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>soon to be 27
>khhv, never been on a date
>if I ever manage to date a girl, no matter how much younger, she'll have years of boyfriends and hook ups
Tell me why, and I mean seriously why, I shouldn't do a Christine Chubbuck at this point
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>>34076499
You could realize that your raging insecurity about dating a woman more experienced than you is a choice and stop being such a raging autistic incel.
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>>34076519
Is insulting me supposed to deter me?
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>>34076549
he doesnt care about you and he doesnt want you to get better

he says that to mog you yet again and masturbate his ego
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>>34076549
A lil tough love to break you out of the self pity spiral

I mean, would hearing that you're totally right , that it's completely over for you and you have no control over anything make you feel any better?
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>>34076573
>I mean, would hearing that you're totally right , that it's completely over for you and you have no control over anything make you feel any better?

if you don’t have a retarded muhh hard work goyslave mentality it unironically should

liberating thinking system
don’t cry because of failure if you were never in control in the first place

but again most people are working goycattle and pay taxes so
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>>34076585
Why do you feel like you have to cry about failure at all, in any mindset. Seems a bit defeatist to me.
Existence is suffering for everybody and the world is profoundly unfair and stacked against us. You can either choose to carve out a little piece for yourself or rot in an impotent pit alone in your apartment (parent's basement). That's really the choice, not that you'll achieve all your dreams and nothing will ever be bad again and that (((they))) will be struck down forever or whatever.
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>she'll have years of boyfriends and hook ups
You know that there are girls who are weirdo NEETs just like you who've never been fucked, but you don't want those girls, do you anon. You should shift your mindset from worrying about whether or not a girl you're interested in is a virgin, and start thinking about what sort of woman would actually be willing to have a relationship with you. If you're 27 and are KHHV, you don't exactly have much justification for being shallow, whether it's for looks, money, virginity, anything.
>>34076585
NEET cope is really something else. How does having money (much more than your handouts) and independence make me a slave again? Oh yeah it doesn't, and you're just running on pure cope and revisionism.
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>>34076635
>Existence is suffering for everybody

untrue
stupid solipsistic cope
just because you have it bad doesn’t mean nobody has it good

there are people for whom every morning is like a Christmas present ready to be unwrapped

sadly that’s not me tho
but pretending like you can just grind yourself into happiness is just compliance to the government so you keep spinning the wheel like a hamster meanwhile they import illegal niggers and print money
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>>34076499
>if I ever manage to date a girl, no matter how much younger, she'll have years of boyfriends and hook ups
this is false unless you're going for a mega stacy, specially now that gen z aren't fucking
it gets rough once you hit 30 and all you find are single moms
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>>34076644
>How does having money (much more than your handouts)

more =/= enough
what even is the point of working when you can’t afford to OWN a property to your name and go on a 2 week vacation once a year?
pretty slave like in my opinion
what are you working for? more work?
genuine question
because yes you do make 3 times 4 times as much as a neet gets with gibs but this is still 5 times 6 times too little to afford any decently comfortable lifestyle
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>>34076648
>gen z aren't fucking

genz males arent fucking
but genz women are probably the most promiscuous generation in the history of this planet
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>>34076499
>soon to be 27
I won't read threads that start with a birthday announcement. Get to the point and state the advice you want next time.
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>>34076659
citation needed, what i found online doesn't specify
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>>34076657
How long have you been a NEET, and have you ever had a job that you could support yourself on.
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>>34076686
I am not a neet officially
I actually study 2 degrees in college but considering I will be inevitably replaced by AI soon (econ and law) I already preemptively checked myself out from the society mentally
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>>34076693
So you're still in college and have never held down a job that you can support yourself on.
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>>34076699
correct
and looking at the environment I am already resigned
when I graduate the salary I can expect is basically like 3rd of what I should be making to afford a house (not to mention a wife, kids, vacation etc) and that is assuming I will get hired in the first place (which is highly unlikely)

and I am both too prideful and weak to go work manual labor like construction or something

I would rather rotmaxx and play videogames on government gibs

or if I’m really spiteful Ill do PhD just to leach off even more from the government
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>>34076644
>and start thinking about what sort of woman would actually be willing to have a relationship with you
Nobody
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>>34076719
You've only ever been a dependent and yet seem to feel so confident talking about working life. It's difficult to take someone like that seriously when they are still virtually living with their parents.

The marginal utility you gain from NEETdom to wagie in terms of quality of life is disproportionately more impactful to someones life satisfaction than going from median to wealthy. You severely undervalue basic human drives like autonomy, competence and the ability to talk to your peers without shame because you're not some parasitic shut in.
The existence of inequality, of people like Bill Gates or Elon Musk, doesn't mean that other people can't live satisfying lives.

It honestly just sounds like you're looking for excuses to give up. To continue living in whatever peter pan world you currently live in. Are you afraid of growing up?

>and I am both too prideful and weak to go work manual labor like construction or something
You've done absolutely nothing in life yet. You shouldn't feel above this or prideful.
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>>34076657
I actually really like my job. Going to college and being intentional about getting a degree with actual prospects was a good investment in myself. Yeah if I had to work retail or fast food, that would suck major ass, but I make pretty good money doing something I genuinely enjoy and can feel good about.
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>>34076749
>bla bla bla shaming tactics

don’t care
as far as I am concerned I don’t really interact with my peers and I am 100% fine living with my parents
I like my room
and no I will not go and break my back in manual labor just so about 50% of it goes to the illegal niggers with taxes

don’t care
I was not born to be a slave
I will not work to betabuxx
I will not work to live world a better place because guess what? I inherited horrible clown world

the society should pay me REPARATIONS for how horrible it is nowadays
literally no economic opportunities and literally 0 wife material women so the having family as a target to strive for is also out of the question

I don’t want to work hard manual labor if I don’t have to

I didnt make the retarded gibs system that allows leeches like my to rotmaxx but that doesn’t mean I will not exploit it

play stupid games
win stupid prizes
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>>34076766
I come to this board almost every (sad, I know) and it's quite shocking that I still manage to witness people as pathetic as you. You really, really should kill yourself and say this with wholeheartedly honesty. The sad thing though, is that you won't, you'll just make the same pity-party thread over and over and over until inevitably Hiromoot pull the plug on this shithole. So, to make myself clear: yes, you're pathetic, yes you DESERVE to be alone for being such a whiny bitch, and yes you SHOULD kill yourself.
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>>34076766
>Clown world, it's society's fault, national conspiracy working against me.
>Really I'm just an agoraphobic neet that doesn't want to work

You're just looking for a grand external narrative when the reality is that it's all your personal choice.

There are millions of people, and anons in this very thread, that work jobs they enjoy for perfectly fine salaries. It's really not that hard to reach a comfortable spot in life. You're just incredibly defeatist for some reason, and you've given up before even trying. It's legitimately some pussy shit.
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>>34076791
it’s funny because the only thing your last post proves is that you are an utter goycattle slave

you literally got angry that a person doesn’t want to work (I didn’t even mention the country Im from like)
and you got MAD about it

and it is understandable
you wake up every day early
like 6 am or something
you take public commute to get to your job site
break your back everyday on barely enough to afford your RENT (you don’t even own, you rent from some boomer landlord goodlifer and finance his lifestyle which is no different to mine lol)
after that you take yet another public commute back to your apartment
and you basically go back to sleep because you are too tired to do anything for the rest of the day


and now you got ANGRY that I refuse to submit to this hellish suffering

no man I am out
if you enjoy slaving for your government and wasting your life just to appease your settle down wife it is fine

but I would rater just chill and enjoy free time and leisure

if you enjoy being a cattle slave do whatever you wanna do
but I don’t have to and no amount of KILL YOURSELF on 4chan from a cattleslave anon will change it
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Thanks for ruining my thread guys
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>>34076808
>guys I'm a retarded lazy self-defeatist subhuman that will wallow in bitterness throughout his entire life, are you MAD?
wew, seek help amigo
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>>34077241
at least I’m not brown
Imagine being all that you listed and have shit colored skin on top of that



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