How should I proceed? While I am confident I cannot deny there isn't a bit of stress. She seems to check if I can have a good conversation going and weirdly enough we seem to like the same things, such as loving the same movies etc. Sometimes she speaks more and sometimes she speaks less, unsure if she loses interest at times (because she initiates the convo) because sometimes she gives out one word answers, perhaps she's busy but still wants to talk? She's often the one to begin talking with me. We both go to the same course in uni.>invite for a coffeethere isn't a big variety of third places in my city
>>34098298there's not a single coffee spot in your city? pizza? sushi?
>>34098298It doesn't matter what exactly it is, but you have to meet in real life. That way you both see if there's chemistry.
>>34098314There are like three pizzerias but going for something cheaper like a coffee would seem more socially acceptable.>>34098319Very true, when we speak online we seem to have a lot of fun in doing so. IRL she seems to smile at me a lot (one time I didn't smile back and when she wasn't looking I saw her being genuinely sad like "shit did I fuck up"). I suppose I'd have to talk with her a bit more there. We don't have all that many interactions irl as she hangs out in her little friendgroup often and we are from two separate uni groups.
>>34098345>one time I didn't smile back and when she wasn't looking I saw her being genuinely sad like "shit did I fuck up"That's on her though. It's way too much sensitivity and reactivity on her part.
>>34098355But this DOES prove she's onto me right? She complimented my way of dressing like three times in one day lol. She's not a weirdo or anything, she seems quite shy but it looks like she breaks her fear just to tell me what she thinks.
>>34098298There is one, and only one, way to find out if a girl is interested in you, and that's to ask her out.
>>34098360I guess. Just make sure to make her know that you're into her too. That's what matters the most.
>>34098314>>34098345Coffee is for job interviews. Stop being a cheapskate and treat her to lunch. The only guys that complain about dates wasting too much money are morons and horndogs that think every woman that makes eye contact with them wants you.It's going to be worth that $20 pizza lunch when she's looking into your eyes while throating you to the hilt. If $20 or $30 bucks is a lot to you, stop being poor and make more money. The only people who complain about women not liking coffee dates or needing to pay for dating apps are broke broke brokie failures of men working fast food. How the fuck are you gonna raise a family if you're worried about how much a fucking slice of pizza is gonna set you back vs a cup of coffee?!?! You wanna fuck this girl, right? You know fucking can get women pregnant, right?
