Just go to meetup dot com and meet people they said... are there other sites where events are listed? I quit drinking so bars are sketchy and am currently out of ideas of what to go out and do alone especially at night
>>34082262theres normal groups on there too, just gotta choose on thats already popular
>>34082262Take classes where you talk to each other. Language class is the prime example.
>>3408226220s are ending. i cant imagine going on a dating app or a meetup site after 30 to date.I cant imagine doing it now. It's so over.I just looked at meetup.com and it shows events (20s/30s/40s). I'm imagining some fat reddit guy in his 40s going to this hoping to date some 20 year old girl. Even if I am not that now, I feel that way spiritually attending these things. It feels like a place where losers meet other losers.
>>34082493And yet, girls exist, and they go to those meetups. And if you're a Chad amongst losers, guess who's getting laid? So yeah, stop making excuses you TOOL
>>34083038>girls exist, and they go to those meetups>doubt
>>34083059I've just received my meetup 2025 recap, I'm top 0.64% in my area and attended over 100 meetups, only started this year. I wanted to put my money where my mouth is and test it, and let me tell you - not only are there girls, in the absolute majority of my events the women are the MAJORITY. and I've been to SO SO SO MANY DIFFERENT KINDS of events. So yeah, don't tell me chud, I have the receipts
>>34083080Were they fat? Were they ugly? Were they weirdos? Like female version of 4channers.
>>34083083No, they were literally anyone from anywhere at any time. I'm not even kidding, they were everything. Every type of lady you can expect. I've met thousands of women and that's not an exaggeration.They are humans, you meet so so so so so many different kinds, to think that you would meet only one type of women when going to hundreds of events is insanity
>>34082493>I just looked at meetup.com and it shows eventsbetter than here already, lol
I did meetup over the summer and it was awful. The people that actually go to these public groups are fucking so undesirablely weird and anti social despite it being the point of it all. The only women I met are moms and grandparents with the occasional insufferable fat LGBT thing who sucks the fun out of everything.
>>34082262These meetups always suck because it's usually mostly married people, boring transplants, jeets, or alphabet people goblins.
>>34082262It depends where you live. For me, meetup is 90% old people (50+). I still go because it's better than being alone.If you're in NY, you're close enough to NYC so just go there.
>dude look up meetup>check it>AI dev meeting>Dev meeting>Angular(also something software development related?) master class meetup>Founders whatever(for people who want to start startup, mostly software development ones)>Foreigners in <my country>Is this just what happens here or does this thing work like that everywhere.
>>34088472This happens everywhere but dude, you're a smart guy, just filter those things and ignore them. Just like people, meetup is not a monolith. I've found some really amazing leaders and meetups and friends from that site. 60% of my experiences were absolute incredible, 20% were great, 15% were okay, and 5% was like hmm maybe not again. That's because I do something called - selecting where I go. I don't go to gay shit. If the description reads too strict for example. I try not to pay too much mind to the attendee list although I do check it. It all says panjeet and Muhammad but then I go to the event and they're not there.And if a panjeet does come, it ends up being a really nice person. Why? Because I go to hiking meetups, to conversation evenings, to board games and ttrpg, to bar meetups and dinner with strangers. I go to places with culture, I go to places where subhumans who only want to pick up girls don't go to and guess what? If one does manage to slip through they are QUICKLY filtered by the group. Having an actual disturbance only happened to me 3 times in 100 meetups.Go to the right places and stop stressing out in your brain. The reality is that panjeets bothered me exactly 1% of my entire time on meetups, everyone were super nice to me and the majority are girls. And no I'm not handsome and I'm fat. And no I'm not a social mastermind I only started this March and before that did gaming for 28 years. Still do and I'm 29 now
>>34086719>If you're in NY, you're close enough to NYC so just go there.I'm far enough away that it would have to be something REALLY worth the hassle of spending half a day driving and tolls to the city and gas like maybe a concert or a sports game not some lame ass event I have to pay a website just to view and then pay to go to some strange event I don't give a shit about. IDK the people who use this site must not be very picky about their own interests. One or two people here seem to push this site and it just always seems suspect to me at least not worth paying for in my area.
>>34083059Yes, they are. But you'd rather stay in your cave looking at shadows.
>>34088472It do be like that, you forgot toastmasters.
Holy shit. I found a jackpot!!!A Group Gym class. I really need someone to tell me if I'm doing my exercise poses correctly or not lmao
