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I know more than half of the posts here are about anons complaining about women, but I wanna ask how I can even start trying to find a romantic relationship. The only time I’ve tried was in 8th grade when I was politely rejected. Covid screwed up my social life, I went to an all guys high school lol, chiari also killed my social life until hs final semester, and now I’m 2 years into uni with no experience. It’s a majority girl school but I’m scared if I tried it wouldn’t go well. I don’t know how to talk to women and online dating is a scam. How do I even start?

I also fear I might not be able to hold a relationship or that I might fuck things up, but I’m tired of not even trying.
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Try restating your social life.
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>>34079989
I have some guy friends I’ve reconnected with last and a few I made at uni, but they’re basically in the same boat or have just given up
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>>34079979
I don't know. But when you finish uni it gets even worse. Jews totally fucking destroyed our society
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You have to expose yourself to being awkward and being rejected. In uni, talk to girls in your class, better to go in with no agenda.

It's like learning an instrument, you will only learn by putting in practice. Only real piece of advice anyone can give you is to convince you to put in the practice.

I suppose I could also add, when socializing, try to maintain some awareness of what you're feeling, don't know if that applies to everyone, but it helped me to discover how anxious I really was and to find my way to being calm and present.
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>>34079979
You don't start with romance. You start with acquaintanceship/friendship and build from there. Get to know women in a non-sexual setting - workmates, classmates, neighbors, church, etc.. Hit it off with one, and THEN ask her out
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>>34079979
>It’s a majority girl school
>I don’t know how to talk to women
How? Are you just sitting in a corner panting like some squirrel?



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