Fembots, do women really hate each other and see other women as competition?
Competition yes hatred not necessarily
>>34076568other girls have never been mean towards me, but men have. men are the competitive victim complex gender.it's also nice when stranger women your age give you a random really nice compliment and then just walk away, men never do that (not saying they should so don't start whining at me pls, but other women do it A LOT which feels nice).
>>34076568I won't read ATOGA escapees or "wondering" threads. Ask for advice next time.
>>34076568>Asking fembots about how other women express hate or contempt They won’t know OP. Women express contempt, hatred, jealousy, disgust in passive ways. Women are passive aggressive, and whenever they want to insult you, it will always sound like a compliment but delivered in a way that’s condescendingly sarcastic or painfully deadpan. >”Oh wow femanon, you really make that big dress look deceptively small.”(hidden meaning: You are fat, and your body is so fat it fills out an already large dress))>”That’s a nice purse, I really like it. You must have got a good deal on it.”(hidden meaning: Your purse looks cheap as shit)>”Your haircut really slims your face”(You are fat, and you’re not fooling anyone with that new hairstyle)>”You look so much better in this lighting”(You’re ugly, and your only look good when you’re less visible to the eye).“You’re not as dumb as other people think”(everyone knows you’re a dumbass)On and on and on. When a woman wants to hurt someone they do is through a false facade of niceness. They’ll especially pull this strat on other women. So fembots/foids/female autists on here aint gonna know this shit because they won’t be able to make those reads.
>>34077115>i'm seething about things i made upOnly a man could be this bitchy lmao
>>34077158See? It’s like you are blind or can’t see colour when it’s described to you, fembot. You’re like a fish in a pond that genuinely thinks other large water bodies dont exist. Fucking fascinating the sheer obliviousness to something so common and well understood. Look it up yourself then, google:>”Backhand compliment”>”Passive Aggression”>”Toxic femininity examples”You’ve probably had so many other women metaphorically spit in your face in your life and you genuinely thought it was friendly lmao
Women have always helped and supported me no matter how close or distant we were. I've never hated a woman and I've only seen them as competition when my bf gave clear signals he was into someone other than me. And that manifested as a private insecurity, I didn't treat her worse nor was I upset with her over something my bf was doing to me.>>34077115Those are classic PUA lines, I've never heard that shit from a woman. It's not that I wouldn't recognize it since men do that shit constantly.
>>34076568Yes, the Easiest way to get a girl is to use this against each other. I'm not even joking. >>34076660Men don't do that to you because they don't want to get in trouble. We would if it were worth the trouble. Plus, I lived long enough to know that when women give other women "compliments," they're really pointing out a flaw. If you don't get it this Family Guy joke sums it up.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LGuml-tc75A
>>34077115You're kinda right. Female bullying is more focused on attacking each other socially.
>>34076568some do, some don't. i'm not competitive and i don't hang around competitive women. i have encountered them, though, and they are nasty.
>>34077115bros projecting his social anxiety HARD. do men do anything but project, eat hot chip, and lie?
>>34077406Yeah, projecting reality.
>>34077406okay fembot, how many close female friends do you have in real life? How many sleepovers with the girls were you invited to as a kid? How many shopping trips or girl’s only nights out on the town were you invited to? When was the last time another girl helped you do your makeup or braid your hair? I’m gonna guess you don’t have many of these experiences if at all. And that would track because you can’t even understand how your own gender works.
>>34077421sorry didn't read past the second word of your post
>>34077432past the second word? why second word? ‘fembot’? Oh i see, its because it was an error and you refused to continue. I’ll correct my mistake.>okay TRANNY, how many close female friends do you have in real life? How many sleepovers with the girls were you invited to as a kid? How many shopping trips or girl’s only nights out on the town were you invited to? When was the last time a REAL girl helped you do your makeup or braid your hair? I’m gonna guess you don’t have many of these experiences if at all. And that would track because you can’t even understand how the gender you want to pretend to be, works.
>>34077421>Oh you disagree with me? You must be a womanOpinion discarded
>>34077421Nta but why do you think it’s even important? Asking from femautist perspective
>>34077421>thinking people keep count of their sleepovers and shopping trips>thinking any of those things are as uncommon for womenI was a pimply fat growing up and even I did those things on a weekly basis with my yaoi girl group. Women are generally properly socialized and put effort into their social lives and friendships unlike men who play video games and masturbate in their free time.It's ludicrous that you're posturing mutual grooming as a luxury for the privileged few, and it says a lot more about men's social lives and relationships than women's.
>>34077461>Nta but why do you think it’s even important? Asking from femautist perspectiveBecause those are all activities that would prove being socialised with other females from a young age onwards. It shows a girl would have successfully fit in, and been “one of the girls”. And this would mean they would instantly know all about what I am talking about, how toxic female behaviours work, what they look like, etc. Because to know it you have to be socialised around it. And if a girl is a shut-in, a NEET, a house mouse and never really kept other females friends, she’ll never have learned about it or experienced it. And such a girl SHOULD learn about it, because she’ll figure out a lot of unresolved mysteries from her past if she does. Like never understanding why the other girls who smiled at her in school never bothered to invite her to anything. (the smiles were not positive, they were smiles of contempt, of sardonic mockery). That sort of thing.
>>34077522Is it possible for me to find female friends in adulthood? Is it worth the time and effort? I feel like it’s already too late and I should just give up and never leave the house. Also nobody ever liked me in the past so it’s pointless
>>34077444>okay TRANNYYou seem like a really pleasant person that others enjoy being around.
>>34077462>Women are generally properly socialized and put effort into their social lives and friendships unlike men who play video games and masturbate in their free time.Until the woman gets married, then she ditches every single on of her girlfriends. Meme as old as time. Also:>yaoi girl groupSo let’s be clear, geek girl group. Which is cool and I’m happy you had your own tribe to hang with, but let’s be real, you and your yaoi group were the outcasts of whatever school or neighbourhood haunted. That’s not normie girl shit at all and you know it.>It's ludicrous that you're posturing mutual grooming as a luxury for the privileged few, and it says a lot more about men's social lives and relationships than women's.I’m not saying it’s a luxury for privileged few, it’s a actually not uncommon, but completely absent from loner girls who have no female friends. Where are your yaoi girl group girlfriends now? They still chilling with you, their bestie? Or have the fucked off and gotten pregnant or married already?
>>34077537Autist female from above here. Does it mean that if I would ever manage to get girl friends, it would be over the moment I get married or pregnant?
>>34077533>You seem like a really pleasant person that others enjoy being around.There it is, THANK YOU. Yes this is peak female-coded fake positivism right here, the backhanded compliment dipped in sarcasm. That’s exactly what females do on the daily to anyone they dislike. Thanks for the example. And if you are a man irl, please get your testosterone levels checked >>34077528>Is it possible for me to find female friends in adulthood?Absolutely, its never too late.>Is it worth the time and effort?I think so. Only you can say for sure but I’ve seen lonely femautist or unsocialised women struggle before and then when they start discovering their own missing femininity, by connecting with female role models or peers they failed to have in youth, they greatly benefit from it and the confidence boost is massive. I think you should go for it femanon. What do you do to pass the time?
>>34077551>Does it mean that if I would ever manage to get girl friends, it would be over the moment I get married or pregnant?Not necessarily. Depends if the female friends you made are also wives and mothers, then the friendships stay around. If not, then it grows apart.
>>34077558It’s hard for me to imagine how I would manage to do that. I barely leave my house and all I do is reading books.
>>34077582Book club. Most book clubs are predominantly female, 80% to 20% majority female. And if that’s not enough there are many female only book clubs. They will typically be local to your area, or congregate around your closest capital city or major city. They will operate using instagram, facebook book, or other social medias. You join online, say hello, and get involved by asking when is the next meet up. Then everyone agrees to meet up at a cafe to discuss books over a quiet coffee or tea, and everyone will read the same book of the month or whatever. You won’t be in bad company either, my estimations show 20-30% of book clubs are autistic membership. A favorite among autists, particularly autist female like yourself.
>>34077606Do you know anyone who actually succeeded? Is it worth the risk of making myself a fool in front of the people?
>>34077444didn't read past the first word here i could just tell you are paid to demoralize
>>34077613Yep, I know of three success stories personally, female cousin, girlfriend of my close friend, and a former college classmate. Success rate is high since all you’re doing is drinking s coffee, opening a book, and reading in a shared quiet space and occasionally talking about the book. It would be near impossible to make a fool of yourself in this scenario, you would have to hit your head with the book repeatedly while screaming like a retard and shitting yourself at the same time.
>>34077528yes it's possible. find groups based on what you like, i have found groups through video games and social media, i know there's tons of book clubs and knitting clubs and stuff. generally just play dumb if you meet one of the competitive backstabbing kinds of women, they will leave you alone fast if you aren't reactive.
>>34077551i won't lie, it's hard to be friends with mothers when you aren't one. not bearer of some stupid jealousy or competition, but just due to the whole... having a kid they need to take care of. your life starts to revolve around your kids and making time for friends obviously isn't a priority anymore. it's natural to grow apart.
>>34077628Good, so there is a slight chance for me. Thanks anon
>>34077664>Good, so there is a slight chance for me. Thanks anonNo problem humble femautist-anon. I think you have better than just a slight chance, you have a guarantee. And all you gotta do is just choose to attend a book club and you’re in. And I really hope that you do because you seemed really earnest in your posts and I think you deserve some good for yourself. Get at it, post-haste
>>34076568Pretty women hate younger women.Younger women will gloat because they're young.Younger women will then become older women, and they'll hate younger women for being younger women.Younger women will gloat, then become older women who hate younger women.And on and on it goes, forever.
honestly most women see each other as competition whether they admit it or not. it seems like the girls who are so on about 'sisterhood' and whatnot are the first to try to steal a friend's boyfriend, posting pictures where they look good and girl friend/s look like crap, etc. it's difficult to have a real friendship, but also because it's difficult to find sincere people in general.
>>34078071True. Never understood this female mentality either. When I see a man younger than me, I feel glad for him. If I see a man older than me, I admire him for his wisdom. If I see a man stronger, I get inspired to reach the same height using his dedication as the example. If I see a man smarter than me, I listen and ask how do they think and what perceptions can I adapt to so I can see what they see. Etc etc. I think it comes to us men from our hunter/gatherer days. It was instinctively beneficial to always cooperate with other men as a tribe to form a hunting pack to maximize chances of survival for all. Women never had such a duty and never needed to depend on other women outside of her own mother.
>>34078178Because women inwardly know their value is in how attractive they are, and age undermines that value. Plus no one wants to be old. Or to get old. If the option was there to look 20 forever, but still die at 80 or 90, most everyone on the planet would do it.
>>34078178With that being said though women themselves have got really neat and impressive mindsets that were just as beneficial and crucial to humanity’s successes too, things that us men either have no clue about or we honestly take for granted. I’m not a faggot feminist or nothing but it really should be said more, people sleep on the innate qualities and skillsets women possess. But the world sleeps on it because for some reason the world encourages or pressures women into emulating men for some reason. (we know the reason its because big corporations want x2 workforce to make x2 $$$$) so they lie to women and make them forfeit their own womanhood.
>>34078188>Because women inwardly know their value is in how attractive they are, and age undermines that value. Plus no one wants to be old. Or to get old.True, and despite what retards say, its not something women inherited from men forcing the expectation on them. Women always been like that and its demonstrably true that the #1 person who shames women for their looks the most is.. other women. Crazy shit. Women are self conscious about their bodies so intensely, that it makes male blackpilled incels look confident in comparison.its because women tie their self-esteem to their security. And a woman’s definition of ‘security’ is entirely different to a man’s. Woman don’t consciously verbalize it, but deep down women fear ugliness or being unwanted because they will feel they will die as a result. It’s psychological death for them. Because no beauty = no appeal. No appeal = no selection of men to choose. (women are the SELECTIVE sex). No selection of men = no husband. No husband = no one to protect them from sickness, injury, predators (beast or man) and ultimately, death. That’s why sometimes if you see a woman who reads a story of a guy who said to his gf “your boob is bigger than the other” the girl will instantly say “If my man said that to me, I would kill myself.” And she’d mean it, too. Women know a loss of attraction = loss of survivability instinctively.
>>34078253Is it worth at this point to reassure your woman that she’s still attractive to you or it’s already a lost cause?
>>34078279its worth it, because even if the woman still fusses and squirms around in the puddle of her own insecurity, the reassurance still matters, its not the goal to make her believe it of herself, goal is to prove that she always has that consistency underneath her, a constant that will always tell her the contrary. That makes her feel secure.
>>34078279Any woman is happy to hear you find them beautiful.
>>34078102Yep>gf talks that shit about the sisterhood>mention another woman, even a co worker>"who is she, why are you sending her memes, etc"Women are that retarded.
I miss being young when I see photos like these. So cute. So careless. So beautiful and horrible all at once.
>>34078516Youth is wasted on the young as they say. The pic has that stink of young person.>liminal melancholy>vibe of not knowing who they are, or where tney belong>living on the periphery of life itself>yet feeling stuck yet free, freely stuck>nothing to do but light a cigarette, so cool. so vogue, so kino, so lana del ray, so kurt cobain likeYoung people are dumb as dirt. Loveable dumb sacks of dirt. Their lack of awareness is never endingly funny too lol.
>>34076568Yes especially towards younger and prettier and child-free and less broken/bitter women. At my mostly male factory job no one ever said anything bad to me or got in my way, other than old lady who snickered at me every time I walked by. At other customer facing jobs with mostly female staff, was constantly sabotaged and made fun of (ofc in ways that you can't prove). One even permanently physically hurt me. The most terrible combo? An older black woman who's jealous of a younger white woman. It's as if the seething can be measured on the riktor scale. Sure women don't grape but grape's rare anyways, really it's women that will get you fired just for not liking that you didn't respond with enough submissiveness in your voice or some shit. My own mother gave young me weight gaining drugs even though I was a healthy weight, and constantly bakes and gives me sweets. You're not even fully allied with your own mother. If they're stuck with a 3 child apron belly, then they want you fat too, just to feel better.
>>34078672Yeah, so romantic. You're right. Most of the time nothing happened. Stupid, I guess. Excuse me. I have to tend to some responsibilities.
