what do you mean by boomer looks, how old are you?

ill? do tell more

>>34098198
Basically I got my G.E.D. at 33 instead of 19 because I was hospitalized for Chron's and Clinical Depression. I achieved full remmission in 2024 and got a 5 year scholarship for university. My psychologist told me to continue on as if it never happened but people address me formally instead of informally because I look like I'm 45 due to all the medical stress.

I feel amazing and have a shining future ahead but my looks are way off the average college student. I have a hard time injecting myself.

>>34098304
so you're what, 34? lad, I'm 41 and if i don't tell people my age everyone thinks I'm around 30 or less. how? I'm working on myself. I've never drunk alcohol, I don't smoke, I don't eat crap, I exercise regularly (never in a gym because I can't stand those self-centered people). in short, focus on yourself. start doing something that brings you joy and satisfaction. if you find yourself in the company of people who do the same, you might also find a woman to connect with. be active. you can also do it online if that's closer to you, but be careful. in short, work on yourself first and then the rest

and I'll tell you this, well you've already figured it out yourself. I've dated younger girls but when you see how frivolous they are you quickly give up on the idea. fucking run away. you need a woman, not a child

>>34098349
Man I don't care, I just want a normal life - social experience. I don't care if the girl is 18 or 45 as long as she is in the same boat as me. I look old because I had turmoil even though I can't remember most of it.

Ideally id like a virgin because I want my first time to be special.

>>34098578
I know but trust me, you will care when you get to know them more deeply. they think fundamentally differently. look for women your own age or older, there are women who will gladly ease your path to intimacy and they will find it attractive. I know it sounds strange but it's true. but you have to be honest with them

I know that the illness has left its mark on you but you shouldn't give up because you can still improve a lot

>>34098304
>I was hospitalized for Chron's and Clinical Depression.
If you needed extensive inpatient for that, unless your *Crohn's was so bad that you were continuously bleeding and facing infections and ulcers for over a decade, then you're just a loser
Are you European? How the fuck would you get a scholarship being this much of a loser unless you're a minority?

>>34098709
I'm European, it was severe Chron's, I got a municipal scholarship and a bonus for good HS diploma, they extended it because of medical complications, usually it's valid until 26 but with medical it got extended to 40.

Why would you call me a loser, this is 4chan and all but I literally achieved a heroic victory of health.

>>34098651
It didn't leave a mark, or a scar. I'm normal now, and id take a 30 year old virgin over a 17 thot.