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Is there any point in continuing life if you're lonely, haven't ever had any real friends your whole life, not liked by your family and never had any romantic relationships?
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believe it or not, yes.
most people are gay retards. you DON'T want them to like you. it's a bad sign, and a bad influence on you.
plus, just because you haven't had friends or lovers before doesn't mean it won't happen in the future.
plus, a life on one's own can also be very beautiful. it just requires some getting used to and adapting, learning new ways of seeing and acting in the world.
i have the good fortune to have three good friends who care about me. it doesn't make a particular difference on my life. if i didn't have an individual goal or mission, i would probably just goon until i died.
the only thing friendship really did from me, apart from some material help every now and again, is that it showed me that good people exist. this was very useful to me because i thought i was the only good person on the planet, and that sense of isolation can be crushing. but when you meet another good person, a genuinely kind and loving person, it's like experimental proof that the loving and gentle instincts in your heart are natural and belong in this world. and this will help you live more fully. this was my greatest gain from deep friendship. and desu it can be learnt in many different ways, not just this.
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You need to find peace and happiness being alone, because I'll tell you it will get worse if you don't. Once you find peace and happiness being alone, this oddity of the guys you hang out with at work going to parties without you won't effect you, along with seeing the girl you have a crush on having sex with every mean hardcore guy in town without you. The moment you become happy alone you strip away all the evil power people have on you. You'll be so powerful no narration in a story can write you.
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>>34073991
>tripfag is a mental cuckold
pottery
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>>34073675
Sometimes
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>>34073675
Making friends has a lot to do wth luck so dont be bummed about it
Add me on Discord if you want! Im MrBlanko
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>>34073983
>just because you haven't had friends or lovers before doesn't mean it won't happen in the future.
If I haven't made friends or even come close to romantic partners in my 20+ years of living going through high school, college and multiple work places then what exactly is the likelyhood of that happening after 30?
>i have the good fortune to have three good friends who care about me. it doesn't make a particular difference on my life.
Doubtful.
>>34073991
>You need to find peace and happiness being alone, because I'll tell you it will get worse if you don't. Once you find peace and happiness being alone, this oddity of the guys you hang out with at work going to parties without you won't effect you
The problem is I'm lonely despite not being alone. I wish I could live alone, can't. Nothing is more depressing than seeing guys on your campus or work place hanging out meanwhile you'll always be an outcast who fits nowhere besides some niche online places. And even there you don't really form close bonds with people.
>>34074363
How old are you?
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>>34074647
That's a muscle you need to build on.
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>>34074647
>How old are you?
I am 19 !
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>>34073675
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IEJfWqYUfao
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>>34074647
>If I haven't made friends or even come close to romantic partners in my 20+ years of living going through high school, college and multiple work places then what exactly is the likelyhood of that happening after 30?
much higher than you think.
true friends are an extreme rarity, so any encounter with such people will necessarily happen in exceptional (aka non-normal) circumstances.
>Doubtful.
take my word for it.
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>>34073675
yes, dummy
that's a shame & i'm sorry, but please don't give up



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