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There is this woman I work with every day who is Viet (migrated to my country at age 15 or so) and she often invites me to hang out with her and eat. We also talk for an hour whenever we can and we're into the same vidya.

I wonder if I should go out with her. The main issue is I'm 5 6' and black and she is Viet so I wonder I should even bother or if it's feasible at all to date her. She still lives with her dad at 30 and she doesn't seem to do anything outside of work
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>>34097384
G.I. Tyrone
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>>34097384
why are you asking us?? ask her?
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>>34097384
It sounds like she's at least interested in you. There's a chance she might just be lonely and want a friend (though it beggars belief that adult women haven't figured out they can't be friends with men). Asking her out and seeing how it goes is really the only way to find out.
>The main issue is I'm 5 6'
Incels on this website make way too big a deal out of height. She's Viet so she's like 5' even give or take an inch, right? You're good.
>She still lives with her dad at 30 and she doesn't seem to do anything outside of work
Biggest red flag and potential problem. The dad may cockblock you, and women that live with their parents into adulthood usually have all sorts of issues. She could just be helping her dad out because Asian family values but she could also be a womanchild.
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>>34097892
Or maybe she’s just not a retarded person who moves out from a loved one and reduces their savings and increases debt potential because the Shekelberger Times and Media corporation says you’re a loser if you don’t
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>>34097384
>>34097892
Oh I didn't read
>There is this woman I work with every day
You need to tread carefully. If you ask her out consider the best and worst case scenarios if you ask her one a date whether you get accepted or rejected.
If you ask her out, she says yes, and it works out long term, lovely.
If you ask her out, she says yes, and it doesn't work out, you now have to work with an ex and all the baggage that brings.
If you ask her out and she says no and it nice about it, you now have to work with someone you asked out and it will be awkward
If you ask her out and she says no and decides not to be nice, HR could get involved.
Notice how the most likely scenario involves you creating an awkward work environment for yourself. Just something to consider. This is why I never asked out female classmates or coworkers.
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>>34097915
>Or maybe she’s just not a retarded person who moves out from a loved one and reduces their savings and increases debt potential because the Shekelberger Times and Media corporation says you’re a loser if you don’t
Ok yeah sure, but the reason is irrelevant. It has an effect on women mentally. I know at least three women between ages 20 and 40 that live with their parents and have been for a good chunk of their adult life, they're all emotionally stunted quirk chunguses who couldn't handle a serious relationship.
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>>34097933
>>34097915
You're both wrong. Its normal in east asian culture for multiple generations to live in the same home their entire lives, even when married. Moving out when you turn 18 isn't a thing there like it is in the west.
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>>34097915
>>34097933
Also worth noting in almost every case I've seen, people who "increase their savings and reduce their debt potential" by staying at home as a working adult are never that successful in doing so. They use it to subsidize their lifestyles while getting free cooking/cleaning/laundry service from mommy while making imprudent financial decisions in every other area of their lives.
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>>34097961
Bro I >>34097892 literally said
>because Asian family values
I guess everyone is too retarded to read the subtext of those "family values" including frugality and multi-gen households being traditional.
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>>34097384
Anon, she's chinese.
You can get her, you should consider her below you. Have standards.
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>>34097975
One day your phone is gonna blow up in front of your face for posting that
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>>34097986
Except that the chinese are incompetent and don't care about anything outside of their own little corner of the earth.
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>>34097915
True but she also doesn't anything but work so it's suggests she's not that savvy/ambitious going out looking for a spouse with intention of building generational wealth and instead just plays le vidja and stays in comfy complacency

But this makes it probs easier to date her
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>>34098450
She told me the other day that she doesn't want to rely on someone and that she prefers having her own money
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>>34097975
>>34098025
Did you miss the part when he said he was black?
I have no love for the chinks but let's be fair.
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>>34097384
I don't think being black really matters. I have dated 2 viets and a japanese girl. Just be good looking and funny.
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>>34098765
To be fair the racial hatred Japanese have for whites is so intense they'd rather fuck niggers. Look at the proportion to BWC to BBC JAV videos that get produced. If you want to know how a civilization thinks, look at its porn.
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>>34098776
>Judging a society based off of pornography
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>>34098969
If you weren't retarded and/or sticking up for asian cucks you'd know this is the most surefire way
Hint hint: The most reproductively successful societies do not tolerate porn. The least successful not only advocate porn as being healthy but promote porn featuring race mixing the most.
And yes it definitely says something about at least the Japanese if they have 10x the videos of kurojin with their women over hakujin
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>>34098987
You say racemixing bad yet want their to be more racemixing of your preference. If you're mad about the porn just say that instead of morally grandstanding about the sanctity of japanese society cause it doesn't make sense with that in mind.
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>>34097975
He said he's black, not white
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>>34098987
>If you're not retarded you know that porn is real life
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>>34099011
>You say racemixing bad yet want their to be more racemixing of your preference
Um excuse me did I ever explicitly say that, or are you making assumptions about my personal preferences from objective facts?
Anyway it doesn't matter. WM/XF is different, it actually produces the kind of superior individuals civilization needs. Males of all other races should and will be exterminated.
>>34099238
>He hasn't read Freud and Jung
Retard here doesn't understand the application of their theories by Bernays literally formed his life today
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>>34099011
>morally grandstanding about the sanctity of japanese society cause it doesn't make sense with that in mind
My society, the US, devasted them twice with atomic fire and only let them live on as an autonomous state instead of making them the next Guam or Puerto Rico out of munificence by whites and deviousness by jews.
They repay us by banning whites and welcoming Nigerians.
Fuck, if we had paperclipped the Nazi scientists before the war instead of relying on the jews that stole their research...we might have a world worth living in today.
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>>34099582
>WM/XF
How is that different to just WF/XM
Nobody's getting "exterminated", the world's just gonna get more and more mixed til we're all just a pile of same goo basically
Just inevitable consequence of globalisation/the future
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why do you guys know all these porn acronyms? isnt it tiresome?
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>>34099582
Ok so you're an idiot who doesn't read what he types. You literally say a society who promotes race mixing is an unsuccessful society
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>>34099615
>the world's just gonna get more and more mixed til we're all just a pile of same goo basically
mmm no actually there just aren't going to be any white people left.
>>34099990
racemixing only counts when it's men of other races with your women. If you're fucking other races of women you're just conquering.
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>>34099592
Fantasy version of world events.
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Go ask her out man. Don't let racist stereotypes or all that other bullshit like how tall you are determine who you can love. You only live one life, dont die a pussy living in regret. Seriously, why the fuck else do you think shes inviting you to come eat with her!?!?
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>>34101421
Same can be said of the women conquering the so*boi whites. End result same, goo pile of mixed races, no whites left and no races left



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