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I've had a lot of fights with my family bc they act like it's their mission in life to keep me boring like them. They wouldn't let me date any of the guys I liked because they were "bad influences" and kept trying to make me meet guys at their church.

So I moved out. My dad won't let me take my car (which he gave me for my 16th birthday but kept the title in his name) unless I agree to wear a promise ring.

I don't have any plans on wearing a promise ring but I do need the car. If I take the deal but he finds out I didn't stick to the promise ring could he take my car back?
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>>34073974
Yes obviously, but personally you sound like you want to make a bunch of bad decisions, so I’m with your parents on this one. Sure, you don’t have to date the dudes they want you to, but they’re probably right about the dudes you’re choosing being bad influences.
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>which he gave me
>but kept the title in his name
That car isn't yours. He played you.
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>>34073974
>Has a car lined up for them
>The one thing they have to do is not fuck guys that will probably abuse them and traumatize them
>"What the fuck am I supposed to do guys holy shit!!!!!"

Holy kek
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Your parents only want what's best for you. Have some decency.
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>>34073974
>I don't have any plans on wearing a promise ring but I do need the car. If I take the deal but he finds out I didn't stick to the promise ring could he take my car back?
Yes. Because you’d have broke the deal, so he takes it back. Anyway your dad can take that car back at any time because he paid for it and probably pays the insurance on it. Your dad could just decide you don’t get the car anymore and you can’t do shit about it. But he most likely won’t do that, because you are his daughter. That is why he made the deal, to at least tell you: “Please do not fuck blacks, stoners, alcoholics, serial cheaters, playboys, and mentally ill men or men twice your age. Please have patience and marry the man first before having sex because this filters out the bad men from the kind men. Bad men won’t wait for marriage because they only care about using you. Strong kind men will wait for you because they care about you first and foremost.”

But you probably won’t listen anyway because that’s how life goes. You won’t see the wisdom in this shit until after you make permanent mistakes and you’re 30 years old. Then you’ll learn the hard way and you’ll have kids and try to teach your own kids the hard way.

Your parents did the same shit you are doing now OP. They made the mistakes, fucked up, and dont wanna see their daughter repeating history. At least respect that.
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Sounds like bait.
In case it's not: your parents are wrong. The only way for you to be as boring as they are is for you to see what's outside your lifestyle yourself and nope yourself back to privilege
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>>34074382
Okay but it's practically mine. I've had it for three years, it's full of my stuff. Anybody who looks at it wouldn't assume it belongs to my dad.
>>34074539
They want me to live like the pilgrims and be chaste until I die of boredom.
>>34074556
What's wrong with having some fun and then eventually settling with a nice man?
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>>34075011
>What's wrong with having some fun and then eventually settling with a nice man?
Yeah you ruined it, you made the bait too obvious now. Women don’t use the word “settling”. That’s a guy-ism. YOU DONE FUCKED IT.



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