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Why does every girl already have a boyfriend?

I'm going insane.
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Lol imagine letting her having a bf stop you
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>>34068495
They're lying
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You have to be the hardcore guy. Only way my guy. Autistic people can't be hardcore, which fucking sucks, but that's how most of these chicks like men.
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>>34068495
I feel you so much dude.
I feel like we know why. Your pic related kinda sums it up. You either step up or have nothing. And unfortunately, some things aren't step up able
And even the ones that are, they take so long, and so much effort.
So so so long..
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Because the ones you want to date, other men want too
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The fact that there is an equal amount of men and women is a lie. There are 1.055 live male births for evwry female births. It means that 5.5% men will not find a partner if everyone else does.
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>>34068925
Also that women become hags while divorced old men can date highschoolers
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>>34068495
1. "Valuable" and not insane women I'd assume are more likely to be dating, unless you are reaching out to meet women who are otherwise not meeting men.
2. Some women use "i have a boyfriend" as a stock response when rejecting. Because it lets a woman reject a man without implying he's ugly/undesirable or that he can convince her.
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>>34069127
>without implying he's ugly/undesirable
I think men are not THAT stupid.
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>>34068495
Thats one sexy man... Best uniform aside from blues hands down.
Anyway that depends entirely on your age. If you're past a certain age, obviously all of the half-decent women are taken. However, it might also be that something about you is extremely off-putting and that's the best excuse they can think of because you are less likely to try and persist because you're afraid that this boyfriend will eventually step in and do something about you. Take a long hard look at yourself and ask, is there something genuinely off-putting about you? Have you ever had any positive relationships with women?
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>>34069127
>Because it lets a woman reject a man without implying he's ugly/undesirable or that he can convince her.
>that he can convince her.
This is wrong for non-autistic men and why it's a stupid method and I generally discourage it. If anything, it is telling men that there is one obstacle in their way. He's attractive. There's nothing wrong with him, and she would date him if she did not already have a partner. All he has to do is prove that he's better than this partner, and he will get the position. If someone was told that they could have X, but unfortunately, someone already had X, all you've told them is they just have to remove that other person, and they can have X.
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>>34069311
There's plausible deniability, that's what matters.
>>34069327
If you attempt that you're going to look stupid. Like cartoon level villainly stupid.
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>>34068925
It's true, but only if you sum up ALL men and ALL women. But here's the kicker - open up ANY developed country's population pyramid split by age and sex (i'll take the US here for example), and you will see that

1) there is a surplus of 1-3% of men in EVERY AGE GROUP up until late 40s. This means there are a few million men in the US who have NO WOMAN available to them. If you're a 20-something year old guy looking for a girl between 18 and 40, just know that there is not enoigh women to go around.

2) the women catch a major lead after 50, from then on women have a 5% or more surplus

So, functionally, yes. In every developed nation on Earth, there is not enough women under 50 to go around. In every nation there are millions of young men who mathematically have no girl available to them.
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>>34068925
>>34069394
It gets even worse for developed western countries considering the majority of immigrants both legal and illegal are male
Unironically this is why we need another big war.
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>>34069351
No man should attempt it because obviously either she does actually have a boyfriend (and if she leaves her boyfriend for you some fucking rando that weaseled his way in, she's a piece of shit anyway) or it's just going to come across as a threatening douchebag behavior, but that's why I tell women they should absolutely not try and reject a dude with "I have a boyfriend". Either you actually will deter the male or you're going to just teach him there's an obstacle and he will give you more grief than if you outright said you think he's ugly or you just really don't like him like that. How many women are actually laid out flat in the street for rejecting a guy in broad daylight in public? If it's a threatening situation in your alone with the dude and he's being creepy, you've already lost and thats different.
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I live in a student city where the ratio is 130 women to 100 men and still, every single woman has a man swallowing her turds or trying his best to swallow her turds
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>>34069461
to be fair if I lived in a town with a surplus of fat stinky women I wouldn't bother to hit them
I bet a lot of those "male" students are short, ugly, brown or other undesirable foreginer, out of shape, autistic, or some combo platter of those
What city is it? You can say without doxxing yourself you faggot. I'm comfortable saying I live in Seattle which is the most male dominated city in the US (115 men to every 100 women in the 18-45 range I'm interested in dating). I want to know which city because then I'll know whether or not it is because it's infested by pajeets and chinks or not.
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>>34068925
Even worse when you realize every single man (and some of the married ones as well) from 18-100 are all competing for women 18-22 give or take a few years. The amount of young women versus teh entire male population that wants them is a retarded massive imbalance. That's also not including sifting.out the women being single from not single, crazy from not crazy, whores from not whores, and all the other things someone would not want in women.
There statistically are no single women. Only ones that are single are the garbage ones taht don't count because no one wants them.
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>>34068495
I have the opposite problem
all the girls tell me they're single when we first meet both in person and chatting only to find out they have a bf later
you know what, you're right.
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>>34069605
>Only ones that are single are the garbage ones taht don't count because no one wants them.
Where do I find these? I'll take em, lol. In my life on the internet I have learned that white men have ridiculously high standards for women, comical even, and the ones they pass on are actually very attractive.
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>>34069846
Even if they are a 35 year old, fat single mother with niglets, debt, and addicted to SSRIs? Or are a 250 lbs tumblr fanfiction writer that pretends to be a lesbian for attention? If you want to collect trash, you should probably check your local social security office or Walmart.
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>>34068495
>every
it is kinda like survivorship bias: the only people who go outside also tend to have relationships. and all the losers never go outside.

so you only meet non single people outside. but on 4chan you meet all the singles at once!



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