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Why don't women ask men out?
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Because women have pussies and are pussies
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>>34067759
Because evolutionary and social reasons women are selective about mates and initiating courtship is a form of risk taking.
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>>34067759
They have too much anxiety
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>>34067759
They do. My girlfriend asked me out. They just don't ask *you* out.
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>>34067759
Stop making excuses. It is the man's responsibility to man the fuck up and make the first move. Women are the gatekeepers but men are the conquerors. Reversing it is incredibly cucked and gay.
I thought chuds were trad.
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>>34067759
>Why don't women ask men out?
More than anything else, women are attracted to confidence. If you're too much of a pussy to ask them out, they aren't attracted to you because you're a pussy. Why would they ask out someone they're not attracted to?
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>>34067854
this is the correct answer
get gud
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>>34067759
Once I went to church and the pastor said that it is the man's responsibility to ask women out.

I VERY rarely get asked out.
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>>34067759
I have nothing to offer.
No looks, riches, character or experience.
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>>34067759
Because women want to feel wanted. They want the man to do the chasing and asking, makes her feel all special.

That said not every woman operates this way. Some women will approach men, but my old man always told me to watch out for chicks like that as they're often mentally ill.
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>>34067814
And men dont?
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I had a college girl ask me out and im old. Said no bc of the age gap and I kinda regret it
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>>34067759
>Why don't women ask men out?
They do, they don't ask (you) out. They ask attractive men.
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>>34067759
Because men will always ask them out, even if (You) don't.
They don't have to take the risk, and if they still do, then tons of guys will say yes just because it's easy, not because they're interested. And that's the good outcome. Women are especially prone to spiraling because of rejection.

Sometimes women will still take this risk, but that's usually a combination of something wrong with her (low impulse control, poor boundaries, etc.) and the guy being so attractive to her (not just physically, which is usually not the first priority for women unless they're complete sluts looking for sex) that she isn't willing to wait and hope for him to make the first move.
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>>34067854
shes probably ugly if she had to ask *you* out
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>>34070213
>shes probably ugly if she had to ask *you* out
No, she's a hard 7. She was just interested.
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>>34070121
>not just physically, which is usually not the first priority for women
Who are you to say that chud? In my experiences women care about looks first and foremost. Do you know how many couples I saw with the dude being fat or ugly this year? None. And I have a very active life

The rest of the you said is true, women don't have to play the game because unlike men, they can always get someone if they lower their standards.
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>>34067759
They sometimes do, but it's usually not the kind of girl you'd want asking you out anyways
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>>34070835
I didn't say that women don't have standards for looks, even exacting ones. I said that looks aren't typically the priority. As in, a woman is unlikely to approach just because a guy is physically attractive to her.
It obviously doesn't hurt.
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>>34067759
I won't read yet another instance of this thread that whines for a woman to magically drop into OP's lap without effort or risk.
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>>34070886
Isnt it the same for girls in reverse?
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>>34067759
Youre just ugly. Even me, having schizoid PD, got asked out, but then I am also bishonen.
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>>34067854
This. If you are Chad or Chad-lite women constantly put themselves in a position where they almost ask you out but they still make it so that you end up asking them out in the end.
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Wait, you guys are getting asked out??
Damn. I'm probably average looking at best then. R.I.P.
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>>34072832
I dont ask or get asked out.
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>>34067759
they do
not (You) tho
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>>34070029
When women have anxiety: oh it's ok gurl, i feel for you
When men have anxiety: just man up, it's not that hard bro
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>>34067759
Because they are woman nigga, they get asked out, men ask them out. Gender roles and shit.
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>>34072913
C
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women most certainly DO ask men out
stop being such a solipsistic faggot
just because it doesn’t happen to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen to other people
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I did sometimes but I don't do it anymore to avoid situation where I'm the one more motivated to date and ending up disappointed. I want a man that will show clear interest in me. But it's all not black and white, I often like men that are significantly older than me and I look younger than I am, so I feel like I need to express my interest because otherwise they may not even consider me
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>>34070063
>bc of the age gap
kek, you people can't really be this retarded?
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>>34073063
It happened to me, but statistically it's very unlikely. You can also find women to top you and fuck you in the ass with a strapon, but you have to be retarded to think this is not extremely rare female sexual behavior.
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>>34067759
They created a political party based around membership to their gender and then democratically (though not unanimously) agreed within the party that it was creepy for us to talk to them romantically for almost two decades... then 18 months ago or so they changed their mind and are trying to pretend like that didn't happen.
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>>34067759
they do. it's just the motives behind it which are different. It's a shit-test
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>>34067759
I have before and they were not interested in me
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>>34067759
Multiple men pursue the same woman. So the woman has no need to make the first move. She can select. She can even select and change her mind afterwards for hundreds of times. The consequences of this will be of biological nature.
>>34067858
>I thought chuds were trad
Chuds want to be trad but it is not possible under the current circumstances. It is super idiotic to try to be trad in a feminist society. You get nothing out of it.
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Because it takes courage which 99% of women lack
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>>34067759
I have. And not like “putting myself in a situation where it becomes easier for the man to ask me out”. I flat out have been the one to ask for a “date” in specific. Only have done it twice, got rejected with one and the other one did accept.

I don’t do it often cause it’s kinda hard to even talk to guys in the first place
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>>34067759
they simply do not need or want boyfriends as much as men seem to want gfs lmao
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if men so not ask you out as a woman, in her brain that must mean she is an ugly busted bitch. simple. and if she asks a guy out it seems that she is desperate AND and ugly busted bitch.
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>>34073736
Can you give us an estimate of how attractive the men you asked out were compared to their peers?
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They expect men to approach.
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>>34073753
Nothing wrong with desperate women
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>>34075990
Is there something wrong with desperate men though.
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>>34067806
So why are we treating women like they're equal to men?
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>>34075992
Yes
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>>34073546
yet again you are coping
just because it doesn't happen to (You) doesn’t mean it is just as rare as women who like pegging (which is also more common than you would think lol)

natural coping mechanism I get it
you refuse the notion that some people get better treatment from women just because they were lucky to be born with more attractive looks

but by coping and lying to yourself you in fact are not helping yourself

it increases the chances of you falling for psyops like PUAs kr other redpill/masculinity gurus
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>>34073760
I mean obviously I’m kinda biased because to me they were both like 8-9/10 for me lol.

but the first guy I asked out who rejected me was Indian descent, but didn’t really look Indian (had olive skin tone, blue eyes) he was like 5’3 and pretty chubby and had wavy hair that was a bit longer than shoulder length. I thought he was cute tho, he was really smart and liked tinkering. He was also a pyrotechnic which I find admirable


Second guy who did accept was jewish, also had shoulder length hair, brown eyes, like 5’5, and broad shoulders and was fit. He was also really smart and could play bass so I found that really cool lol
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>>34073714
As opposed to our illustrious OP who literally wants to sit back out of cowardice and hope for the women to do all the work?
Literal damsel in distress ass niggaz
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>>34073714
It's for the best. Women go apeshit when they get rejected. They can't even handle a guy not approaching them.



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