how do I make friends? I have spent my life trying to get into social groups whether through sports clubs, work, church, video games, and other means but have failed every time ultimately. I then tried starting my own groups and inviting people to do them but again nobody showed up. How can I make friends or what am I likely doing wrong?
Be happy being alone, and this won't happen. Start by not caring if people say you're ugly but your mother says you're handsome.
>>34075888Are you likeable? Do you know the "ethic" of the group, what they like and value? Who do they ratchet up the hierarchy, and do you embody those things? Are you personable? Ride Uber and choose someone top rated for "engaging conversation" and learn their ways.
>>34075981This is impossible. Life without other people is empty.