A few months ago, I saw the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. She was smoking a cigarette at a punk show, quiet, observant. I loved her vibe instantly. My heart was beating out of my chest.We had matching style, matching energy. Everything felt right. She kept drifting near me, staring at me, dancing close. My god. She made me feel things I’ve never felt before.I never talked to her.Fast forward to last night. Another punk show. I see her again, this time playing solo acoustic guitar. Only about fifteen people there. She was just as beautiful as I remembered. Her voice was angelic. And even though she kept looking at me, clearly aware of me, I still couldn’t talk to her.I tried. I really did. She even came outside after I did. I was alone, smoking a joint, and once again I had no fucking balls to make a move. I swear she was waiting for me to say something.This messes with me because I’ve worked hard on myselfmy health, my body, my mind, my life. I have my own business. I play solo acoustic guitar too. I never thought I’d freeze like this. The moment was begging for a simple “great set,” and instead I pretended she didn’t exist.We’re both musicians. The music she played is exactly what I’d play. I felt like our energies just fit. I would sacrifice my soul to play a song with her.Now I don’t know if I’ll ever see her again. Part of me thinks about going to her next show, but I’m scared I’ll be even more nervous, even more desperate. Itll also feel coordinatedSo here’s the question: is it creepy to email her? She has a public contact page. No private snooping. But still. it feels wrong. Like admitting I saw her, she saw me, and I was too afraid to say hello.It just feels bad, man.Heads = do email herTails = don’t. it's creepy.
>>34075019Oh shut the fuck up and quit all the melodramatic jibber jabber and get the email sent, do it now.
>>34075019>is it creepy to email her?Not at all, do it!
>>34075019ok incel
>>34075097>ok incelI'm not OP, but... Do us a favor and KYS
>>34075111literal over the top incel blogpost about faggot guy talking about how hes hot shit but still couldnt even talk to a girl that was oooh so hot shit and totally vibin but somehow he still couldnt somehowyou are either a faggot or lying opnever saw a more classic incel plebbit cope post than op
>>34075063>>34075071OP hereYou guys are right, I know I should "just make a move". .. But, I could've / should've done that last night tooHow do I even start it off?"Hey, you don't even know me. But I saw you last night. Im too much of a pussy to talk in person but here I am out of nowhere searching you up"Seems a little fucked right?Even in spite of the wishy washy shit I say, how do I recover from worst case scenario if she calls me a creep
>>34075132kys little lying bitch incel i know its you >>34075111keep coping annd smoking your mama boys joints bc your life is so retarded and the only way to not shit your pants is being high, incel
>>34075019This you?
>>34075118That's literally how it went though?I wont deny the faggot part. I get its pretty whiny, but it is no lieIm not making it up, I just genuinely feel like I missed my infinite chances with a 1 in a million girl. The type of girl that keeps you up at night. I just feel silly and stupid, and I wonder if I should hold back from coming off too desperate for either the email or the next chance I even get to see her
>>34075118I'm not OP, retarded. Your IQ is bello 80 for sure. I even specified I wasn't OP cause I had this feeling you were mentally impaired, but it didn't help, did it? By the way, my comment was checked, 111, you should really KYS
>>34075150shut up you little nigger, op is a bitch if you disagree youre probably a bitchincel tooconsider going back to plebbit if this literal incel blogpost touched your heart you are maybe 90IQ
>>34075137>kys little lying bitch incel i know its youImagine thinking anyone that replies in the thread is OP. KYS
>>34075150>I even specified I wasn't OPbc people on here would never lie and exaggerrate right you low iq faggot?
>>34075154>you are maybe 90IQ160 BTW, you are 73 IQ subhuman, I bet you're brown.
>>34075158>bc people on here would never lie and exaggerrate right you low iq faggot?You think everyone that replies to you is OP, KYS, you're mentally impaired and doesn't even know how to use this website
>>34075156uh yes thats what people do in their own thread you retarded plebbitor
>>34075132You just write the email as follows:>Saw you perform a while back. You left a strong impression on me, and I got a strong urge to ask if you wanna hang out sometime?”Thats it, no theatrics just a hint that you dig her, no self pity, no monologuing cheesy shit like you are peter parker talking to himself as he swings arlund NyC like a main character syndrome having ass. None of that gay hipster shit.Just be blunt and straight to the point. You like her, you want her, you want to take her out show her a good time. That’s all.
>>34075160more like 60 you little bitch incelkeep simping to some fag and telling other to kys though you little bitch its what you expect from a 60iq faggot who thinks op cant write in his own thread twice
>>34075174>I got a strong urge
>>34075194Because of the implication. But seriously ladies love it when a man shows compulsion, makes her feel all special and sexy and super VIP pu$$y coded or something. If she gets the idea that the man couldn’t help himself, that there were forces beyond reckoning that drove him to chase her, the woman will feel like a goddess. Cuz that to women is genuine, they feel attractive if the man cant help but chase her. Gets women right in their ovaries,
>>34075019She's out of your league and already has a boyfriend.An attractive woman who is sort of a public figure is like that gif of the girl getting hit in the face with a bunch of hotdogs.She gets creepy emails every day, you'll just be one more she sends to the spam folder.
>>34075019Just do it
>>34075176>>34075168Newfag, KYS, I won't read your huge rant, lol
>>34075174>>34075233I sent the email last nightover 12 hours agoI still dont know if it was the right choiceOh well
>>34077237YES, good. GOOD. Well done for sending the email, you got my respect. It was not the right choice, it was not the wrong choice either, it was simply a choice. And no matter the outcome the important part is you used your spine and grew a pair of balls to ask a girl out, that’s all that matters. Good show and well done.
>>34077282Aye thanks manI wish I had more nerve to do it in person, but I guess we will see what happensIt was kind of basic, kind of short and sweet like this (heavily changed):-----------------Hey <name>I saw you preforming at <blah blah>, I really liked your setI think you have a wonderful voice, I liked the cover of <artists> song you didI play guitar too and I songwrite, if you would ever like to catch up about music / songwritting, id love to go to a show sometime take care,----------------This is heavily altered, but its basically the structure of the email. I dont expect a response any time soon, it's kind of stalkerish to just randomly pull up an email like that,but ayetime will tell
>>34077305I think the important thing is to not be a pussy irl when you see her again. You have nothing to lose and the rejection will not make you feel nearly as bad as this does, if it comes. Doubt it though. IF what you say is true she probably liked you too. Good luck.
