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I have never felt sad when I hear about people dying. I had a lot of close friends and relatives die on me, and sometimes in front of me. A lot of them were surprised because of how unemotional I was.
I didn't think about anything except myself. I often tend to, however, reminisce, and that's when I get sad over their death.
I don't care about how they'd see it, but I get sad knowing I'd not able to speak to them again. Is this normal? Is there a disorder or condition that I have? I've always been suspicious of people who immediately get emotional once someone dies. I don't know.
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you have no empathy. Educate yourself on cluster B disorders, you're probably a filthy narc
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>>34077470
It's that I don't really care unless it's years after, that I can't experience anything with them again
I've always been more likely to get angry than sad but I usually get into tears if I am challenged and then get angry, I don't know
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>>34077440
It’s because you normalised death at some point, or loss, or grief. Like you said, you had a lot of people die on you. Some even right in front of you. That’s normal given the way grief works and how the mind responds to repeated grief, it eventually hardens and loses feeling, doesn’t mean you don’t actually care though. Care is not an emotion, care is a choice. It can either come from unfeeling thoughts, or purely compulsive emotion, doesn’t matter which. You can still truly care while feeling close to no emotions about the dying and the dead. That’s completely normal. There is no right way or wrong way to grieve.
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>>34077470
Midwit post lol “educate yourself on cluster B disorders” let me guess you had a bad breakup and you were angry that your ex didnt want you anymore so you convinced yourself its because your ex must be le heccin personality disordered for even thinking of disliking you, almighty (you), so you swallowed a bunch of fake pseudo-psychological bullshit from YT, reddit, quora and now you spam “cluster B” like a buzzword at anyone who you deem to be not emotional enough.
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>>34077501
found the nasty little psycho
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>>34077605
>doesn't have empathy for narcissists
psychology really is just astrology these days
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>>34077760
Kek, right? I love when these “empaths” pipe up about how they THINK they know what empathy is. But the minute they suspect you are the villainous cluster B, then magically all empathy goes out the window. Which goes to show they don’t have empathy either.



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