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Why is “just ignore bullies” mostly bullshit advice? It doesn’t seem to effect them
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The person giving it doesn't care about you.

You're going to have to make yourself hard to mess with so they no longer want to go through the trouble
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Bullies have control three ways over you: mentally, physically, and legally. Ignoring and telling on them is bullshit, because mentally and legally you are still their bitch.
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>>34074746
It depends on the bully. Some do just want drama/attention and won't escalate, but most will so it is overall shitty advice from people who weren't bullied
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>>34074746
Take martial arts and fuck them up
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>>34074746
There will always be bullies in your life, people with power over you. They can beat you, humiliate you, or ragebait you. And 9 times out of 10 there's nothing you can do. Except not let it bother you. Because your mind is the one palace which no man or machine can reach you, the one place where you are master. Even if they kill you, they can't take your mind. That's why mental manipulation and defeatist propaganda is so widespread. They want control over your fucking mind. DONT GIVE IT TO THEM. You have to harden yourself
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>>34074746
Sodomize your bully at gunpoint.
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>>34074746
Only advice I have is to shoot up the entire school. Hope this helps.
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>>34074889
>>34074887
I’m in Poland ..
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>>34074746
They take that as a challenge and they already know you're a little bitch so not one they're going to lose
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>>34074746
that advice comes with nuance
it helps the first days or even weeks but if they are serial bullies or if they have their claws on you already it's not going to work
but it does work with casual bullies
serial bullies are another matter and those are the worst but not much you can do about them, if they have you in their sight you're done for.
I dealt with a wide variety of bullies growing up and even a bit in college so I'm speaking out of experience
casual bullying only proceeds when they see you're bothered by it
but people who are addicted to bullying and are looking for their next target are another completely different problem, one I don't have a solution for ever today, telling on them rarely works unless you really make them change schools or something very drastic that really takes them out of your life.
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>>34074916
Buy a BP gun then. Loading takes ages so they're legal here.
Six shots is not enough to shoot up a school, but you can certainly intimidate someone with this.
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>>34074916
God damn it.

>>34074889
It was a joke CIA.

But realistically. You'll be dealing with bullies your entire life. It's bully or be bullied. Might makes right. History is written by the victors. Blah blah blah.

If you are planning to stick around get used to it. Cope with substances. You won't find anything remotely resembling justice in this world.
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Wish I had advice. Some of the bullying I've received back in school fucked me up for life and I'm only now reclaiming some of that thanks to therapy on working on myself extensively.
It kinda depends on if you have parents/teachers who care enough and you can trust enough to turn to about this
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>>34074959
Someone's fucking up their reputation if their internet history is discovered.
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>>34074777
Checked
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