>meet guy, date for 3 years>about 4 months ago i start feeling extremely bad. >get super depressed, gain significant weight, completely lose my (normally extremely high) libido. all i want to do is lay in bed>doctor says i have a hormone condition>they give me meds, they help a little but not much. i will most likely never be the same as before>if we carry out our plans from before hes going to be married to a fat 22 year old with menopause symptoms who will probably never fuck him again i dont want that for him. assuming i dont improve, at what point should i break up with him? im going to try alternative treatments still but i dont have much hope for them. i also worry that he wont go willingly over this, since he is very sentimental and in love with me. what would you want, if you were in his position?
>>34103257I think I'd want you to let me make my own decision whether to leave "for my own good" or not. You think you're doing it for him but really it's self pity. Pushing him away before he has a chance to leave. It's immature. You are only 22, but still.
>>34103257>at what point should i break up with him?Never. Explain the situation to him honestly and let him make his own decision.
>>34103257For you to do what you feel will make you happier. I would suggest you exercise not force it.
>>34103257Just get therapy for it, chemotherapy, and or look for alternative surgeries.
>>34103257For pretty much anyone I would want to date, I would hope they could clean up their diet, abstain from alcohol/sugar/wheat and processed foods, and do some form of exercise. So that would be the case regardless of any illness.
