I turned 28 few weeks ago, never had a gf, but had a FWB relationship with one girl for months. Dated few chicks and made out with multiple, however i was also always jealous seeing guys who were insanely successful with girls.In college i knew a "had it all" guy. Watching him was frustrating. Especially how i perceived ton of "injustice" and "unfairness" when noticing how he just got away with everything and could do whatever.He was really annoying and hateable too, to some other guys as well, had a very gooner and pervy sense of humor, and was often bothering girls with it.Case in point - we were at a bar and one girl suddenly complained to me after making jokes with him and doing your typical "Stooooop it, i haaaaate you" talk, then turned to me and said "look at the stuff that he sends me" and it was just straight up porn memes, girls fucked in the ass as a "joke" etc.He also often said some outrageous jokes and didn't give a fuck about anything, if i tried 5% of what he did, not even how he was touchy with the girls, i'd probably get in trouble.And yet the girls, even though they acted annoyed, were fine with that idiot, some were sitting on his lap, some were doing photos with him and kissing him on cheek and texting with him, fooling around in sexual way etc. also many had bfs and he had a gf at the time as well. It was fucking insane.Later after hanging out with some people i heard that yea, he pretty much fucked all of the chicks we knew, had supposed threesomes and other crazy porn-tier life. Most devastated i was was when we had a few days party at a friends house and he left with the girl i had gigantic crush on to "talk alone" to separate room and were gone for like 2 hours. My mind was going crazy.I was obsessed and jelly as fuck and i wondered how can one become like that, even if you are in your late 20s/early 30s. Or is it over and you have to be born with a huge cock or something?
>>34085763It takes a certain combination of things. You have to be 8+/10. You have to be tall. You have to be confident. You have to be okay with losing a lot of friends and burning a lot of bridges.If you have the physical traits then you can learn the mental traits.What he's doing is he's casting his net far and wide; he's flirting with fucking everybody. He's also being just a little pushy about sex with them. There's a kind of headspace girls (and guys) can get into where they're like "I don't really want to kiss him right now and I'm not super comfortable about it but I'll do it", and that's where he lives.I know a few people like this in their late twenties and early thirties and their lives are miserable. No real friends. Nobody is seriously into them. They can make parties revolve around them but their closest "friends" will ditch them if they stop giving them drugs. You know the boyfriends of those girls you mentioned? They're never going to be his friends. The girls themselves will turn on him eventually when they realise how stupid they're being. Anyone who watches and has a sense of backbone will keep him at arm's length. People like the Chad you described keep moving between new friend groups. There's a much happier medium. You can have lots of fantastic sex with beautiful girls and also not be a sex pest fuckboy. You'll have sex with fewer women, sure, but the sex will be better, and you'll have just as frequent sex, and you'll also have actual friends.
>>34085763following because I also wanna lifemaxx my 30s in hopes that its not over for me to experience something even close to this. atm I'm focusing on getting a hair transplant and also trying to get as lean as possible to try and have a second prime in my 30sI also have a friend similar to yours OP, we have been bros since kids but he was a late bloomer and when we hit our 20s he pretty much became model tier with lean face and sunken cheeks. He pretty much could get any girl he wanted and was living a porn star lifestyle. I pretty much spent this entire period studying and trying to careermax and now I find myself in the same position as you at 28 wishing I had a chance to experience this kind of life when I was younger.FWIW op, a lot of people talk about 30s being prime for men if you set yourself up properly, you won't be able to match the aesthetics or looks of your younger years, but you can make up a lot in maturity, and wealth that a lot of girls find attractive.
Naw, if you weren't chad at that age why would you suddenly become a chad now when you get older aka lose your looks and become less attractive?
>>34085789Looks matter less than people think and my therapist (young dude in his 30s so he's not some delusional boomer) told me he knew cases of people who started having ton of sex after being virgins in their 20s.
>>34085792Yeah in their 20s, not late 20s... I'd say looks matter a lot more than people think but OP is fine, he can get laid but he's never going to be that dude
The only way to really restart your life is when you hit 18 and become a legal adult. If you haven't become who you want to generally be by 30 then you're fucked. Anything you didn't get or do you never will and anything you lose past the age of 30 you will never get back.
>>34085763No you're not spontaneously going to become goofy stud who doesn't care at 28. In fact time is starting to run out for you before your personality crystalizes and you stop forming new neuropathways. You might want to develop good habits and eject all incel cynicism now before you hit 30 or you'll perpetually be an angsty mental teenager for the rest of your life.
>>34085763>i wondered how can one become like that, even if you are in your late 20s/early 30sThe more you know who you are and what you want the less things upset you and the less you care about failure, rejection, problems etc etc. That's literally it. It is no more complicated than that. This is like 75% of attracting women. You can become like this at any time but it require a radical shift in your consciousness through introspective discipline that, like all things worth having, requires actual unglamorous difficult work.
>>34085763Guys, we should create a discord server for guys in their late 20s and early 30s and share tips and goals about lifemaxxing.We could call it: "The League of Extraordinary Chuds".
I was a late bloomer, and yes. It is possible absolutely, you too can get some so long as you're willing to put in the work. You need to take care of yourself and irradiate warmth, do not look to the past there is nothin there for you only the present and the future holds wisdom for you.
>>34086418How about instead of chud you just call it Uncs-R-Us because not all uncs are chuds but all chuds are uncs
>>34085763I know a guy like this. His flirting style is constant never ending negging. It's a viable approach if you can handle the discomfort of constantly pushing other peoples buttons. Literally he never says anything nice. Just annoys the shit of girls and 1/3rd of everything that comes out of his mouth is sexual.Unfortnately, it works alot.Why does it work you ask?It's a form of social proof. It says, "I've gotten through life behaving like this so far and it hasn't cost me anything" Its a displays high value.The fuck i know that does this though has actualy raped two women though. And word has gotten around he is actually dangerous for women. So good luck to the douchebag on that one.
it's just confidence, you absolute incelwhat school are you gonna shoot up?
>>34086490I feel like punching you in the god damn face.
>>34086497lol ok, zachwrote your manifesto already?
>>34086549How?
>>34086475oh side note, if you do this and anyone next to you knows what your doing, you can get so fucked so easily.He was doing the thing with a girl that was loosely in a friend circle of mine. I just looked at him and said, "dude why are you negging Sarah". She looked at me and said whats that. "it's when a guy tries to bother you so you feel the need to get his approval" Her eyes like had a glimmer of recognition, she looked at him and walked away. He shot me daggers lol
>>34085789What if he wasn't healthy before?
>>34086610that's actually worse
>>34086614Are you going to actually do something instead of give yourself reasons to stay in bed. Jesus Christ, how many fucking reasons do you have to give yourself? At some point you're the retard anon, not the genius if you keep making excuses as to why you can't do something. I don't live by excuses, I don't care if I'm humiliated, I don't care if people validate me or not. I do what I want and go after it. You need to do the same. Otherwise all you are is just excuses. Like what woman is gonna love a pile of excuses, that's like a child.
I dont know about stud but my game has gotten better with age through a combination of trial and error and I can almost picks up a girl as easy as brushing my teeth the vast majority of the time. Its almost like a 6th sense at this point. However its not there 100% of the time but I can feel if its not there and dont bother. But when its there it works every single time no matter how good looking the girl is.
Tldr also idgi why ppl want to rack these huge bodycounts, finding 1 high quality specimen is hard enough already. Maybe ya just overcompensating wanting to show off how "desirable" you are rather than attaining any real tangible thing
I almost got expelled twice for doing this in my late teens/early 20s. Why didn't you, or the other women there report him to the college? Why are you orbiting women that save porn on their phones and show it to you?
>>34086475>>34086599Kek yep. Shooting down these narcissists is both necessary and gratifying. I have a lothario brother that is exactly the way you described. One time I was trying to hang out with him and he was vaping indoors, very obviously and openly, to the point where multiple people complained about it. This was after he cussed at me over the phone trying to meet me in the event venue because he couldn't be fucked to read the very obvious signage pointing to our meeting spot. He was flirting with some girl and I said to her "You wanna delete his number, he has HPV." (IDK for sure but seems likely)He was of course furious, but when I asked what he would do about it, all he could muster was "I'll stop talking to you!" to which I replied "Oh no, I should be so lucky" with a huge grin. Walked away from him and haven't spoken to him since. Been waiting way too long to cut him out of my life, and as he entered his late 20s the last year or two as other anons have said he's become especially insufferable because he's a boy entering a man's world.
>>34087076>>34086599>>34086475So whats the CORRECT way if I want to meet a lady under 200 pounds
>>34087338You can try what im trying, become an absolute menace to the female form and give them what they all crave but few can provide. Adventure. I'm studying to learn PUA
