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>I’m a swimmer (not professionally, just a hobby)
>I post photos of me in swimsuit, on dating apps
>pickrelated.jpg
>I match with a girl
>She ask why I’m in a speedo
>I say I like to swim and to show off my body
>I’m really fit
>She ask where I like to swim
>Name a local sport center
>She says I’m a sick pervert because there’s children who swim there and they shouldn’t see a grown man in a speedo
>Before I can even reply, she block me

How the fuck can I stop being so pissed off at that BS? It take me so much time to get a match, and she has to just troll me like that!
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>>34078899
She never liked you
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>>34078943
Thank’s capn obvious
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>>34078969
Well it wasn't a genuine match then. You're still waiting.
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>>34078899
Okay well... Why does it u bother you so much? It's over isn't it?
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She's the equivalent of the guy who blocked an eager girl because he felt she was too fat. She's into this ultra righteous celebrity guy who she can have cocktails with in some island in Greece while talking about how god awful American society is. Ditch that bitch right away. In fact stop giving a fuck of women who can't have common sense. Fucking Hell it's the same exact story as had you had a tab opened on a furry hentai site and she discovered it one night. Women who can't accept the flawed nature of humanity in men and themselves are fucked in the head, and deep down inside they don't want you to be as fucked up as them. So just keep trying to find the right one who will gladly go swimming with you.
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>She says I’m a sick pervert because there’s children who swim there and they shouldn’t see a grown man in a speedo
Is that like the common moral opinion of the women in your area?
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>>34079607
It's the opinion of women who base everything off of doom and gloom media instead of being present. Like if it was socially acceptable to flail your arms and scream and go in circles after hearing bad news these women would take it. The reason why this all happens is people refuse to toughen women to handle the shit men can handle. I almost bet to you she is from a high middle class family and frowns upon poor people unless she can do it for attention. Definitely not a type I like.
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What kind of disappoints me is women are willing to overlook gang members committing crime but the moment some socially awkward nerd commits a crime they go all in and start scrutinizing the fuck out of him.
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>>34078899
If you're in America then your first mistake was posting pictures of you in a speedo. Americans are SUPER against speedos for some reason. Like they're the literal worst thing you can wear there. They're also super against briefs on men but briefs are just underwear so that's different.
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>>34079676
social norms aside it's funny how bikinis are basically just speedos but paired with a bra on the upper body and completely socially acceptable. and to make it even weirder literal thong bikinis are acceptable but not speedos which cover the entire ass
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>>34079738
>and to make it even weirder literal thong bikinis are acceptable
tbf i'd much rather look at a woman's bare ass cheeks than a man's bulge
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>>34079775
As a gay man for me it's the other way around. Cover your ass cheeks woman! On the other hand please bring on the bulge my dude I can't get enough of it oomph!
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>>34079592
You can understand why that's incredibly annoying especially when women in general are not even giving you the chance for a date but will give ten chads their throats for free use
There is very little social cohesion right now and I don't understand what these women think is going to happen in the near future.
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>>34079607
>Is that like the common moral opinion of the women in your area?

Absolutely not but I heard thing like this before
>Men shouldn’t go alone at the skatepark, because it’s creepy
>Men shouldn’t teach children, because it’s creepy
>Men shouldn’t be allowed alone in the club because it’s creepy
>Men should only wear baggy clothes so we don’t have to see the shape of their bulge
>Men shouldn’t be allowed alone at swiming pool because it’s creepy
>Men should only be allowed to wear baggy swimsuit with a t-shirt
>ETC…

It’s bot common, but there is a small anoying minority that will bully any man they can.
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>>34079738
except the speedo I’m wearing is basically a contraction short to allow better blood flow on the leg muscles.
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>>34080232
*Compression short

Mabad
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>>34078899
Just ignore it op.
You are going to a swimming location and wear swimwear to specifically gi swimming. Especially if it's just compression shorts like the op. If it's tight but ball hanging speedo, well, there are just going to be people uncomfortable with that because they don't want to see your dangly balls.
Some people grew up with a phone in their hand and they just want outrage and to judge and then move onto the next thing. Treat it like a retard on any other type of social media.
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>>34078899
You're bothered by it, which means you weak
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>>34080759
If I had a match every day and that cunt behaved like this, I wouldn’t care.

Now this was my first match in about 2 months, so yes it does bother me!
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>>34078899
she was mad jelly. This is pretty common for foids anon. Haters gonna hate
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>>34081645
>She was mad jelly
Of what? The children who get to see a grownman in a speedo?
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lol who cares about the opinion of some hoe in a cock buffet app bro
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>>34081948
Because I wish it was a tacos buffet!
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>>34078899
that's not a speedo. if you really have pics in speedos or go in public pools in a speedo you should be arrested
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>>34080224
Never heard that. I'm assuming that you live in a more restrictive community than I do. If you're really hearing that kinda talk you're living in the wrong area to be posting your swimwear for attention.

Then again I'm literally at the beach all day.
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>>34082560
You are so fucking stupid
Have you never seen divers? Mem wear speedo and women wear body suit that let out their buttcheeks.
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>>34078899
>She says I’m a sick pervert because there’s children who swim there and they shouldn’t see a grown man in a speedo
she sounds like a fucking lunatic, stop worrying about what lunatics think
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>>34083422
Yeah but I wish I could meet a woman that wasn’t a lunatic and also liked swiming.
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>>34083894
Go to where you swim.
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>>34084054
It’s a sport center, that would be considered creepy to hit on women, as they are there in there sport swimsuit with their ass hanging out and they have a strict no harassement policy. All it takes is one bitch who act like a cunt, and I’m permabanned!
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>>34084221
Oh. So the bitch calling you a pervert had a point.

Gyms allow women to wear skintight leggings. You're obviously using your looks for attention in a dating profile. That's gross for your culture.
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>>34078899
>How the fuck can I stop being so pissed off at that BS?
What are you 12? What do you give a shit about what some random stranger on the internet has to say? Of what importance is it?
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>>34084268
Online dating= ok to hit on women
Hitting on women at sport center = not ok
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Speedo?
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What is a speedo?
Is it droggo
Whenever you go
Do the sweemo



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