Should I really revisit my family ? >be me >argue with family >leave >holidays >emotional guilt >whatdo.pngI wrote them off a long time ago but could I net NEETDOM through it ?
for context these family folk are hypocrites.I could probably NEET it or beat it. but I don't "need it". Fuck. I don't mind struggling. But there's so much instigation that I'd rather ask "the worst" people on earth than reconcile the feeling for longer.
>>34078003>Should I really revisit my family ?depends.>argue with family About what? Was it core beliefs or just a difference of opinion?Are they toxic? > net NEETDOMWhat does that mean?I'd be willing to help, having fully written off my family, but that was due to finding out that just how shitty of people they were after years of piecing it together.
>>34078003Need more context of why you disagree with them. If it's trivial stuff, best to not care too much about it, not worth burning bridges
>toxic?yes >NEETDOMI could leverage the guilt trip, if I'm not too bothered to and become a NEET for the holidays.
>>34078113you realize NEET means Not in Education, Employment, or Training, right?It connotes one who is either coasting on disability or unemployment benefits, or living in your mom's basement playing vidya for 16 hours a day and usually with a diet that comes out of bags, boxes or cans.What do you MEAN?
>>34078155Meaning I can quit trying.As I am doing all of those things currently. I am in all aspects doing all of them at all times. Should I let go of the wheel and cave in to the demands of an annoying fucking family ?!
>>34078163Ok, so you just meant stay at home..You have your own place?How long have you been on "outs" with them?Yes, you can quit trying.You can go full no contact, provided that you aren't being supported by them in any way.What you need to determine is, will what you got/get from them, ALL the good AND bad, outweigh the good it may do you if you never saw them again.Would you care if they all died in a fiery car crash?Would you shed a tear, or be relieved?Keep in mind, if you are just doing it out of selfish spitefulness, that's a far different thing than doing it for your well-being.
>>34078003I wouldn't if you already made it this far, picking a scab like this is worse than being alone even if the jolly visit stays jolly. NEETDOM in situations like these shouldn't even rhyme with the word freedom
