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I'm 30, gay, working in software. Highly functional autistic. This means that I despise normies because they're both unintelligent and hypocritical, but I've learnt to mask so that I can coexist with them when required. At the same time I love those few interactions with people who aren't NPCs - people who can have serious discussions, who contribute to a fun atmosphere. How the fuck do I date? Things I've tried:
>apps
Spent shitload of time there, no results.
>going to a bar
Hate it there. Too loud, too many people, most people already in groups.
>going to a sauna
I've never met anyone, but it's the only place I don't hate going to. It's quiet, chill, warm, and everyone's naked. I show up once in a while, but it's difficult to actually connect with anyone.
>use network of friends
First, I have very few friends. Second, the friends I have don't know really know many other gays. But I know that trying to meet people organically is the best way to filter out useless normies, because friends of my friends should already be people who have decent personalities, which is why I keep trying to maintain contact.

I'm terrified that I'll spend my entire life alone. When I'm 30 and still single, this stops being a vague abstract threat, and starts being a real problem.
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You sound like an insufferable cunt. No wonder nobody wants to be your friend.
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>is gay
>despises normies
Let me guess, aka breeder cattle?

Being gay is literally a choice
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>>34076021
You sound like an (...) cunt

Then why don't you fuck me
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Become a monk
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>>34076010
Hang out at the local park or behind the Circle-K after midnight like all the other faggots.
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>>34076010
>gay
Being gay is a choice. Many of those that claim to be gay were either abused, have demons, or parasites in them.

>How the fuck do I date?
First try to cure your gayness, then find a women to marry.

>working in software
Cool, is is the language learning software in the photo? That's very cool, I am actually starting to do a SaaS related to language learning myself.
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>>34076010
I won't read threads that can't seem to get to the point and that arrogantly assume that the reader has nothing better to do than wade through all of their preamble.
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>>34076010
you should have known better than to get serious advice from 4chan, you are going to get spammed by christcucks and tradtards about how being gay is fake.

so how do you date? maybe go be friends with other gay people instead of thinking that you're better than everyone else. you have an obvious chip on your shoulder.
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>>34076737
>go be friends with other gay people
How? I've tried coming to some "LGBT not-sex meeting" but the only person that was willing to talk to me was a 70yo dude. Less than zero interest from anyone close to my age. I've tried signing up for some LGBT sports club, but they told me they don't have any free spots. I've been attending furcons but nothing happened there.



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