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I'm so fucking sick of sitting alone at home. I'm tired of vidya. The only activities I'm doing are drawing and gym and besides uni I'm not meeting anybody.
Where the fuck do I meet actual worthwhile people? Everywhere I look it's human scum that do nothing but drink and gossip behind everybody's back. Please give me suggestions or anything.
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>>34069919
>worthwhile people
that's completely subjective. get a dog.

https://rumble.com/v1mbza0-newspaperman-finds-a-friend.html?e9s=src_v1_cbl%2Csrc_v1_ucp_v
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>>34069919
My suggestion is let go of the hyper-judgemental mindset you got. You’re not wrong or anything, you genuinely do see people drinking and gossiping behind people’s back, it’s 100% true. But you need to consider the fact about humans, they have two layers to them. A public mask and a private personality. What you are seeing is masks, not the actual person. And you will find who you find ti be ‘human scum’ are usually the opposite underneath the fanfare and posturing.
You will find out, sooner or later, that those with an immaculate and saintly mask, the people who seem so innocent on the surface, they’re the ones who are extremely and viciously wicked and by the time you find that out you’ll already have been used, abused, exploited, manipulated etc.
Give people a chance before judging. If they have not wronged you, they have not wronged you.
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>>34069919
Read it. It's a short book. If it sounds like you, then I advise you to get your IQ tested. That will tell you what % of the population is on your intellectual level. If it turns out your IQ is significantly above average, get ready for some depressing news... but at least you'll know.
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>>34069947
>My suggestion is let go of the hyper-judgemental mindset you got.
It's not even that. I am not picky with people, I can be friends with literally anyone regardless of age and gender, and to be honest I give them too much freedom to show their true colors in order to give a proper judgment of them.
It's just that people recognize I'm authentic/different/weird and they just don't know how to act or talk with me. I'm literally like any other person that you can talk with but just have my own authenticity, sometimes it feels like they think I speak a different language where I don't. I believed that being helpful or genuinely supportive would make me more likeable but people really just end up using you in the end.

Also nice manipulating post, I've been through several friend groups. Most of them just ended up using me one way or another, not including me in activities etc. I wasn't born yesterday to have a proper judgment of people. And truth be told, good people are extremely rare but exist. I just wonder where I could potentially meet them, through what means.
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>>34070019
lol



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