There are people on 4chan, reddit or even incel forums who allegedly chat with women or even meet them in real life and I've never got the hang of it. I don't think I'm being hostile or anything, just uninteresting to them I guess. I rarely get a response and when I do, they ghost me shortly after. I've never sent my dick picture or anything. Call me a cuck but being a 29 years old virgin, at this point even having a female friend who already has a boyfriend could be an appreciable progress. Please tell me how to find a female friend.
>>34093287Never send a dickpic. Ever. Never do that.
>>34093287Feel good anon this means you haven't fucked any gross people yet
>>34093300It's medium-small so I'm ashamed of doing that anyway.
>>34093287maybe you're just not built for it?Dating is already horrendous for normies in 2025, soon to be 2026. Even chads are opting out because it's so annoying and not worth it.If you didn't learn how to meet girls, date, form relationships, etc. when you were young, it's pretty much a sign that you aren't meant for that world.You should go monk mode and devote your life to Christ. Stop trying to be someone you're not
>>34093532No, just chase pussy even if it's an uphill battle. At least it's a real thing. Buddhist monks and christians deny life. They hate the world and want it to be destroyed.
>>34093287literally just be nice and sweet to them. i made a friend by giving a girl a cough drop, and by studying with one at the library when all of her friends failed to show up to socialize with her
>>34093551Yeah, but mix it with degenerate and violent energy if you want to get laid.
>>34093287Don't speak to women online. There was a good infographic here with all the places you could find women at, but I lost it years ago. Are you a NEET, anon? Friend groups, friend groups, friend groups, that's what gets you next to women. Women have boundaries that're close to autistic men, so you need to have less empathy and you need to be a bit more of a dick, but don't overdo it. Mystery excites women, a lot of women are indoors right now because of smartphones. If you're into alcohol, hit the pub. Otherwise coffeehouse, or DnD, or MTG, any hobby where people meet. Make sure you stay with them for a long time. Maybe even go to the park. Learn a woman sport like tennis or badminton.
>>34093644I remember back in high school guys used to touch the girl's asses and tits but somehow the quiet nerd who looks down unless the teacher addresses him was the "creep" according to women
>>34093673It's worse in uni, all the financebros party all day creeping with women and very obviously are champagne socialists while straightforward guys get bullied out
>>34093287I mean I've had mutiple gf's and I visit 4chan all the time. I guess I just learned at a young age to keep my weird side to myself, it also helps I took theatre classes. You're forced to interact with bitches whether you like it or not, it's damn near a cheat code to pussy, you just have to be sociable.
>>34093287>4chan, reddit or even incel forumsAre there any other forums left?
>>34093287How adept are you at talking to people in general?>>34093673>I remember back in high school guys used to touch the girl's asses and tits but somehow the quiet nerd who looks down unless the teacher addresses him was the "creep" according to womenIt's a perception of "normal". The annoyingly sexually aggressive guy trying to touch girls probably bothers them but he seems honest, direct, and confident. Plus, he likely makes the girls feel desired and attractive despite his attention being unwanted.Whereas the quiet weird guy? He doesn't do it say normal things. So they are left to imagine what he's thinking and it's always worse.And in my experience and observation, girls who are vocal about the quiet guy being "creepy" are shallow immature twats.>>34093803>It's worse in uni, all the financebros party all day creeping with women and very obviously are champagne socialists while straightforward guys get bullied outThis was not my experience at all.I'm wondering what you're defining as "straightforward guys".Mature adults don't really bully people.Immature twats can be disregarded as the idiots they are. Anyone respecting vocal idiots isn't really worth your time.How do adults allow themselves to be bullied? I was bullied horribly for a decade so I learned to deal with it early on.
>>34093673I don't remember this at all. I remember most people sticking to their relative groups and having interactions with women within those cliques - nerds with nerds, goths with goths, jocks with jocks, theater kids with theater kids. I don't remember anybody being labeled a creep that wasn't for a very clear and creepy reason - that would've required people outside of their clique to put energy into forming social narratives about the outcasts who ate their lunches in the band room. As I recall nobody paid any attention to them.
>>34093546>They hate the world and want it to be destroyed.Based. Who cares about the whores and degenerates who will bear no fruit in the future
>>34093673It's just you and your village is full of whores little bro. Most girls would slap the shit out of you if you did that shit back in the day
My dude, you have to be interesting to yourself before others will find you interesting.Pick up hobbies you’re proud of and pair that with activities where women might also participate, like a running club — but do it to connect, not to pick up.Just be authentic and straightforward.
