Like i just wanna get abused, dominated, used so badly. I just wanna be raped and random men groping me.

I relate. It's just trauma response. Well my bf has been satisfying me enough to keep me from doing crazy shits. I'll also suggest u to get a bf with big dick. Make sure he has the heart to fuck u rough

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>>34088453
There is a way to freedom, and giving into lust is the worst thing you can do. If you set yourself as an example to be followed, if you don't break your own principles and promises you will get over it, and you will be exalted among others if you just humble yourself.
Don't seek outward attention but be satisfied with the life you've already lived, if you have conviction in yourself and faith that you did nothing wrong you will get over it, and the cross will give you a chance.
Stay out of fornication, and if you get over it share your experience with others so that they have someone to look upon, God bless.

That's just AVG femoid sexuality in 2025

>>34088446
There's no cure.
The only thing I can tell you, if you want your presence in the universe to be positive, try to fuck as many unexperienced/nerd guys as you can, and give them a very good time. See it as sexual volunteering, so that your being a slut brings some good to others instead of just to yourself.

>>34088446
>I wanna get abused
Well, you've come to the right place then, roastie.

>>34088672
So that they expect this of other women and then spread this degeneracy?
You will be judged for this mentality, mark my words.

>>34088715
Women are already degenerate. What causes pain and anguish is when you don't get any of that. If you get your share of the cake, the resentment will vanish.
You literally can't prove me wrong

>>34088446
>I wanna get abused and used, treated like filth and dont wanna get seen as a human but more as a slave or fucktoy
So, why not continue doing that, if it's what you want? Why is it a problem?

>>34088732
Are you blind? OP is an example of someone who feels this way due to trauma, are we all supposed to get traumatised?
With that, not everyone is an animal who feels the urge to engage in this behaviour.
Take a look at monks or nuns who've lived their whole lives without it, yet were always documented to be at peace/extremely satisfied with life itself, so again, don't be an animal.
>>34088734
Becuase it's dehumanising and makes idiots think it's something worthy to live this way.

>>34088797
>Becuase it's dehumanising and makes idiots think it's something worthy to live this way.
And perhaps OP doesn't, and shouldn't, give a fuck about your opinion?

Whether this way of living makes her happy or not is important. Whether a bunch of strangers on an Abysinnian carpet weaving forum approve or not, isn't.

>>34088446
>I know its wrong and its ruining me.
How is it ruining you?

>>34088816
It's an advice board for a reason. It hold as much value as your own opinion, but whether one is reasonable or not is another question.

And i can guarantee you, as social animals we respect eachother's humanity, if this is diminished we gain an inferiority complex which leads to unhappyness, by taking away someone's humanity, we also twist our own perception of morality, what's wrong and what's right to do to a human being.
In short, any decent person would not encourage this any further, you have to be either a sexual pervert or morally twisted to do otherwise.

>>34088797
Bro never read one single actual book written from monks or nuns.

Last words of Saint Catherine of Siena: "Blood, blood, blood."

Blessed Edvige Carboni: "I would like to die burned by the Love I feel for you, Jesus"

Saint Gemma Galgani: "Jesus, Jesus let me partake in all your sufferings. To suffer loving, suffer for Jesus which I love, and dying suffering for Jesus"

Saint Augustine of Hippo: "I became evil for no reason. I had no motive for my wickedness except wickedness itself. It was foul, and I loved it. I loved the self-destruction, I loved my fall, not the object for which I had fallen but my fall itself. My depraved soul leaped down from your firmament to ruin. I was seeking not to gain anything by shameful means, but shame for its own sake."

>>Take a look at monks or nuns who've lived their whole lives without it
You think monks and nuns have liver their whole lives withou sins? Absolutely retarded take.
>>yet were always documented to be at peace/extremely satisfied with life itself
Where did you get this retarded notions? Monks and nuns ALL experience tremendous mystical crisis.

Go read books and do not bother me again, you will get no answer. All you can teach me is your ignorance. Begone

>>34088885
Nah, suffering is an absolute promise (1 Peter 4:1, 2 Corinthians 4:1,Philippians 3:10, Romans 5:3), if i reject the world in its entirety i can be at peace knowing that i only accepted God's will any nothing else. It's also not my problem if you're too scared to reject something for the betterment of yourself, but you can't judge me!

>>You think monks and nuns have liver their whole lives withou sins? Absolutely retarded take.
St Augustine: There is no saint without a past, no sinner without a future.
The Bible:
>"All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God"
>"I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance."
>"He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her."
Nah i never implied this, it's for this reason that repentance from this worldly degeneracy is needed.
>>Where did you get this retarded notions? Monks and nuns ALL experience tremendous mystical crisis.
Your point? If you want to become a doctor you have to study hard, shed blood, sweat and tears for your studies, yet the result afterwards is nothing but, and likewise correct, their confidence in their faith did not let them go anywhere else, notice that in each quote you said these statements were stated with absolute certainty, with no other worries in the end becuase they had none! They knew that they were following the grace of God!

>>34088918
Note on this though, i did go overboard when i said "extremely satisfied with life itself" as there can never be enough, it's a constant uphill battle to combate these urges. What i also forgot to mention was St Augustine's reference to his life nd the queote said.
>"I became evil for no reason. I had no motive for my wickedness except wickedness itself. It was foul, and I loved it. I loved the self-destruction, I loved my fall, not the object for which I had fallen but my fall itself. My depraved soul leaped down from your firmament to ruin. I was seeking not to gain anything by shameful means, but shame for its own sake."
I think it's pretty obvious that he was referencing how this life made him unfulfilled and ultimately the reason he shought something else, as without this sin he never would've turned his waays and go in the exact opposite direction as expressed in his confessions afterwards.
https://www.newadvent.org/fathers/110102.htm

So no, even if i went overboard it does not mean that we should submit to sexual degeneracy and mediocrity and never seek to stop our destructive behaviour.

>>34088446
>i know its wrong and its ruining me
Who told you that?

What's your disc; Would like to talk more

>>34088446
drop disc im attractive male with 7" dick

>>34088446
go talk to a psychologist/psychiatrist? why are you even asking here?

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>>34089180
Pajeet, she won't fuck you

>>34088446
remove your womb and clit, there, you no longer feel interested in sex

>>34089254
You need to brush up on your anatomy, anon. Neither of those things controls sex drive.

>>34089265
dude, removing that is like removing the dick and balls on a man
idk what else to tell you, its like I'm talking with walking garbage at this point because of how retarded your post was

>>34089280
Anon, you have no fucking clue. The equivalent of removing the balls would be removing the ovaries and the adrenal glands. Please stop talking about things you know nothing about.

>>34090182
By removing the womb, you are obviously removing everything else, or have you seen ovaries hanging around with no womb? You're a dumb nigger, idk why you even keep replying

>>34088446
what kind of trauma caused this exactly?

>>34088715
Women already whore around with thugs and Chads who get it just for existing. Why shouldn’t those less fortunate also get to feel that?

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>>34088446
Chiming in with actual advice

So before I can actually give you steps, we first need to establish a few things: behaviors are all the result of emotion, which in and of itself, is made of chemical processes.

The chemical process part of your mind, body, and emotions, are automated. If you feel pain there's no reason your body wouldn't send you pain signals. Especially the more intense they are so you would have more reason to get away. Likewise, if something feels good, there's no reason your body wouldn't send you pleasure signals. They're motivators to get you coming back for more; which is why we frequently hunger, eat, and drink for instance. Or why being able to breathe again after holding your breath for a minute has a weird "relief" feeling to it. This good-feeling-bad-feeling dynamic is the basis of how you process getting your needs met.

The more intensely you feel certain emotions, the more intense the cause, and therefore, the most intensely you feel you have to act to balance those feelings out. Of course just because you act fast doesn't mean you're acting on the answers that will actually satisfy the source of those compulsions.

If your dad left you and your mom is an alcoholic, what your body is detecting is that you're not protected by those around you, nor do you have a foundation to learn how to be, so you need to seek out the fastest way your body knows how to get it. If you were a guy, you would probably be going around trying to panic-fuck as many women as possible to relieve the stress. You're also likely either a teen or a young adult so the intensity of those feelings are going to multiply even further.

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>>34088446
>>34090505

Here's the good news. Your compulsion is powerful, but it's not something that can't be lessened over time, provided you know how to balance it out right. In that way, all conditioning and development is like weight control. It needs to be done gradually. Otherwise your body is going to feel worse by taking on more change than it can handle at once; which will make things worse for you as you will snap back even harder to your "default" before the change. But that aside, if you commit to gradual change, you can get a problem under control.

So I will say this. Yes there will still be moments where you relapse, or moments where you still intensely feel the need to do what you do. You'll inevitably do it for a long while. The point isn't to get you to stop all at once. The point is to get you to lessen the behaviors that come out as a result of those impulses, little by little. A 1% improvement everyday on a scale of 1-100 is going to make a massive difference in one month. Even a 1% improvement every week is still going to add up to only about three years; which is very short in the grand scheme of things.

Basically you just need to focus on gradually lessening the frequency and intensity of the behaviors you already have, while making sure you don't develop any worse behaviors in the interest of those impulses. If you want to get better then absolutely do not absolve yourself of any responsibility. You can always control yourself better. If you don't, you're absolving yourself of responsibility. No exceptions. Which is to say, yes you'll fail, yes you can face that, but don't be okay with accepting it.

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>>34088446
>>34090505
>>34090507

Side note: I definitely recommend sexual SELF stress relief to help manage the urges without degrading yourself to others. Touch yourself to porn or thoughts or fanfic or whatever instead. The goal is to eventually make a permanent habit of NOT putting yourself out there like that. Much like weight control, if you're not consistent, the gains will be lost to atrophy, and you'll have to start all over. Be serious. Be consistent.

After you've lessened the harmful behaviors you're looking to reduce, you still need to replace them with behaviors that will sate the base compulsions. I strongly recommend allowing yourself happiness, hobbies, normal interactions with friends, and working towards romantic relationships you actually have to be responsible to maintain. In that order from "easiest to hardest to do". Channel as much spare effort as you can into these to replace the time you spend harming yourself. It'll suck and feel unnatural at first. But the more you do it, the better and more normal your self-image will feel in time. This will help normalize a future for you where you'll eventually get to have as much rampant sex as you need, without ignoring the needs you'll have to manage until then. Much less sacrifice your self-esteem to settle for those who may actually endanger you.

Good luck, femanon. Please treat yourself right in the future. People can and will care about you enough to validate that.

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>>34088446
>Please help
Nobody on 4chan is going to help you. Get a therapist or at least some kind of sex addict support group.

>>34088446
You will never be a woman or a whore.

>>34088446
does your pussy stink

>>34088446
I dunno maybe try kink spaces, at least people there are more inclined to care about consent and do aftercare, why didn’t therapy work?
Probably don’t ask antisocial lunatics on 4chan, a better therapist would probably be a better choice even if therapy is a bad choice.

>>34088446
It would help answering this by saying WHY is being a whore "wrong" you? HOW is it "ruining you"?
Without specifics no one can help you get over your specific hangups and stop the root behavior.

>>34095115
>WHY is being a whore "wrong" you?
wrong *to you

>>34088446
You need therapy, and you need to love yourself. You probably won't do either. Not just worthless talk therapy, something like IFS where there is a goal to get you well.

Self harm do a number on a person, what a shame. Oh well now you're another statistic, maybe get therapy or maybe don't and just throw your life away. Not like you really care about that, although I wonder how you'll cope when you're old and sagging, wrinkled, and shiveled. Guess only time will tell us truth.

>>34088446
Hey OP since nobody here is actually gonna give you good advice, wanna meet up and have sex?

We can eat pizza, play FPS games and make fun of the latest season of ST afterwards.