i am 31 and have no friends. i already have trust issues from childhood. everyone i meet ends up using, betraying, or ignoring me. how should i make friends or should i accept the fact that i'm just not supposed to be friends with anyone.
People bond over activities. If you swim do swimming, if you play music play music.
>>34096271I do stuff but its a class so we all just do it and leave after. I have asked pepole to hangout before but after we do I get ghosted or they just get too busy.Should I pay for one of these group friend dinners or whatever.
>>34096271I am talking to AI now as a friend. I think I will just talk to AI now. I don't care.
it's a numbers game. you just have to keep engaging people, suggesting things, putting yourself out there, even agreeing to activities you might not like very much, until something/someone sticks. obviously, if you keep finding yourself on the outside, you might wanna think about what behavior might is putting other people off. it's worth "code switching" as the idiots say or tuning down some aspects of your personality to make yourself more attractive as a friend.
