I finally got a gf after 26 years of inceldom and I don't get how this is supposed to have improved my life.We had sex and I felt like a gigachad for a while, but then I realized that I didn't actually change and that it actually doesn't matter whether I stayed a virgin or not.I really would rather be alone and not have to deal with other people in my life. It's kind of hard to break up with her toughwever, even if it's making my life miserable and sucking all of the joy out of it.How do I get myself out of this situation? This chick is crazy and keeps telling me she wants to marry me and that we must have this and that for our marriage. I don't fucking want to get get married. Help.
>>34073627youre a fucking retard man, its obvious why you were an incel
>>34073627I’m gonna make an assumption, you have autism. Your default mood is misery, negativity and chronic anxiety. You avoided people because of this, like a cat licking its wounds in a secluded corner, but you felt all alone. You thought finding someone would lift the misery but lo and behold all that changed is you went from being a miserable single man to being a miserable man in a relationship. And now you think you can ease the misery by running away back to being a single man. Not gonna happen OP, what is gonna happen is you go back to being miserable and alone just like before. So you gotta think hard, pepe poster. Which is the least worst outcome? Miserable and alone, or miserable and with a woman and making a family? Both outcomes = misery but one has more to show for it than the other. Which one, pepe? The smart answer is you pick the girl and the marriage and possibly having kids. Because at least then your misery will count for something, it will have meaning and a purpose. If you back to being a hermit, all your suffering will be for nothing. Seems stupid.
>>34073627>>34073649Actually fuck that before you answer, how long you been dating? How long you known her? How quick did she drop the marriage idea onto you?
>>34073627Run
>>34073627>We had sex and I felt like a gigachad for a while, but then I realized that I didn't actually changeWhy would you? People tried to tell you man, you guys never listen to us.
>>34073649You wrote bunch of bullshit. Great recipe for a disaster.
>>34073693It’s because young guys like OP got duped by narcissistic influencer losers and posturing dickheads on social media. He fell for the Chad meme and got duped into believing that masculinity = ability to get pussy. OP forgot that if you define manhood using pussy as the value then the conclusion is eventually the man becomes a pussy
>>34073704Yeah I know thats why im backtracking and asking OP how quick has his chick been pushing marriage. I got the feeling OP crossed paths with a psychotic mentally ill chick maybe.
>>34073649She doesn't want kids, she wants to own 5 catsAt least when I was alone I had peace. I feel like I live in a constant state of misery where I can't even rest now. Because i'm either constantly worried about having to give her attention or thinking about what's the best time to end this whole charade.>>34073650We've been dating for about a year and a half. But she has been talking about marriage since like 3 or 4 months in. I've known her for much longer, but she had a boyfriend for the majority of the time i've known her for.>>34073712No, I just felt like a fucking freak for never having sex at the tender age of 26. If you tell this sort of thing to normalfags IRL they look at you like they've seen an alien. Or they'll assume you are lying. It's not just the dudes either, woman are the one who are the most repulsed by late male virginity. The girl i'm dating didn't even believe me until it was clear that I had no fucking idea what I was doing.
>>34073724simply dump her you retard and go back to your gooning to anime girls or whatever. people who are this socially retarded should not be in society at all.
>>34073740you need to kill yourself. op is alright
>>34073724Have you asked if that is what she wants from you, nonstop attention? >She has been talking about marriage 3 or 4 months in.Hmm, a bit quick but not crazy quick depending on variables. >26. If you tell this sort of thing to normalfags IRL they look at you like they've seen an alien. Or they'll assume you are lying. It's not just the dudes either, woman are the one who are the most repulsed by late male virginity. The girl i'm dating didn't even believe me until it was clear that I had no fucking idea what I was doing.I’ll be a man of good faith and say I believe you. But honestly its surprising to me, i got no clue what culture or country you are in but where i am from no one cares about it. Because it’s weird as fuck to have opinions on someone else’s sex life or lack thereof, it’s gay and intrusive. Besides this marriage thing, she a decent girl? Treats you well?
In an ideal relationship there would be reciprocity outside of just "she gives me sex".I'll say this OP, a lot of people jump into relationships just because it is expected of them, or they want sex, or they want someone to pay for their shit and most of the time people aren't honest of what they really want which explains the current dating crisis. Naturally, this being your first relationship, at the very least you learned about yourself and what you're ultimately looking for. A lot of people would envy having that girl as their gf but you shouldn't stick out for it if that doesn't bring YOU happiness.
