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After 1 or 2 mins of thrusting my legs give out and I become too tired to continue. What do?
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>>34092627
Fap 10-30min before the act. You will last longer doing so. And timing don't go all out a first you can trust slowly at first and wait to go all out.
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>>34092635
Bad advice. You won't last longer any meaningful amount of time, and the sex will feel much less pleasurable too.
>>34092627
The best thing one can do to get better at sex is:
>Do cardio
>Do kegels
>Know what your partner likes and dislikes
>Be creative
Those are your four markers to being a good lover.
Source: Had sex
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>>34092627
Cardio, unironically.
Also switch positions. Let her ride you. Do it while you're standing up so you're not just relying on pure pelvic power.
Curious, do you use condoms? If this is a serious relationship there is no reason to use condoms.
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>>34092644
What if my thing doesn't wanna wake up cuz I'm nervous?
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>>34092697
You have to take control of the situation, the girl will be nervous too.
You guys have too much of a bad idea of what sex is because of porn. You guys think you need to be instantly with a hard as rock sword, ready to stab that woman between the legs, like in a porn movie.
There's nothing wrong with going slow, kissing, hugging, touching her parts, sucking on her tits.
All of those will help her get excited and feel comfortable, this should get you relaxed too.
But, if you are too focused on your own dick, thinking all the time;
>it's not getting hard, what do I do, it's not getting hard
This will make you more anxious and you will self sabotage. It's the same with getting your driver's license, it's not hard, but if you get nervous you will self sabotage.
In short, you need to learn to control your anxiety. You need to find what techniques help you staying calm and will give you the feeling of "I'm in control of the situation."
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just make shit up as you go instead of saying youre tired say your a sex robber and this is a sex hold-up to change positions make sure to wear a balaclava and then while you guys are laughing at how silly you look you can just try some other position tragedy is the gratest comedy
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>>34092627
For your question: the physical component of sex: cardio for endurance and rhythm, weight lifting to do hot shit like carrying sex and spanking.
You also would like to know: psychological component: talk dirty to her, tell her what you are going to do next, make she say what she wants, give orders, be dominant ( but ler her lead sometimes too ) have fun.
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>>34092627
This sounds like a basic fitness problem rather than a skill issue.
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>>34093214
^this you weakling. Why do you think fit and muscular men get better results with women? They know they have the strength to rock them in bed. You? Give up too easily. Start doing 100 pushups a day. Don't cry when muscular Chad takes your girl because you're too weak and too lazy to work out.
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Not OP but have a slightly related question. Is there a hyper-autistic guidebook out there for getting really good at sex, especially the oral and finger stuff outside of PIV? The closest I’ve found were sex guide books for lesbians
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>>34093271
Sex God book
Actual advice: have sex and figure it iut yourself
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>>34092627
Why are you having sex? Why aren't you single like me?
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>>34092627
Is Zelda taking a shit there?
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>>34092627
Kettlebell swings are perfect for this issue.

>>34092644
>The best thing one can do to get better at sex is:
You forgot practicing freeform dance and therapeutic massage.
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>>34093271
Sadly not really. Every single woman is a bit different and what makes one girl ick will make another yum. That is why there is that cliche about communication. I have had enough sex I think I can offer some general advice though.

1. Be upfront. Say "I'm a bit of an autist so I tend to miss subtle social ques. I'm going to go down on you but this time is just going to be a data round. If I'm hitting a good spot, squeeze my hand. If you want me to stop something, tap my hand with a finger, and if you want me to do more intensity, either squeeze real hard or pulse the squeeze twice" then experiment with tricks you read from some of your books. Most girls really need to get into their own heads to get off, so talking out specifics and explaining exactly what to do in the moment can be hard, but holding hands is nice in and of itself, and the signals I mentioned there are pretty much instinctive so she should be able to use them when approaching an orgasm.
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lucky, after 1 minute I simply cum because PE.
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>>34092627
stop being fat maybe
how are people like op even having sex. what are you fucking lol?
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>>34092627
you should be able to move your hips for 1 to 2 minutes. do you walk at all???
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>>34092627
>After 1 or 2 mins of thrusting my legs give out and I become too tired to continue.
stop skipping leg day, do squats/leg bends
Source: never had sex



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