Yesterday I got a pretty cute girl's number through some rather unusual circumstances. I was at work, she came in as a customer, I ended up having to drive her to her house and back (the job does not typically involve driving customers around) so we got to talk for like 35 minutes, and I found we had pretty similar interests (car things primarily). She mentioned where she works, so later I stopped by there and asked her for her number for shits and giggles. She actually said yes with pretty much zero hesitation. Not like in an outwardly joyous manner, but she didn't seem bothered. We texted back and forth a bit last night and some today, and she's fun to talk to, but it really feels more like just shooting the shit with a regular guy friend than actually flirting. I don't know if zoomers are just built even more different these days or if she's genuinely just not neurotypical or what. I told her I wanted to hang out and do car stuff, but it's dead fuck middle of winter so nothing is really going on in regards to that. I know I'm supposed to set up some sort of date, but I can't think of any ideas that aren't lame. I've never dated or gotten a girl's number before now. She's 18 and I'm 21. I'd really like to try and have something with this girl, since she's possibly autistic and not quite old enough to be poisoned by many problems plaguing modern women.I've always wondered what you actually do after getting a girl's number, but I figured it would come naturally. Nah, I have no idea.
>>34093949Take her out for lunch?
>>34093996It's just so fucking milquetoast though, it doesn't feel right. I have invited friends of mine to events many times, and we usually get something to eat afterwards or whatever. But never have I ever in my life invited someone out for the express purpose of getting something to eat, it frankly doesn't seem that interesting and I would be confused if someone offered me such an invitation. I get this feeling that she is somewhat similar to me, so she would have a similar reaction. I might just be absolutely hallucinating though since women are still fundamentally a different species.
>>34094099no shit dumbass. she knows why you asked for her number. now she is playing chill so you can ask her out. you have to act now or it's a self fulfilling prophecy she won't say yes because she'll lose attraction to you after you don't take initiative
>>34094190Yeah, you're probably right. I probably knew this somewhere in my head, but needed it spelled out to me. I just texted asking if she was free tomorrow to maybe get something to eat, I was able to think of a restaurant that isn't gay and boring in case she says yes. It's still only been like 24 hours since I got her number, so maybe it's not too late? I'm still not ruling out the possibility that she actually doesn't realize I asked for her number with romantic intent though, I never said anything flirtatious prior and she is a little odd.I was pretty set on just bitching out and giving up, things like this are completely incomprehensible to me and genuinely make me want to just fucking kill myself. But I figure if I'm willing to let it end in nothing, I'll try anyways. Thanks. I'll reply to this thread with the result, assuming I get one before it's archived.
>>34093949Just drive around in a car again with her.Easy.
>>34094404Yeah this is the easy answer, but because it's the middle of winter my fun car is under a cover and it's wheels/tires are in my basement because semislicks crack in freezing temps. If I met her in the middle of summer it wouldn't have even been a question honestly, I would drive her on my frequent backroad routes and scare her.
>>34094250The result. I don't know how I feel about this answer, since it does seem she has a busy schedule but it could also be an excuse. I guess it is rather short notice. Better to not overthink it, I guess. Does this stuff get less stressful after you do it more? Because I am ACHING for a rope around my neck right about now. I figured I would never have to worry about it since I'm literally a sub5 mulatto freak, but I guess I got myself into this. At least this will probably be the last time before I start norwooding.
>>34094422>i don't drive in the winter3rd worlder
>>34095917>I assume one car being away in the winter means not driving3rd worlder. I have 3 cars you poor ass faggot.
>>34093949"Want to _____ this weekend? We could grab a bite before or after."-see a movie-go for a walk-hang out at the mall-go for a drive in the country-or something you chatted about
>>34093949>I know I'm supposed to set up some sort of date, but I can't think of any ideas that aren't lame.If she actually likes you, she won't care what you're doing.
>>34094579just reply with something that gets her to commit to a day and that communicates you look forward to seeing her again. if she is wishy-washy or vague in the response to that, she's not interested and trying to let you down.it gets easier the more you do it, maybe always a little nerve-wracking from excitement, but you'll get the hang of it the more you do it. just keep being direct and polite, and the results will let you know what else works.
