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>>34083858
When you witness something horrible, trauma is formed from the wish in that moment that it would have gone differently.

You're essentially contending with that desire for reversal or differentiation of these events.
Trauma is that desire locked in amber.

> Understanding how to prevent it if it happens again.
> Accepting your agency at the time wouldn't have been able to change things even if you knew what was happening.
> Getting through the feelings you held back at the time due to it being unsafe to slow down and feel them.

Really depends on the trauma and to what degree it affects your daily activities of living.
> What's the treatment?
> Well, depends on the wound.
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>>34084297
Do you need advice or...?
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>>34084297
why did you make this thread instead of replying to that one you point out?



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