Is it a good idea to take in a cute homeless girl? There's a girl I see on my way to work everyday. Sometimes I give her money and she smiles and says nice things to me.I'm thinking of asking her to move in in my spare room. There would be conditions like she has to shower and keep her place clean.Thoughts?
>>34078582It very much depends on why she's homeless.Inviting someone in from the cold is a commendable action. But just be aware of the trouble that might follow that person.
>>34078582It's a nice thing to do, but prepare to have everything stolen and pawned for drug money
Before you do this, ask how she found herself in the position she's in.Hard drug users like crystals and needles, kleptomaniacs, prostitutes, or ex-strippers, anything like that will fuck you up bad. Might even crab in a bucket you and pull you down to their level tarnishing your good will if you slip up.You find her cute which already tells me you'll be played like the sucker you are. However if she got screwed over by a lover, the family, or something else external of her control then she might be a very good soul. The key is learning how she got there
>>34078582Nothing wrong with being homeless. But if she's a beggar she's almost certainly a drug addict.
>>34078582Don’t do it. Do not under any circumstances do this. I tell you this as a former drug addict myself, do not take in the homeless druggie. It does not matter if they had a tragic upbringing, it does not matter if they have a sensitive core deep down, a flicker of humanity. None of that matters. What matters the most, to the homeless druggie is:>”When will I get my next hit?”>”How can I see to it? How quick can I get it?”If you take her in, you will give her a platform where she gets to comfortably go back to chasing the dragon. Or whatever drug of choice. That spare room will start smelling real funky and have strange ziplock baggies and a few spoons and needles under the bed within a fucking week. And the worst part is you won’t be just inviting her into the home. Unknowingly, you expose your home to her “friends” who she will call over. Aka her drug dealers. And one of those dealers will see you as an easy mark, and your house an easy target. Drug dealer will say to homeless girl “leave his door unlocked when he’s out, we’ll give you an 8ball of coke for it.” And before you know it, half your shit is gone and she’s gone. Don’t be a fucking idiot.
>>34078582to help fellow human being in trouble is beautiful, just make sure that you give not from self less or selfish reasons, but share from self fullness in harmony with your own needs.
>>34078641As a former heroin addict, I agree with this poster 100%.
>>34078716>>34078602>>34078589>op is doing a nice thingWould he be doing this if she was old or a man? He has some ulterior motive here as well.
>>34078641>do not take in the homeless druggieAgreed. Never trust a junky. But OP didn't mention drugs.
>>34078811Yes OP didnt mention drugs. Because homeless chick didnt mention them either. Not a single homeless beggar will ever mention drugs, ever. Because if they do that people wont give money. Druggies know this, thats why druggies hold up signs saying:“please.. give money i am hungry, need food.”And not “please, i am tweaking, i need my hit of heroin, donate please”You can even confirm it instantly. Go up to the homeless person, and pretend you are about to take out a nice juicy stack of $40 or something. And then watch them get all excited. But then stop midway through and say >”Oh, i got a better idea! I’ll go get you groceries, food and provisions!”Then watch them homeless person’s face turn pale and go sour with disappointment like a fucking child beyond told they arent having mcdonald’s for dinner after all. Its broccoli instead. That same look of a pissed off kid.Because now they know:>hit isnt coming>no drug money >no ganja mommi>no fun haha dmt crack pipes :(((
>>34078848Learned this the hard way, never give them money. Some are even spiritualists that try to trick you into some contract. >>34078582If a woman is on the side of the street regularly that's a junkie, and will fuck up your life for the next hit.
>>34078875>Some are even spiritualists that try to trick you into some contract.Yes. Those would be the psycho homeless druggies. The contract is “foot in the door”. They approach you, give you a small token like a feather, or cheap bracelet. They force generosity down your throat and give a fake smile. Then, their hand is out. “I was good to you, now be good to me. Or else you prove you are a bad man, that you used me.” that is the unspoken threat.“I will fabricate my own victimhood in order to use it as a vehicle to either drive to my objective, money and drugs, or, use it to run you over and hurt you if you do not comply”That kind of contract. Demon possessed niggas who did too much salvia or dmt and became infected by devils legion.
Lmfao.
>>34078889No I mean literally people being fully possessed by demons due to their drug use. And trying to get you to agree to some deal with a demon.
>>34078901Oh yeah I’ve heard about that. I recall something about the name of a specific demon, whose patronage was the homeless, some homeless hobos worship this specific demon for quick wealth. Wish I remembered the name.
>>34078582Anyway good luck OP, remember dont be a dumbass. Also learn body language and learn the dark side of the human psyche, how manipulation works. Example that ‘cute homeless girl’ example you posted as your image, you think that face expression is cute and innocent lolduper’s delight is the name for that face. it the face a human makes when they feel“holy shit i cant believe that worked. this guy is a fucking dumbass.” looks like a face on the verge of laughter but struggling to contain it.
OP, listen. You're inviting a (probably) dangerous, or at least unpredictable, vagrant into your abode. You're not doing it to be nice so you can go ahead and drop the act. Do you think you can't get any better pussy than homeless, overgrown bush pussy? As someone else has mentioned, think about why she's homeless. Most likely because no one else on earth can live with her. Sometimes people are just homeless because they're lost and don't know what to do in their lives. That sort of person might be alright (for you, I don't like stinking hippies). The other category of vagrant is the batshit insane variety. That's the vast majority of homeless people. If she's one of them, she'll probably ruin your life and then rob you blind in the middle of the night for drug money and then pop smoke, never to be seen or heard from again. Don't do it, OP. It ain't worth it. All for a little unkempt bush? You're smarter than that, OP. Knuckle head. I don't tell you this enough, but I'm proud of you
>>34078907Not sure if it's the same country, but here it's a piece of shit pimp trafficker demon. They tried to do it to me and made me say weird shit and got me graped. They trick normal people into a contract, the demon does a spiritual wealth transfer, the normal person eventually becomes homeless and the homeless a normal person. The homeless act like the goons for the freemasons and other spiritualists. We need to do a fucking witch burning craze again, pieces of shit need to pay for what they do.
>>34078582No good deed goes unpunished.
Depending on the local laws, you could let her squat on the outside property (verbal agreement) and then reserve the right to run her off if things go south. Something like a cot and tarp would help a homeless person with the elements; be mindful though you'd have to watch for zoning inspectors or neighbors getting on your case.
very dumb idea, she's homeless for a reasongod you fuckers are lonely
>>34078582>>"I can fix her"
>>34078582There was some anon that tried this out and it ended how you'd expect. His place got trashed, shit got smeared on his walls, thousands and thousands of dollars in damage to the whole place and the landlord of his apartment evicted him.
>>34078582don't, i never went this far, but i got scammed online by a girl who claimed she was homeless but in reality was "kind of homeless", at the very beginnings of a fent addiction, and her boyfriend was trying to get her off the shit before he totally kicked her to the curb. at this point, she could very well be dead. only lost $150 bucks, but i look at homeless people completely different these days. they all have stories. all of them are sad, but a lot of them are complete bullshit.
>>34079831Offer food instead of cash. If they only want cash, chances are they did it to themselves and just want to get high. But if they accept food, it's very likely they're just in a shit situation. It's how the good homeless and the druggie homeless are differentiated in my city.
>>34079835I've seen a homeless druggie accept food, act grateful, say "God bless" to the charitable soul who gave the bag of food items and then gets up and goes and pawns off the food to other homeless people for $$$ and then gets the drug money that way lol. The way I differentiate the good homeless from the bad is by finding out whether or not they were offered shelter or housing and figuring out how they responded. The legit homeless people I knew, the kens who didn't do drugs, they were offered housing but declined it, they chose homelessness on purpose. The druggies didn't even bother signing up for the offer, they got no idea how and don't care to know how. The legit homeless guy I knew rejected housing because he was scared of being alone in a home by himself. He was an ex army vet who came home to find out his wife and two kids died in a house fire. So he never wants to go back home. The druggies homeless people don't give a shit about finding shelter really, and they don't want the responsibility because it means spending drug money on rent
>>34079841It's different here. When offering food, you go with the homeless person to the place (often just some simple fast food) or you bring it back to them and sometimes sit with them and eat together while talking about whatever. Some of them are quite lonely and feel shitty enough as it is, so it's a nice thing people do here for them.
>>34078582Don't she'll rob you and or has a homeless bf too
