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How do I stop developing crush(...) 12/27/25(Sat)05:40:55 No.34092288

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How do I stop developing crushes on random women because they were nice to me once? Anonymous 12/27/25(Sat)05:40:55 No.34092288

I just got home from barcelona to visit my moms boyfriends family for christmas. The problem is that his daughter is a weeaboo, and for the first time in a ridiculously long time (maybe the first time in my life) I actually had a pleasant, non-forced conversation with a member of the opposite sex, who I genuinely found interesting.

She has a boyfriend and I'm autistic and a bit chuddy, so it's obviously not going to work out, yet in my mind I can't stop thinking about her.

Shrek
12/27/25(Sat)05:57:33 No.34092326

Shrek 12/27/25(Sat)05:57:33 No.34092326

your mom's boyfriends daughter is your step-sister just whatever you do stop thinking about pouring olive oil and spanish salad dressing all over her

Anonymous
12/27/25(Sat)09:33:41 No.34092771

Anonymous 12/27/25(Sat)09:33:41 No.34092771

>>34092288
simply meet more people, men and women, feel different peoples vibes and learn to tell friend from crush
that doesnt mean you wont still like the wrong person sometimes just so you know

Anonymous
12/27/25(Sat)15:03:29 No.34093646

Anonymous 12/27/25(Sat)15:03:29 No.34093646

>>34092288
>She has a boyfriend and I'm autistic and a bit chuddy, so it's obviously not going to work out, yet in my mind I can't stop thinking about her.
fix this. stop thinking this. do something about it and realize you have crushes because of doubt. you must want enough to change.

Anonymous
12/27/25(Sat)15:58:18 No.34093808

Anonymous 12/27/25(Sat)15:58:18 No.34093808

you'll get over it

Anonymous
12/27/25(Sat)16:02:10 No.34093815

Anonymous 12/27/25(Sat)16:02:10 No.34093815

>>34092288
>yet in my mind I can't stop thinking about her.
when this happens to normal people they ask someone out. if it's a no, then you move on

Anonymous
12/28/25(Sun)10:44:21 No.34096993

Anonymous 12/28/25(Sun)10:44:21 No.34096993

>>34093815
i mean desu literally this. i was fawning over this one girl. the only girl thats ever happened to me to and i asked her out. she said no and had a bf but at least i asked and she added me on facebook too and actually had a bf so it wasnt a lie either

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