My ex and I broke up on good terms - we had different goals in life and I wanted to move to a different city. We have lots of mutual friends and still kept in touch, calling often. I was passing through her city, and the plan was we hang out, I stay at her place and the next day we carpool together to our hometown for Christmas. I don't want to get back together with her. However we were together for over 5 years and have many important memories together. We went to a show together, seeing a lot of mutual friends I haven't seen in a while. During this time, we were hugging and kissing (but not making out) and dancing together. However at one point, she ended up flirting with and kissing another guy. She tried to do it in a way I wouldn't see. Am I wrong to feel disrespected by this? We went dating, and I wasn't necessarily planning on having sex with her, but it still feels like what she did was wrong, I am just not fully sure why. I feel like the part about it doing it behind my back? Feels deceptive.
>>34069386This is why you cut contact with exes>Mutual friendsFairweather shitheads who, I guarantee you, will have 0 relevance to your life in 10 years. What you both do in your love life is neither of your businesses. I say this as someone who was pathetically hung up on a long term ex myself, you need to move on.
>>34069433I am not hung up on her, though it does sting to see her kiss someone else. And the friends are really good people, not sure why you think they are bad. I think your situation is different than mine.
>>34069386you put yourself in a confusing, unclear situation. now things are confusing and unclear? how shocking!
>>34069459>I am not hung up on her, though it does sting to see her kiss someone else.That's because you're still hung up on her, retard. If you weren't, you'd feel nothing. Get some fucking space you mental midget.>And the friends are really good people, not sure why you think they are bad.Because when you're young and stupid you tend to think every asshole who shares a beer with you is your "friend." Prove me wrong by coming back to me when you're in your mid thirties and showing me how many of them are still around
