Cheated on my girlfriend by sexting another woman for a day like 4 years ago. I had had a medical episode relating to a chronic health issue that scared me, made me think I would die, and combined with a lot of self loathing and self destructive tendencies during that particular spiral I made the incredibly shitty choice to do this before coming to my fucking senses. The guilt killed me, and I finally came clean last month. She broke up with me. I don't blame her. I'm a piece of shit, I know, and I agree, I just miss her. How does someone move on from losing their best friend?
>>34090672ok incel
>>34090685How am I an incel? Don't get me wrong, I'm a piece of shit, but I'm no incel
Get a muslim woman or a woman with cuckfetish, some females are into that, also if you have enough money no female will care about you cheating i'm pretty sure that 100 dollars per hour is enough for them to shut up and let you cheat
>>34090749I mean I'll never cheat again. It was awful that I did it in the first place. And it's less about getting a new woman than it is about losing the person who made every day better by being in it.
>>34090672Why tell her you retard?
>>34091303She deserved to know. I betrayed her trust and hid it.
>>34091324Who were you hurting by keeping this to yourself? No one.
i mean you fucked up but you owned up to it at the end of the day. did you fuck up? yep. are you a good dude despite that? I'd say so. if you ever feel bad about what you did go read about the fucked up things that are happening in places like sudan right now, will make your problems feel small. Sucks to lose your girl but you'll be aight, your conscience is clear at the end of the day, and you'll move forward
>>34090729Correct. There's nothing wrong with being an incel, but there is something wrong with being you.
>>34090672>Cheated>sextingAnon did you ever meet either of these people IRL? Because it sounds like an e-gf.
>>34090672>Cheated on my girlfriend by sexting another woman for a day like 4 years ago.That's not cheating. You did not betray her. Your relationship was already over and this was just the excuse. Please stop making life harder for yourself, you have enough going on and you've begun inflicting your difficulties on others.
>>34091609You're not helping OP, he fucked up his life big time, the Reddit karma from virtue signaling posters like you is the only "benefit" and what kind of benefit is that? Being told by some smelly coomer that you "did the right thing"?Buullshit, OP should have kept it for himself. Girls lie all the fucking time. Literally all the fucking time. For much worse things. He seems like he has a lot guilt complexes for unrelated reasons and he just decided to fuck his life up. What a retard op. Learn to stop inflicting harm on yourself. I'd kill to have a girlfriend right now, and I don't give 2 fucks about cheating anymore. You must protect yourself first. Because the world isn't what you read on Reddit, it isn't a right world. It's survival and many people are animals. You HAVE to take care of yourself and insulate lightly against your own woman. They aren't the paragon of virtue you make them out to be. But put her on a pedestal and she'll act like one
>>34092004I absolutely did betray her. We had agreed on a monogamous relationship, and I made the choice to step outside that one day.>>34092220No, I absolutely did the right thing. There's no question in my mind. She deserved to know, and was a wonderful person.
>>34092465Waaahhh cry more you fucking moron. This is all your own fault.
>>34092220Fucking up your life big time is you get married, this comes out later, and half your shit is gone. Being a man and owning up to shit is better than thinking a relationship is your entire life. Have confidence OP and learn from your mistakes
>>34093779Thanks anon. I think I did the right thing.
>>34094175>Thread conclusion:>"I did the right thing"OP you're truly the biggest faggotWith no due respect, stop being such a massive raging faggot.I'm this guy >>34092220My ex of 5 years cheated on me intentionally and is still with that guy for over a year now, she recently met me to break off some shared accounts we have together, she told me that even if her new guy dumps her, there are thousands of guys with a job who want a trad wife like her. She's aware that she can provide sex, food, and the facade of being a good girl. I gave my all for that woman and was dumped in an instance, intentionally. If it taught me anything it's that you shouldn't feel guilty for women, not even for a moment. They know what they're worth, there's no doubt in their mind that they can get a guy, their reality is completely different. You are a faggot for role-playing guilt into your conscious. Your gf and any girl is capable of what my ex did, no human goes without flaws. I personally know two women in my life, my aunt and my ex's grandma, two entirely different people, one from Israel and one from the Netherlands, one is 40 and one is 80, who both made kids with their husbands by stopping to take the pill without telling them. To this day their husbands don't know. Women, lie, so, easily. You are a fool, a kind hearted but heavily misguided fool. Don't feel bad for the gender that has it all easy, the gender that takes it all for granted, the gender who's sole purpose is to receive everything, manipulate men, and feel no guilt while doing so. You are a brainwashed, massive faggot, yet I wish you all the best
>>34095488Just because someone is capable of something (and we're all capable of horrendous things), doesn't mean she would have done it. She is the kindest person I know, and I did something awful to her. Not all women are like your ex in the same way that not all men are like you.
