how do i stop internalizing the bad things people have said about me or done to me? ive always acted very cocky and overconfident (i cant help it) which has attracted a lot of hate from people , mostly people who dont even know me.
If ur confident why do you care Or are you actually insecure and faking "overconfidence" to hide it from others
>>34096989i just come across that way because of the way that i smile and the way that i walk and things. i always act cheerful and freidnly when im talking to people and maybe it comes off as manipulative. im very insecure inside as you can tell
>>34097019I wouldn't classify that was "cocky" but eh. Just sounds like you're being nice to people (causing you to have more social opportunity in general/more social connections made) and for some reason, others are threatened by that (envious) and want to sabotage you. In that case, tell them to suck it
