My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. Our schedules have gotten tight as she changed jobs, she works weekends (15:00-23:00) and I work weekdays, so we rarely get a full day together. For the first time, we didn't see each other at all last week.This week, she is off for Christmas and her family is visiting from out of state. I picked her and 2 family members up for Christmas Eve dinner at my place using my mom's car. I reminded her to bring her stuff so she could stay over, as today and tomorrow are her days off, and so are mine.She didn't bring her bag. She claimed she didn't want to stay over because she is on her period. However, she has stayed over while on her period many times before, and I keep pads at my house for her (last time, I brought the one without "extra spillage protection" but she has used them).After dinner, her sister encouraged her to stay over. She didn't bring any clothes, but she has borrowed my clothes before. My girlfriend then proposed I drive her and her family back to their place so she could pack her bag, and then bring her back to my place.I refused because I had been drinking, my mom had explicitly forbidden me from making that extra trip even if I was sober, since an Uber could fit her whole family minus her.When I said no, she got extremely upset. She was rude to me, refused to help clean up (even when her mom told her to help her mom-in-law), and left in an Uber without saying Merry Christmas.At midnight, I texted her Merry Christmas and expressed that I didn't approve of her behavior. I wanted to argue over text, but she went to sleep. Today, she says she woke up feeling ill. I ignored it and sent a text saying, "I imagine you don't want to spend Christmas with your boyfriend," and she left me on read. We haven't spoken all day since.What am I supposed to do in this situation?
Whatever you do, communicate as non reactively as you can. It is a universal turn off to women. She is your girlfriend, whatever is said you keep what makes you attractive to her
>>34087284>2025>still tolerating BS from women
>>34087284>At midnight, I texted her Merry Christmas and expressed that I didn't approve of her behavior. I wanted to argue over text, but she went to sleep. Today, she says she woke up feeling ill. I ignored it and sent a text saying, "I imagine you don't want to spend Christmas with your boyfriend,"
>>34087284do you want to get /fit/? thats the only advice im good at.
>>34087284sounds like your girlfriend is a fucking retard, you should tell her to stop being a retard or she can find someone else to act like a retard with instead
>>34087284Honestly she sounds like she's just being a cunt on purpose. She knows all this shit but her dipshit female brain is making her act stupid on purpose become she wants drama instead of peace for something as important to you as Christmas. I'm not gonna go 4chan sperg and break up but I've been in these types of relationships and it only gets worse, she will know full well that these holidays and events are important to you and will be a bitch on a purpose just to annoy you enough that your day is ruined. Personally I've yet to find a woman who doesn't play such games but then again I feel like this is a racial thing, you wouldn't get this shit around the holidays fucking with a Latina or Asian woman, this seems like a strictly black or white woman problem
>>34087284Is she Asian?
>>34088037>You wouldn't get this shit around the holidays fucking with a Latina or Asian womanLatina women, i have no idea, but Asian women not causing shit?? lmao let's not be delusional here. asian women are queens among queens of drama
