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Can damage and trauma, particularly from men, ever be healed? Do people just learn to live with the mental scars?
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for everything that happens on this planet, the opposite can also happen.
just like a house is built, it can be torn down.
just like a house is torn down, it can be rebuilt.
just like how a person is healthy, they can be damaged
just like how they are damaged, they can be healed again
everything conceivable is possible in this world
the question is not if it is possible, but if it will happen
for it to happen, several things are necessary
you need to get in touch with your body-mind and first give it space and openness enough to heal
then you need to conscious strive to heal
then you need favourable external circumstances to aid the healing process
if that happens, you will heal without fail, taking as much time as it is proportionally necessary relative to the extent of the damage.
be patient and kind with yourself, and dare to dream.
godspeed.
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no, sorry. men trauma cant be healed. women trauma is easy to heal from though
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>>34075739
Yeah, it doesn't really go away, but you learn to dismiss the negative thoughts and move on with your day. The trauma responses are still there, but it gets easier if you are aware of them and how they affect your behavior and can compensate for that
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>>34075753
This is painful to read
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>>34075739
No it cannot be healed, and that’s because it doesn’t need to be healed The trauma is the healing itself. It’s your brain’s way to remember danger so that you can avoid it or fight it in the future, it’s a defense mechanic. Once you understand that you stop fighting with it and you are able to live a more dignified life.
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>>34075739
>Can damage and trauma, particularly from men, ever be healed?
Yes. The source is a non-issue.



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