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Why does reddit/tiktok/whateverthefuck call men pedophiles for liking younger, legally aged women? Is this something I have to worry about irl at 31 if I start dating a 18-20 year old?

Do people really think this way irl? Do other men really say stuff like “I can’t even look at 18-20 year olds they’re children” like on reddit?
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>>34070929
You'll unironically find that opinion on 4chan as well.
It's probably one of those things where it's way more amplified online than it actually is IRL It's not like the waiter or uber driver or random people walking down the street and whoever else is going to ask for you and your gf's IDs.

For guys it's mostly the "I am a 25 year old Gen X Boomer now" syndrome, where a lot of people practice the male equivalent of astrology or numerology where turning 25 means that you're an old middle-aged man who has absolutely no frame of reference to what it might be like for 24 year old teenagers and 18 year old children.
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>>34070952
Why did this suddenly start happening? This wasn’t a thing for all of human history and now its a thing
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>>34070929
Where the fuck would you even take an 18-20 year old?

The fuck would you even talk about as a grown ass dude/chick?

It IS weird because chances are you're only scouting younger because they don't got the experience to gel on all your shitty aspects.

I wouldn't call someone who messes with 18+ a pedo but I will absolutely look at them like a loser who can't hit any home runs in their own bracket.
I will absolutely look at them like a Creep who lies to unsuspecting people in order to get some box.

If you can't see how weird you are then you're too blind to get it.
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>>34070970
Depopulation.
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>>34070974
>Where the fuck would you even take an 18-20 year old?
Restaurants? Museums? Sporting events? Going to the gym together? Vacation? Are you implying you can only go out to bars or something?
>The fuck would you even talk about as a grown ass dude/chick?
Literally anything? Are you incapable of talking to people older than you? Are you retarded? Movies, shows, memes, sports, politics, family life, aspirations, normal conversation, hopes, dreams, pets, jobs, etc etc
>It IS weird because chances are you're only scouting younger because they don't got the experience to gel on all your shitty aspects.
Sounds like projection. I’m an attractive man with money, I’m also not 70 I’m 31. I take care of myself, I’m kind, and I am a good person in all respects.
>I wouldn't call someone who messes with 18+ a pedo but I will absolutely look at them like a loser who can't hit any home runs in their own bracket.
I will absolutely look at them like a Creep who lies to unsuspecting people in order to get some box.
I can easily, and have, gotten with women my age and older. They’re far more likely to have children, be mentally ill, have extreme baggage, be clingy and weird, and are much less safe to have children with. A 31 year old SSRI bpd demon isn’t a “home run” lmao
>If you can't see how weird you are then you're too blind to get it.
Also sounds like projection. What makes me weird when you don’t know me? Biological attraction to attractive younger women?

You sound like a bitter older woman
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>>34070974
Why is it always the same rote talking points as well?
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Yikes, yeah I called it. Yall are losers hahahaha no wonder you're poaching like a hyena.
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>>34071072
So your logic was flawed and you were made to look stupid and now you’re gonna do a 360 and moonwalk away?
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>>34070929
Because it's the same underlying problem: a large age gap leads to an unhealthy power imbalance.

>Is this something I have to worry about irl at 31 if I start dating a 18-20 year old?
Definitely.
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>>34070970
>Why did this suddenly start happening?
When relationships started being about people being happy instead of merely an economic arrangement.
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>>34071090
People in age gaps can’t be happy?

>>34071088
So are rich and poor relationships. Relationships in a work place. Relationships between legal age students and teachers. Etc etc. every single kind of relationship has power imbalances and can go bad. What “power” does a 31 year old have over a 20 year old?
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Roasties are behind this crusade because younger women are their direct competition.
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>>34070970
Women no longer believe in family or duty, that's why they get bent outta shape because they still want to be that little dipshit teen that get attention en masse rather than accepting its a time of their life thats over. Notice how it's only women who have now hit middle age tripping on this shit. Elderly women don't give a fuck and I had literal proof yesterday that teen girls don't care either, some guy catcalled them while I was sitting in traffic, they didn't go on a feminist bitch fest, they looked and gave a "ok?" look and started laughing. Absolutely no one gives a fuck about dating or fucking some barely legal chick other than the middle aged women who still want to go back to those times.
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>>34070974
This just shows how fucking retarded you are. I like movies, books, science, tv shows, games, etc. You're the moron thinking that teen girls only think about vapid shit instead of just talking to them like a person.
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>>34071124
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>>34071096
>People in age gaps can’t be happy?
Paedophiles and children *can* be happy together. The problem is that if they're not, the child isn't in a position to do anything about it, because the adult has too much power over them. And that's why it's banned: that kind of power imbalance is a problem. Another example would be that it's *possible* for a psychiatrist or therapist and his patient to be happy together; but again, we don't allow that, because the therapist has too much power. That applies, even if the patient is an adult. Age gaps have the same problem: they *can* be happy, but if they're not, it's too easy for the older person to bully or manipulate the younger one. (Or, if the gap is really extreme, the other way round: it's often not a good idea for a 30 year old to date a 90 year old, because the *older* person is too vulnerable).
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>>34071096
>Relationships in a work place.
Terrible idea. Have you never heard of #metoo?

>Relationships between legal age students and teachers.
Also a terrible idea, and often banned. You're not helping your case, here.

Are you going to advocate for prison guards to be allowed to fuck prisoners too?
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>>34071240
What the ever loving FUCK are you talking about? Why is your first thought when two consenting legal adults dating are brought up to bring up pedophelia? What the fuck is wrong with you?

Many of our grandparents and parents had big age gaps and lived happy lives for 80 years and died together
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>>34071251
I’m not saying those things are good or bad, only that there are worse things than age gaps. ALL relationships, even same age ones in a church group, can go sour. Age gaps are bottom rung for actual power imbalances, a young woman holds all the power because she can just go online and defame the guy if they break up.
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>>34070974
I met mine bc she lives next door. Had no idea she felt that way as I often hang out with her parents doing yard chores and dinner, camping, etc. One day I was helping her dad build a fence and she walked right up to me, told me she loved me and asked me to take her to prom. I said no bc that's insane. Year and a half later I guess she still had feelings. Im pretty sure its limerence as she was apparebtly completely love struck and i was all she talked avout. Her parents talked to me about it. Mom seemed fully on board with me dating her if I wanted (i never indicated that I did and was apprehensive about it for reasons you said) dad seemed a bit more on thr fence but they both really like me and I guess shes had 2 bad relationships in the last 2 years with these Chad's and they were kinda open to the idea of someone that's a little more respectful/mature.

Its only been a few months so I dont know how its gunna pan out long term but so far so good.
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>>34071375
Marry that girl, anon
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>>34070974
eh i feel like youre just jealous, im 31 myself, and if a girl is beautiful i really couldnt care less about age, if anything seems more like younger girls tend be way hotter
and what is this excuse of talking to a chick? like if a 30 yo women would be more interesting to talk to lol, keep coping, you sound a like some buddy who impregnated some chick in high school and never actually dated at all and is now coping
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>>34071168
No, there are definitely guys that get mad about it. I think they are mostly hiding their jealousy of guys that pull it off.

This guy right here for example is performatively acting like he doesn't want fresh teenage pussy. >>34070974
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>>34071495
yup i think the same, guys like this are clearly just seething jealous bc he cant get laid and young girls dont find him attractive
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>>34070929
>Do people really think this way irl?

You're really going to let a bunch of virgin zoomers and 40 year-old spinsters brainwash you?
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>>34070929
I can only speak for myself, personally. I'm 35. I I could never date a teenager. I find the idea in and of itself repulsive. They are, for all intents and purposes, children to me. I have nothing in common with an 18 year old girl and the idea of being romantically involved with someone that has a strong father/daughter component to me is foul. The maturity gap between us is so vast I don't understand what it is we'd even bond over. It also sounds just exhausting to hold someone's hand through periods of growth and maturing that I experienced almost 20 years ago. That being said I know a lot of dudes in their 30s who I wouldn't be freaked out to find are dating 18-19 year old girls because they are also mentally 18-19. Its more of a maturity gap issue than a physical age issue for me. Again, I'm not universalizing. I'm just speaking for myself.
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>>34071599
>I have nothing in common with an 18 year old girl

I swear they watch the same movies, tv, netflix, or even podcasts.
They also read the same books.
Listen to the same music.
Eat the same food.
Vote for the same candidates
Speak the same language
Deal with the same issues, whether it's climate change, housing, the price of commodities, job market, the emergence of A.I. etc

If we really follow your logic, we shouldn't have romantic and friendly relationships with immigrants, even if they're of the same age.
I mean, we don't really have anything in common with them.
They grew up in a different country, they have different beliefs.
Different language and culture.
Different food
Different religion etc
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>>34071495
I dont even register the faggot men who get upset because I know dollars to donuts they would fuck some fertile teen pussy if there was absolutely no way for it to backfire on them. I have a friend whose like this and I find it hilarious that he tries to be this bastion of moralfaggotry when I know he'd fold like any healthy man would.
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>>34071645
>I swear they watch the same movies, tv, netflix, or even podcasts.
>They also read the same books.
>Listen to the same music.
>Eat the same food.
Yeah, when I say things "in common" I don't mean like hobbies and tastes, I mean like the substantive things that sustain a relationship - maturity, worldviews, ethics, temperament, communication skills, decision making etc., For me, personally, listening to the same music and eating the same food is like absolute surface level relationship material. I can have that in common with a middle schooler. Having those things in common doesn't say to me that a relationship is going to work, merely that we have the bare minimum common ground to begin spending time together.

>If we really follow your logic, we shouldn't have romantic and friendly relationships with immigrants, even if they're of the same age.
If you followed my logic you'd see that I said several times I was strictly speaking for myself. I don't know why you felt the need to compulsively defend a position I explicitly said was personal just to me. Date whoever you want, anon. I don't care.
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>>34070929
You're not a pedo, but you're still a creep.
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Why don’t people date their age?
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>>34071699
Conveniently leaves out voting and having the same problems.

>I don't know why you felt the need to compulsively defend a position

You posted on a message board where people can respond and present contrasting views.

It's ok to say you literally have no objective points.
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>>34071699
That's because you're trying to DATE them you retarded fuck, im trying to FUCK them. Bitches in their 30's can barely connect in relationships so you honestly think a teen can do better? That's where you idiots get things confused. Most older men want to FUCK younger women, not DATE them unless they're that mature that it leads to marriage
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>>34071702
Oh please, I once took my teachers panties and nutted in them on a school retreat. I've been a creep.
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>>34071703
You girls are hotter and not jaded by life yet (at least the pnes that had a good home life
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>>34071733
ok cool we're in agreement then.
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>>34071717
>You posted on a message board where people can respond and present contrasting views.
I didn't say "You can't respond to me". I said that I didn't know why you felt the need to compulsively arguing against my "logic" when I explicitly stated I was speaking for myself. My logic was a framework for my own decision making, not yours. I said it very clearly a number of times but you decided to get offended and defensive anyways, pretending like my own personal way of dating and living was a personal attack on yours. Its just a strange bit of projection is all.

>It's ok to say you literally have no objective points.
I did say that. Verbatim, like four different times. Its also worth mentioning this entire subject is subjective. Who you would and wouldn't date for what reason is by definition 100% opinion based. There are no objective points.
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>>34071729
>That's because you're trying to DATE them you retarded fuck, im trying to FUCK them
The OP literally said "Is this something I have to worry about irl at 31 if I start DATING 18-20 year olds".

>That's where you idiots get things confused.
I specifically responded to OP who used the word date. Improve your reading comprehension, anon.
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>>34071742
No shame in my game
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>>34071699
OP here, you just sound like a fag and seem like you’re looking for a boyfriend and not a wife. What fucking married couple is talking about geopolitics and philosophy regularly? You’re not supposed to have everything in common with a partner even of the same age, and very little in common with women in general.
>>34071702
How so?
>>34071729
Speak for yourself I’d date 18-25 easily
>>34071699
Your “logic” is saying only immature men date younger women and it’s flawed. Plenty of mature 18-25 year olds that want serious relationships with mature men. The fact that you attack fellow men makes it seem like you’re a woman pretending to speak as a man
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>>34071771
see >>34071733
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>>34071771
>Speak for yourself I’d date 18-25 easily

This why I said the majority anon. There will always be a subset of guys who want to actually date and not chase flesh
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Something to consider: no man who CAN date younger complains about those who do it. People like>>34071599 calling them “children” are just secret pedophile weirdos. Like imagine that, calling them “children” with a straight face as some hot 20 year old is throwing herself at an older man somewhere in the world right now. If you’re reaction is “ew yucky children” instead of giving the guy a high five you may be a pedo. As for women complaining it’s pure jealousy. Imagine thinking a man can get the holy grail of women but can’t fuck a 40 year old for fun also. Wild stuff.
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>>34071782
I’m not the anon stealing panties from people you fucking retard, I’m the OP.
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>>34071815
Kek, they were just comparing you to me for some reason anon.
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>EWWWWWWWWW THAT FULLY SEXUALLY MATURE ADULT 18 YEAR OLD IS A CHILD!!!!
How many people who talk like this would actually deny 18 year old pussy?
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>>34071835
Its mainly middle aged women that say it bc theyre jealous. Its something they cant ever be no matter how hard to try, they cant grt their youth back. If a guy says it he is also likely just jealous bc he cant pull
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>>34071815
yes. and you're the same guy
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>>34071599
makes sense desu
i look a lot less old than other guys my age so i could easily see myself with a younger girl, i can see guys your age looking like old father figures obviously its weird
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>>34071771
>OP here, you just sound like a fag and seem like you’re looking for a boyfriend and not a wife.
Feel free to completely dismiss my opinions. I don't care.

>What fucking married couple is talking about geopolitics and philosophy regularly?
I never said or even remotely implied that being able to talk about highly academic or esoteric topics was a necessary component to being in a relationship. You're arguing with someone that isn't in the room.

>You’re not supposed to have everything in common with a partner even of the same age, and very little in common with women in general.
Agreed. I never said anything that would imply otherwise.

>>34071771
>Your “logic” is saying only immature men date younger women and it’s flawed
My logic was that I personally choose not to date teenagers. If you got offended by that then you chose to do that all on your own.

>The fact that you attack fellow men makes it seem like you’re a woman pretending to speak as a man
Kek. You're not my "fellow man". There's a lot of immature dudes out there. If that offends you then maybe ask yourself why.

>>34071811
>calling them “children” are just secret pedophile weirdos
I think its even more weird that you choose to get wildly offended over a personal preference that was not even remotely directed at you. Also, "If you don't want to have sex with teenagers as a middle aged man you're probably a pedo" makes absolutely zero logical sense. What a wild swing and a miss with that one.
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>>34071894
I’m not but I accept your concession
>>>34071896
in what world is 35 old? Are you samefagging yourself?
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>>34071914
>in what world is 35 old?
Age gaps are relative, anon. Remember when you were 8-9 and teenagers seemed like incredibly old and mature to you? Its the same concept. 35 isn't old but if you compare that to the average maturity and development of a 14-18 year old the gap can seem worlds apart. It works the same way on the other end. I'm 35 but I'm sure I seem like a kid to a 70-80 year old. It just depends on the context.
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>>34071921
So because someone SEEMS older, you can't engage? Nigga there are guys at my job who're only 5 years older and SEEM more mature. Are they? Whose to say cause I don't fucking know them but even a 35yr old would feel young to a 40yr old, doesnt change the fact they're both legal.
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>>34071912
>Feel free to completely dismiss my opinions. I don't care.
I did
>I never said or even remotely implied that being able to talk about highly academic or esoteric topics was a necessary component to being in a relationship. You're arguing with someone that isn't in the room.
“ Yeah, when I say things "in common" I don't mean like hobbies and tastes, I mean like the substantive things that sustain a relationship - maturity, worldviews, ethics, temperament, communication skills, decision making etc.,”
People aren’t discussing any of these things in real relationships, even good ones. I was being sardonic but the point stands.
>Agreed. I never said anything that would imply otherwise.
We are not in agreement, going off yur quote
>My logic was that I personally choose not to date teenagers. If you got offended by that then you chose to do that all on your own.
By demeaning those that do it as mentally immature? This is like saying a rich person needs to be poor in spirit to date a poor person, it’s retarded.
>Kek. You're not my "fellow man". There's a lot of immature dudes out there. If that offends you then maybe ask yourself why.
I don’t think you’re a man at all, honestly. I’m not offended, I’m perplexed, because many men like you who virtue signal anonymously about stuff like this need their hard drives checked. Doth protest too much?
>I think its even more weird that you choose to get wildly offended over a personal preference that was not even remotely directed at you. Also, "If you don't want to have sex with teenagers as a middle aged man you're probably a pedo" makes absolutely zero logical sense. What a wild swing and a miss with that one.
Who got wildly offended? Calling adults “children” makes you seem like you have children on your mind, I agree with that sentiment. If an attractive 18 year old was all over you you would very likely fold and stop virtue signalling. Also on what planet is 35 middle aged?
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>>34071928
>So because someone SEEMS older, you can't engage?
I literally never said that.

>Nigga there are guys at my job who're only 5 years older and SEEM more mature. Are they?
That's why I said "average maturity". Maturity varies person to person.

>Whose to say cause I don't fucking know them but even a 35yr old would feel young to a 40yr old, doesnt change the fact they're both legal.
I never said anything about anything being illegal. I find nothing illegal or immoral about a person in their 30s dating a 18-20 year old. I really don't care. I swear you people don't actually read anything before getting upset over it.
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>>34071930
>I did
Cool. Conversation over. I have no interest in going back and fourth with someone who doesn't even bother to read what I write before becoming hysterically upset over it.
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>>34071934
I read everything you wrote, you’re just mad I refuted everything you said. I accept your concession though.
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>>34071914
wait you are that annoying anon spamming
*i accept your concession* everytime someone says something you dont like and you are fucking 35? and write itt how mature you are and this is why you couldnt date young girls?

kek
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>>34071938
No I’m OP, where is it being spammed I wrote it twice? Losing arguments makes people melt down in these threads huh
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>>34070929
it's coming from a bunch of dead egger late 30s women who are mad they spent their best years sleeping around and working on their "careers", instead of getting a man in their lives.
it's nothing more than copium from women who will never have children.
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>>34071942
theres one annoying retard anon who uses this phrase all over 4chan, it has to be only one person, nobody use this gay childish phrase
how old are you, i wouldve assumed you are like 21 kekk
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>>34071952
So not only are you retarded, you’re a schizophrenic. No wonder you can’t crush 20 year old pussy.
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>>34071959
im literally non of the anons above i just saw this gay phrase you used and then saw its in a thread where some guy above said hes 35 and too mature for young girls and i was laughing to myself kek
grim someone as retarded as you is old
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>>34071981
I’m not 35…
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>>34071936
I freely give my concession because it was never an argument. I just expressed my personal ethos for living my life and you had a hysterical meltdown over it and pretended like you were being personally attacked. Enjoy your day.

>>34071981
>some guy above said hes 35 and too mature for young girls
100% correct, yes. I find nothing sexually attractive about teenagers, most notably their behavior. I'm sure there are some very mature and intelligent 18-20 year old girls but I don't even hang out in places where they congregate. All of my friends and acquaintances are middle aged professionals in their 30s and 40s, married or with kids themselves. I just went to one of my best friend's daughter's 17 birthday party last week. I practically raised this girl myself. Viewing her or her friends as a potential romantic/sexual partner disgusts me. Feel free to disagree as this is just my personal life experience. It is very suspicious, though, how many posters in this thread are absolutely enraged by what I'm saying. I think that's kind of weird.
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Bro, just fuck them who cares? If it is legal and she likes you that's all that matters. Don't ever let some keyboard warrior or blown out whore make you feel bad for liking legally aged young women. As a man, you should be chasing this as they are more fertile, more likely to not have little to no mileage for pair bonding, you can show her how the real world works before feminists and colleges indoctrinate her, etc.
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>>34072000
how old are you
kek
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>>34070970
>Why did this suddenly start happening?
We invented the internets, which allows idiots to be exposed to all the dumb idiocies in the world.
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>>34070974
>Where the fuck would you even take an 18-20 year old?
When I was 30 and very heart broken, my friend introduced me to a 20 year-old friend of a friend. We were together for about 3 years. I say about because she traveled a lot. You could say she was mature for her years and I wasn't. But I really did notice a difference in life experiences. I did a lot of things in my 20s. She was only starting to do those things. It bothered me more then her.

I mean, both my grandfathers were 10 years older then their wives. But life was helluva different, before WWII.
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>>34071599
>That being said I know a lot of dudes in their 30s who I wouldn't be freaked out to find are dating 18-19 year old girls because they are also mentally 18-19. Its more of a maturity gap issue than a physical age issue for me.

I think this is the case for most guys in their 30s who feel attracted to girls in the 18-20 range. They either have a very young, energetic mentality themselves or else they are "late bloomers" who never managed to date around when they were in that age range and are mentally still stuck on that period and are trying to get it out of their system. I don't think there's anything wrong with either as long as its consensual, nobody is being abused and no laws are being broken but I will admit that the latter can sometimes feel as though they are fixated on younger women not as a human being with her own agency that they are incidentally attracted to but as a device to fix their own issues. Sort of like "if I can get a hot young girlfriend I can finally move on from feeling like an inadequate high school loser whom no girls were interested in".

There is also a third type of older man who dates younger women which is the divorced/widowed guy with kids. At that point he's basically done everything that is expected of a man, got a house, got money, a car, got married, had kids who are now adults, etc, and is now just enjoying life which also involves indulging in some young pussy. Think Hank Moody from Californication. I'd wager that most anons on here aren't this type though.
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>>34070929
Why would you want to date small titted bitching nagging inexperienced poor pimpled teens anyway?
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>>34071645
>we shouldn't have romantic and friendly relationships with immigrants
correct
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>>34072684
Why would you want to date blown out saggy titty wrinkled holes anyway?
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>>34070929
I don't personally have a problem with older guys dating younger girls of legal age and don't think it makes them pedophiles but I personally understand the maturity difference issues. It's one thing to see a pretty blonde 19 year old at a festival and chat her up for a one night stand or several because she's hot and gives you a boner but it's quite different to actually date one long-term. Despite what some anons say about mutual interests being timeless, there's going to be pretty concrete differences in personal values and desires (besides sex) that will be difficult to get past. Again not shitting on age gap relationships, if you're in one then more power to you, but the one time I tried it I very quickly started getting annoyed. It's fun for several months but like it or not an 18 year old and a 32 year old are at very different stages of life. One is just getting started exploring the world and the other is facing down the reality of needing to find their footing in the world.
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>>34071599
In reality, your head is just very deep up your own ass. You think at 35 (lel) that you're this insanely mature man who has it all figured out. I highly doubt this is the case though.
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Over the past few decades, we've lost the community structure and education systems that churn out proper adults after high school.
Now schools are shallow, low effort, and extended another decade for some bullshit degree. thoroughly zogged.
So upon graduation, people, especially women, have struggled with the concepts of adulthood because they simply arent aware and prepared for a life better than mundane corpo cog shit or worse yet NEEThood ("ugh ! adulting is sooo hard!", disney adults, extreme gamers, etc.)
But lately there's a resurgence of 'trad' or at least neutral household goals. less "socially ambitious" young women, in that sense. Mostly out of economic issues but also frustration with frivolility and lack of purpose.
It's only worthwhile and virtuous if you maintain good graces with her family, and have the resources to support her and a future together.
Otherwise you're just a manwhore.
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>>34071811
to be fair younger women do look way more childlike nowadays compared to the start of the century
I was watching die another day with my gf and it turns out Rosamund Pike was only 22 when filming that movie
bitch legit looked like a modern-day 30 year old woman
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>>34072945
A quick scroll through nsfw tiktok would fix this deranged worldview. You may also be projecting some kind of weird pedo stuff. Seek help!
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>>34072969
I actually have no problem with you guys wanting to date younger women if you feel like it but this kind of hysterical defensive posturing whenever someone says something less than a 100% positive about it really does seem like actual pedophiles projecting
so maybe you should seek help. and stay away from schools while you're at it
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>>34072980
Are you the same guy from before? The 35 year old talking about hysterics? Why are you still here samefagging? For someone who doesn’t have a problem with it you’re glued to this thread

>N…no you!
I don’t use the word “children” for adult people like you weirdos do so no good sir you may actually be the pedo. I’ll say a prayer for your gf while I’m at it.
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>>34073000
nope not even 30 yet
I just saw this thread while bored and decided to check it out
and you're still super creepy dude, nobody normal should be getting this worked up over people pointing out that teenagers are supremely immature and people look younger nowadays than in the past
if you wanna bang legal teenagers knock yourself out, nobody is stopping you and you don't need to check this thread every five minutes to reeee at people who aren't on board with the idea
oh and you still should stay away from schools
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Because it's morally wrong to want to fuck someone 10 years younger than you dumbass this is fucking common knowledge
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>>34073020
>Morally wrong
How so? Common knowledge where? Britbongistan?
>>34073016
Not reading all that pedo
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>>34073037
>pedo calling others pedo
Oof
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>>34073049
>N..NO YOU
I’ve never referred to an adult female as a “child” or commented in how “childlike” they look. Deep soul searching and therapy may be in your future, pedo
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>>34070929
It's called social engineering. They don't want normal fags to smash young and fresh pussy. The elite want all to themselves (not just money and wealth). A lot of "high status men" are probably fucking 14-15 year olds. Plenty of rich and filthy who are enjoying that young and unjaded pussy. All you gotta be is rich or a chad with high status. This world run by a bunch of pedophiles...
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>>34073061
No you just started reeeeing whenever someone said they don’t want to fuck children. You creepy pedo prick.
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>>34074529
There you go again calling adult women children again! Someone check this pedophilic freaks hard drive before he goes after an actual child!
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>>34071599
Women are for the creation of children you secular idiot.
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The only people against this are 30yo roasties who forgot they were supposed to settle down before they lost their value and zoomer boys who are getting outcompeted by older men at an astronomical rate. You can ignore their opinions
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>>34070970
Why did you start acting like pedophiles about the age gaps you're seeking? Why did you start fetishizing particular ages instead of falling in love? Dumbass frog.
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>>34070974
No you dumb whore, it's because they don't want retards like you with the "experience" of sucking a hundred thousand dicks of ex-cons and thinking it gives you the "experience" to be a shitty narcissist slanderer to everyone you meet. Die in a fire.
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>>34075632
Speak for yourself, jesus freak.
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>>34072773
>You think at 35 (lel) that you're this insanely mature man who has it all figured out.
I'm convinced nobody on this board knows how to read
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>>34075587
A teenager IS a child you dumb fuck. We even have separate categories for young children, teenagers and adults. And I even specified that I don’t care if you wanna go fuck a legal-age teenager, I just wouldn’t do it myself and find it uncomfortable. But your closet pedophile self was so triggered by the notion that there are people on 4chan who DON’T want to fuck teens that you immediately sperged out and started projecting. Hard.

Seriously, stay the fuck away from schools. And kids in general.
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>>34075712
>the "experience" of sucking a hundred thousand dicks of ex-cons
You fantasize about weird shit, anon
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>>34075632
The middle ages called. They want their barnyard theology back.
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>>34075772
An 18 year old isn’t a child. Never did I state anyone should fuck a below 18 year old, I’m American. If you can start an onlyfans, join the military, vote, buy a house, be jailed as an adult, etc etc YOURE AN ADULT. Whether you like it or not, they’re adults. “Ew yucky I’m old and they’re young eeww” isn’t a legal or moral defense you just sound like someone who’s afraid they can’t control themselves around ACTUAL kids.

The only singular person who said the word “child” is you, you have children on your mind when looking at legal and sexually mature adults. We can keep going back and forth but you very likely have some kind of actual latent pedophelic tendencies and should seek help.
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>>34070974
>Where the fuck would you even take an 18-20 year old?

to my bedroom?
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>>34075709
>You can’t fall in love with someone younger than you within the legal age IT HAS TO BE ABOUT SEX
Foids do a really poor job hiding themselves in these threads
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efaggot, if you are not attracted to children why would you worry about this.
anon, you are either retarded or a pedophile
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>>34070929
>>34070952
>>34070970
it's literally a russian psyop to lower fertility and destabilize gender relations by labeling ALL heterosexual men as pedophile predators for liking 18-20 year olds

they have bots like this >>34070974 everywhere on the internet
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>>34071038
because they are literal bots
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>>34070974
>like a loser who can't hit any home runs in their own bracket.
most men aren't excited by sleeping with women outside their prime (18-22). You can't like it's desperation and not a preference
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>>34071699
>I mean like the substantive things that sustain a relationship - maturity, worldviews, ethics, temperament, communication skills, decision making etc., For me, personally, listening to the same music and eating the same food is like absolute surface level relationship material.
you're literally retarded
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>>34076922
I worry about it because even though they’re adults, people unironically call people pedophiles for dating them.

Chris Evans is 44 and married a 28 year old and people call him a pedophile and shame him unironically. I’m not interested in anything younger than 18
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>>34077114
it's not "people" it's mostly americans that do this. and almost entirely it's millennial women, simps and zoomer incels. zoomer girls themselves don't care, especially if you frame it in a way that they are being infantilized (which they are)
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>>34070929
In 40 years, she'll be taking care of grandpa.
It's dooming someone to a half-life of elder care in the long run. You won't grow old together and you're guaranteed to leave her without you to help navigate her own final years.
That is, if she doesn't leave you decades earlier for someone more relatable who can still keep up with her in her cougar years when you're getting your AARP card in the mail.
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>>34077024
>you're literally retarded
Extremely compelling argument
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>>34077114
>Chris Evans is 44 and married a 28 year old and people call him a pedophile
Gonna need a citation on that bud



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