>mid 20s khhv friendless dorkIt seems normal for young guys to have friends, to have lost their virginity and to get drunk. I never done those things so with no life experience and being sheltered all my life I know I am an easy target to bully. I can't change my nature of being a socially retarded loner but I can at least make myself more costly to mess with and act more like a normie to fit in. My plan is to start training martial arts and doing cardio. I already play around with calisthenics but I am still a novice so I would like to know what my max rep should be for specific exercise to be strong enough to at least be on par with others.
You're looking at this all wrong, some pushups aren't going to help you with being a weirdo. Punching someone for being normal is going to make things so much worse for you, even if it's the best punch in the world.
>>34081383Like I said, I know it's not ideal but that's the only thing I can improve. I don't plan to go around punching people in the face but building up my body and skill to defend myself and deal damage so they think twice is all I can do.
>>34081401You sound like you need to be bullied, because you're too fucked up to act right. "all I can do it deal damage" is not a legitimate or productive approach to meeting new people. You're not listening and I hope someone beats the stupid out of you.
>>34081431>You can't "act right" so you deserve to be bulliedWhy are normies like that? I have no intention of harming anyone but you wish harm upon me. And if I defend myself I am still "not acting right". Acting right is just code word for not being different. Why should I be crucified for something I never had control of like my early life experiences and genetics?
>>34081556defend yourself from what? has anything ever happened to you? Acting right is not code for being the same, it's code for not being a noxious little freak. You've made a thread that you're going to join the military and asking how you can best train to win a fight AGAIST your brothers in arms. You're disgusting.
>>34081737Have you ever served faggot
>>34081779fuck no, nobody in another country ever did anything wrong by me, if I pick up a gun it'll be a boss who gets it.
>>34081791Okay then shut the fuck up. No your peers in the military aren't your brothers in arms. The enlisted force is essentially high school.Every large demographic consists of good people but the enlisted force disproportionately has more dregs of society, yes, they're still a minority, but the occurrence of dregs is much much higher.I could list story after story but some of them would be highly doxxable.
>>34081803>No your peers in the military aren't your brothers in arms.they literally are, that's what the phrase means. >The enlisted force is essentially high school.yeah, no shit. they're mostly teens.>the occurrence of dregs is much much higher.like OP, for instance. what's your goddamn point? Is it good to enlist with your main plan for relating to your fellow soldiers/sailors/airmen/marines/whatever being to make yourself "costly to mess with" and "deal damage"? because that's OP's plan.
>>34081830>First responseWell, fair point. But you get the idea.>SecondYes but there's a lot of additional factors to consider beyond age. Normal college isn't really like the enlisted force.>Third No. Fuck no. I've met so many guys that were socially maladjusted who would think that they should be obligated to get pissed at every thing they feel would be slightly offensive, even if it didn't actually piss them off.Had a guy in basic. Discord nerd. Everyone hated him because he didn't know what self respect was and thought it meant just raging at everyone for using the wrong verbiage.My advice for OP is socially, let things go, don't make anything socially important. Focus on your fucking job. You can succeed if you actually do. If you have trouble with anyone, snitch. Don't tell anybody you snitched though. Don't fucking fight back, that's just how you get into trouble along with the troublemaker.Do not express interest in any of the girls, and don't even tell your guy friends you have interest in any of the girls because they'll just tell them, and whilst that won't get you in trouble, you'll be known as the creep.Do not do anything that could piss people off. Don't neg, even if you would in your civilian life. A lot of people have the same idea as op, where they feel obligated to have a chip on their shoulder and make a problem out of anything.All in all? This is advice your grandma would tell you: keep your head down.
>>34081950Also basically do not give anyone ammunition to start trouble with you. Don't self deprecate and go "uwu am such a retard". If that reaches a troublemaker, next thing you know he'll start making trouble with you.
>>34081372Go ask /fit/ and get bullied by them. Also, military service won't help with your problems, most army is full of fucking weirdos
