I want to get breast reduction because people talk to me like I'm a slut and judge me a lot when I have never done anything slutty and I dress modestly.I told my bf and he tried to dismiss it like "just don't even worry about what people say they don't matter" but it's just too frustrating the way older women speak to me at work all day.I got a binder, and I've started wearing it. I switched to more gender neutral clothes, not for trans reasons but just as an experiment and people have been talking to me more respectfully and don't seem to judge me as much anymore.It kind of makes me wish I could be genderless, because I don't really want to be a guy but I just feel like I'm not suited to being a girl because I can't handle these mean old women.My bf has noticed and he's started bringing up a lot of religious stuff to persuade me away from thinking that sort of thing, but it's just really a night and day difference between how they treated me before I started presenting gender neutral and how they're treating me now.Is it a sin to try to be an enby aesthetically (I know I'm not genuinely between genders but I just like being androgynous).Pic unrelated, I did have a guilty pleasure of imagining my bf as the big guy and me as the small guy in a yaoi type daydream though.
>>34080604You're being tricked by your autism femanon. You weren't being talked to as a smut because of breast size you were being talked to that way because you were talking to shady people but you didn't know they were shady because you are naive that's par for the course for autism. A d you know it's autism because you think gender is performative like a performance you seem to think how you dress or physically appear determined gender that's why when you put on a binder you started feeling 'enby' or whatever that means. You are not envy you are a big breasted girl who constricts her mammary glands using a tight garment that's all. No it's not a sin to dress or appear 'androgynous' if this were true then saint Joan of arc burns in hell. Luckily it's not true and she remains a saint. I think you are simply a girl who has a really funky way of verbalising stuff and it worries people and you become misunderstood as a result. The quickest solution to your first problem to avoid being talked to like a slut is stop talking to strange men online
>>34080604It is not a sin, you're just presenting differently to get away from those comments. I imagine your bf is upset because he likes your huge tits. Maybe you can just bind at work and be natural around your bf
>>34080609You would understand that if you were in her place. You put a top with a slightly bigger cleavage and you are guaranteed to get unwanted attention. It’s bad for a woman herself but imagine her partner who has to deal with that or to even protect her.
>>34080604Yeah in orthodoxy is a sin for a man to even dress as a girl and the opposite too . The right thing is this - don't give a fuck what some witches are thinking of you Normally I would ask for your nudes but you have a boyfriend so go to him and hug him . Just your thought of transitioning is already "cheating" your boyfriend. This thought implies some things in my opinion You re soulless , you re godless , you re a meat blob and not a person , you don't love your boyfriend at all . If you are still a normal girl with a normal bf then the only normal advice is to be normal . Be fucking normal , love your bf , live life
Basing your entire life on what social groups think of you will drive you to misery. It'll make you weary of people who weren't problems to begin with. Dependent on people who will drive you down a dark rabbit hole. It'll put you in such a bad position you'll be more and more dependent on it until you die. Unless you truly love the outfits you get and the people around, ditch that bullshit going more for being independence being above elitism. There's a reason as to why I'm into data analytics, and that is to be above this people pleasing shit.
>>34080604Wear baggy clothing. A single breast reduction is a bigger crime against humanity than the holocaust.
>>34080779>You would understand that if you were in her place. You put a top with a slightly bigger cleavage and you are guaranteed to get unwanted attention. It’s bad for a woman herself but imagine her partner who has to deal with that or to even protect her.Don’t have to imagine my woman is extremely blessed in the chest and I already know women don’t consider it a blessing they consider it backache and titty sweat and unwanted attention. I get that part, yeah. But so what? Who promised them life was going to be 100% trouble free, risk free, pain free? Find me who promised that and I’ll show you a charlatan. I don’t have to imagine being partner to that I already am and it doesnt take a lot to protect the girl. If you see a guy staring, you just stare right through his eyes its that easy. What did you think would happen in real life? A hollywood bar fight and having to fend off 5 assassin rapist ninjas?
>>34081340How often does it happen to her? I mean the staring. Did you make it clear to her that showing too much is not allowed and did she obey you or not? With my lady I literally had to train her as she’s a nice D cup lol but eventually we figured it out and I feel more confident for her to walk around on her own
Why are women with big tits always such mentally fucked up retards? I hope your bf mans up and gives you an ultimatum before you fuck yourself up forever
>>34081488>How often does it happen to her? I mean the staring much less often now than when she was single because she never travels alone without me and she can finally relax because guys won’t risk looking when I’m around. >Did you make it clear to her that showing too much is not allowed and did she obey you or not?Didn’t need to she already had that DLC preinstalled into her mind from her upbringing. She did however try to test me and say she wanted low cut cleavage shit, and I told her she absolutely could but only for the bedroom, and that’s how it went. My girl’s a G cup, so backache problems are something i can believe when women cry about it. It’s good to speak with a fellow bazooka enjoyer. I always say: If the woman’s bra cup is big enough to wear as a helmet, then it’s time to buy a shiny ring
>>34081748How tall are you?
That's why you wear baggy clothes retard. Posts tits before you chop em off, dumb whore
>>34080604>it's just too frustrating the way older women speak to me at work all dayYesSurgery is easier than growing a fucking pair and telling them you'll report themThey will treat you like shit afterward because you wouldn't stand up for yourself also watch your bf quietly hate you
That’s why it’s called survival of the fittest. Breast reduction to appease to pedophiles is absurd.Women always tell other women to be more of a slut. Especially if they’re not married
>>34081748there are no natural g cups unless you are a fattie, this thread is cope fatties also wear clothes easily were their breasts arent out>inbef4 noooooo oblalblblalblaok show pic of sluty looking g cup that isnt fake tits i wait
>>34080604Nobody thinks you're having sex tranny
>>34080609100% this
>>34080604These women do it our of jealousy, don't bother with their nonsense. Women legitimately promote things that make other women less attractive to rise in the pecking order, there was this experiment where a bunch of women went to a random group of hairdressers for the same hair cut and the length of their hair afterwards reversely correlated with their breast size. The hairdressers aren't at fault btw it's just their lizard brain doing lizard brain things, but the sooner you realise that's what those "older women" are doing to you the better. So far they got you to dress differently, now you're considering breast reduction, what do you think what's next?
>>34081748Show da titties
>>34080604Without commenting on the general issue: Be very, very wary of binding. It will ruin your breasts completely. Not because they're smaller, because it has damaged them and caused them to be both flat and saggy. Seriously reconsider binding for your well-being, you will NOT like how they look when your clothes are off.
These mean old women at work are jealous of your beauty and youth. They’re trying to tear you down because they want to establish hierarchy. These are bullies who never resolved their problems.Can you give examples of how they talk to you like a slut?
Post your tits before you slice them off, or thats what I would ask of you if you werent a larping man.Neck yourself, retard.
