging them from playing without kids. I did I moved out what a nightmare that was. I don’t even plan on attending her or my father’s funerals. Already missed my fathers.
>>34067608Probably not. Have low expectations of yourself. Try doing the basics of life correctly, you will feel a lot less bad if you are taking care of your body. I won't go into anything beyond that because that would be useless.
>>34067714Insane, yeah. Evil, nah but it’s very very easy and forgivable to feel they are evil. The reality is they’re sad, very pathetically sad. The reason they feel OK about dragging their kids into their fucked up emotional circus is because they genuinely don’t feel so different to a child themselves. They are actually little neurotic kids piloting the body of an adult. Emotionally stunted as fuck they are, stuck and frozen in their maturation. So despite being adult parents, they don’t know the difference between adult and child intuitively. That’s why they were able to dump so much shit on their kid, to them it wasnt a kid, it was a peer. Its whacky shit. Par for the course for cyclical generational abuse. Parents like that cluld not grow because their own parents fucked them up real good.
>>34067785This cunt has literally brought nothing but misery to everyone she encountered and is now spending her last days drinking, weed, cigarettes, endless complaining, and trying to worm her way back into other people’s lives so she can hurt them again. She has brought literally nothing to the world that she openly resents. She should have been thrown in a trash can as a baby.
>>34067797Yeah I believe you, I believe all of it. She’s probably done so much shit it’s be a hard feat to list the decades worth of it all in one post no doubt. Nothing excuses her, just explaining the obvious, she’s a fuck-up because she got fucked up in childhood too. I was a fuck-up due to being fucked up in childhood. Maybe you had a moment of being fucked up as well. Like it as not we end up in the exact same state of affairs as the dysfunctional parents who raised us, apple never falls far from the tree etc.Unless that apple becomes self aware, which you have. You did what your parents could not and that took balls man. It’s genuinely impressive and by no means was easy, was hard fucking work for you to survive all that shit and stay surviving, no?
>>34067837Don’t excuse her and kiss my ass. Her childhood was normal better than mine that’s for sure. She’s just a cunt she expects the world and reality to adapt to her and her petty whims and other exist to serve her.
>>34067856Not kissing your ass, admiring the fact you left the situation because I know its hard first hand myself. Not excusing her either, just saying the obvious. Nobody gets BPD for no reason. Happens due to some pretty evil circumstances actually. The kind that they will never admit to either.
>>34067884It’s called being a woman who isn’t beaten disease for a reason. Is femininity real femininity on steroids and unrestrained. No one put her in her place and she grew up spoilt and this is the result.
>>34067935https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8495240/Nah, more like being beaten like a dog or even raped.
