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I take some fun pics of my gf sometimes (not sharing any here), and share them with friends (yes she knows and enjoys it) In the summer I shared one with one of her cousins, and liked the idea more than I expected. I shared many with him since then. Just wondering if I went too far or…
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If everyone enjoys all good
Super hot tho
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>>34097894
If she knows and she's fine with it, it's not a problem. If she doesn't know, you need to tell her. If you've been deliberately avoiding telling her, it's definitely not okay.
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>>34097894
I doubt she enjoyed it. If she’s a younger female, she’ll pretend to enjoy anything you put her through in order to be seen as ‘attractive’ by you. Don’t be surprised when this comes back to bite your ass later when she suddenly changes her mind that she actually didnt enjoy it.
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>>34098444
Being in a relationship for 7 years and doing this for 4 years, I think I might know the person I am with and their likes just a little better than you. Keep your experiences and dislikes to you and your situation, projection is lame
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>>34098528
I swear that word is like a rosary chant for zoomers or something. “projection”. God forbid someone share experiences. Anyway it’s a bit rich telling me to keep my ‘dislikes’ to myself when you can’t even keep your girl’s nudes to yourself. Did you at least ask before sharing with your friends the first time? Or the cousin? Or did you just go ahead and do this and ask her later?
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>>34097894
You’re sick
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You did it bro you found the blandest of the bland and the bitches
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>>34098436
Ding ding ding winner
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>>34098436
She knows I share pics and vids with people, asked her repeatedly who was and wasn’t okay, she kept saying ANYONE, so went with it under that umbrella, she knows when I share, and has been enjoying it
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>>34097894
It's a bit of a problem imo. What reactions do the people you share with give? Are you fine with that? Are you sharing those pics because you're desperately trying to seek attention?
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>>34100079
It’s a link for us, it’s fun, it’s a turn on for us both
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>>34100069
>>34100083
Okay but something still doesn't add up, your thread. You lead with:
>Wondering if I went too far...
>(Thumbnail of CLUSTER FUCK text on OP image)

Then when your lifestyle is put under scrutiny you are hand-waving everything off and saying it's fine, not a problem, it's a bonding experience and she loves it and you enjoy it kek.

What's the problem then? Are you in denial over something or was this thread just a way to exonerate yourself and seek approval? I don't get it.
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>>34100092
I wasn’t expecting a lot of bitches and pearl clutching to be here to be honest
Yes we both enjoy it, she said anyone and I used that as an umbrella for what I was specifically asking about, not all of it, just one thing
I’m hoping that can simplify it enough for people now

I just figured there would be more people here with a grasp on kinks and how they work in the community
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>>34100101
>I just figured there would be more people here with a grasp on kinks and how they work in the community
Have you tried the humiliation HQ? Or the exhibitionist embassy building? I'm joking, just poking fun at the idea of a "community" for this type of thing. They don't really exist they just operate in fringe pockets of porn and bdsm and kink forums or whatever. You could try there or something idk. What I do know is it's clear your girl has a humiliation fetish or something, and you have a borderline cuck fetish where you enjoy showing her off to arouse other men or gain their admiration. That's not pearl clutching that's just calling a spade a spade, that's the whole point of kinks, sexualising seedy dark compulsions or urges or whatever. I'll admit I find the lifestyle to be degenerate shit but I can also admit if you and your girl make it work then fuck it who knows maybe what works for some might work for some.

Either way you are clearly worried she isn't drawing a boundary or a line and the cousin thing shocked you because it begs the question: what next? Where does it end? Her brother? Father? Etc. you should just ask where the lines are drawn.
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>>34100124
Nah there are people and certain clubs and bars where kink groups meet, there is a community

But it’s more an exhibitionist kink, and nothing to do with them being turned on, more her and I being turned on. Much more of a you can look, but I get to experience type of thing more than anything else.
And she has a hint of humiliation kink that we are slowly and safely opening up


But, no brother so no worries here hahaha
Just seeing where it will go and taking it a step at a time
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>>34100124
But you find those buildings let me know!
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>>34100150
>Much more of a you can look, but I get to experience type of thing more than anything else.
"I got it, you don't." Kinda thing. Like getting a shiny charizard Pokémon card and running up to the other boys to show them you got the shiny charizard card and they don't and feeling good about yourself, I get it.

>>34100155
>But you find those buildings let me know!
Will do. I suspect the white house building and The George Bush Center for Intelligence of the Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) would be the loveliest candidates because they both love voyeurism, collecting and sharing other people's information and humiliation kek



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