Why do women waste so much fucking money on useless crap and little gay perks and how do I get my wife to understand the ends must fucking meet at the end of the month?
>>34102406Just tell her.
>>34102475Did it a 100 times already
>>34102406tell her she NEEDS to stop waisting. tell her sime boring old ass lesson so she can be sensitised or smth like that>convert her to good like if she was a villain
>>34102639So you married a fucking idiot. Congrats. Now you have to protect your finances. Write up a budget. Get her to agree to the budget as written. If you can't even get that out of her, then it's either separation or ride the roller coaster down with her
What is she buying? What is your income? Debt?
>>34102406You must treat women like children. Tell her that you need to show her how the budgeting works. Show her how much you spend on yourself (not including bills, in a month) Take the credit card away for that month. (Or if you don't want to take it away if you think it would cause a fight, just have it disabled) Give her the same amount in cash that you spend and challenge her to make it last for the whole month.Also be prepared for her to leave you when she realizes that you can't spend what she wants.
>>34102961I don't have any debt because I'm not retarded. But I do live in a low income country, só it's difficult to come up with a value to inform you.She usually spends money on stupid shit like aesthetic procedures, clothing and trips. It's your regular woman brain in the 21st century.
>>34102406>how do I get my wife to understanduh ohyou're supposed to marry a woman who will actually listen, say "yes" and obey. if you guys don't have kids yet, your life may be salvageable by dumping her asap
>>34103847What responsibilities is she not taking care of?Is she using all her own money?Does she have an "emergency fund" or does she expect you to handle it if something goes wrong with the car?
>>34103955She does her part, I'm not saying she's a bad wife. She's just caught in what's fashionable for women to do in this day and age.Her money? She recently got a job, I bankrolled her spending throughout the year.She has no savings that I know of. Car? She expects me to finance a SUV in 2026 and pay the bank by driving for Uber.
you married an idiot. and you should have talked to her about this way, WAY before marrying her.for the time being, take away her credit card and give her a certain amount of cash which she can spend each month. then she'll begin to understand how quickly it goes.
