Bullied as a child
>>34069023As a child I used to bully and I was bullied but after 13 years old. I never was bullied
>>34069044It still stays with you even after you become big and strong. This is why I hate physical discipline on children. It turns them into mentally weak adults.
HI WEAK BULLY FRIEND FEELING LIKE YOUR STRONGER FRIEND IS HAVING ISSUES? WELL I HAVE THIS THING CALLED CHARISMA WHERE YOU CAN GET TON OF STRONG FRIENDS WHO CAN BEAT HIM UP WHEN THEY MESS WITH YOU!
>>34068994idk the elephant is scared of the mouse try boxing
I’m 172cm and bet I can kick your ass
>>34069138>idk the elephant is scared of the mouse try boxingIs this true? I keep seeing posts from taller dudes 5’10” - 6’5” who repeatedly say manlets intimidate them & I noticed taller guys are uneasy when I am around them as a 5’5” manlet myself. And it confuses me because reality says a taller guy could beat the shit out of me very easily if they wanted, prob just pick me up and throw me in a trash can lmao. >>34068994What part of confrontation scares you OP? is it the fear of being hurt, or the fear of hurting others?
>>34069052This. Most parents hit them because they are annoyed and make up arbitrary reasoning that don't make sense. Dad never hit me, but knocked way too hard on the door when I used the toilet a 4 year old. It couldn't understand, as I didn't do anything obviously wrong, but I kept my distance even to this day. You can't comprehend it and assume you could get bitched at random events and you start getting tense in general. Same with bullying. You don't do anything wrong, they mostly bully people for reasons you can't control.
>>34068994Some men just don't have that dawg in them regardless of physical stature.... staying out of conflict is best practice anyway anon
>>34068994I respect you for it, OP. World would be a better place, if more people were like you. Hope you stay safe.
>>34069023Nonsense, I was bullied as a child and now I have raging little man syndrome, and I actively seek confrontation to take my internalised anger out on people
>>34068994because actual physical conflict, even if you are a top class MMA fighter, can leave your skull hitting the concrete or the edge of a table and leaving you paralyzed and retarded just because the other guy got lucky and you slipped or whatever
>>34069197It’s both, because like I said, I used to bully and I used to be bullied. But my biggest fear is my parents finding out that I lost my temper or that I was too weak. Unfortunately society and my parents then would criticize me. I always try to stay in the middle. Plus I believe in Christ
