>+Emotionally mature>+Good at communication>+Ego in check>+Above average IQ (~138)>+Shit ton of hobbies and interests (most nerdy ones are vidya, but it's 2026)>+Well mannered>+Accountable and responsible>+High empathy levels (aimed at the closest ones)>+Willingness to co-operate>+Work out, fit body, BMI @ ~22 points>+Dress nicely and take good care for myself>+Not a bad face, 6/10 on good days, normally 5/10>-Level 1 autism>-High inhibition>-Don't have a big group of friends (couldn't maintain it due to low social energy)>-5'8"I can't get a girlfriend. It's impossible. I maxed out pretty much all regards in my life that I have control over.My main place I look for it is Badoo (more popular here than Tinder - I live in Poland).I honestly have no idea what else I should try. Everyone else I know has someone, even my neighbours, etc. Maybe it's my autism, but I can't do anything more about it than I already did.Should I just Philippines-max? I have 1K+ matches there.
that fit is so fire, I really want a jacket like that
I think the autism is the number one killer considering all of the complex social games women like to play. If you aren't socially adept or have the energy for it you might be screwed. Even your mental match will prefer non autists
>>34118801Cool. Let me ask ChatGPT where he got that.
>>34118864That was my guess too. This and high inhibition. The worst thing is, it seems like both keep on getting worse for me with age.I used to be so much better at masking in my 20s. But yeah, now in 30s I guess it all stems from energy levels. It might be over.
>>34118463>Ego in check I was gonna call bullshit, then I read>Level 1 autism Which means you weren't being egotistical in your post. You were being blunt and indifferently honest in true autistic fashion. Now notice something in my post OP? I initially assumed you were egotistical when you were not. You '"came across" that way to me, as a non-autist. Now you understand why the autism is the biggest barrier and the most probably explanation for your social shortcomings. Autists are frequently misinterpreted and misunderstood precisely because they are socially 'tone deaf'. When an autist is simply being honest and factual, without the autist knowing, their 'social tone' sends out all the wrong signals and the autist isn't even aware. Then people get offended or put off and then the autist has no clue what went wrong.So the trick is you gotta learn 'normie' language. Understand how they think and you'll do fine. For example: The reason I wrongfully assumed you were an egotist is because egotists always boast about themselves. They always publicly announce their positive traits for attention. Normies instantly assume that is egotism, because normies believe that 'good people' are those who hide their good qualities and never admit them. The reason normies do this is because they seek signs 'authenticity'. And if they notice someone is silent on their good qualities, then they assume the good person puts effort in hiding them out of modesty. And because they see the modesty (good trait) they will automatically assume all of their other good qualities must be true too. Normies speak and feel 'between the lines'. Think of this: pretend that normies mask. And pretend normies signal to each other by deliberately slipping their masks off partially to show their true intentions every once in a while to communicate to others, emotionally. And that their mask is made of words and language and idioms and analogies and euphemisms and sarcasms. Thats what they do.
>>34118905>>34118463>Continued >"But why the fuck do normies do this? Why do they be obtuse on purpose and indirectly signal emotions under the camouflage of vague linguistic posturing and gesturing? Why can't they just be linear, direct, concise, blunt, and transparent from point A to point B?"I have no fucking idea, good autist. "It is what it is". Honestly sometimes as a normie myself I wonder if the script is upside down and it's us who have the disorder, and not the autist. After all the autist PoV is so clean, tidy, organized, efficient, straightforward and honest.Meanwhile normie mindset is disjointed, lateral, adaptive, never consistent, and completely chaotic and whimsical. It's a mystery to me, man. My only guess is it had to do with boundaries and barriers. That normies are fundamentally aware of psychos and malignants who know how to exploit emotions the minute they sniff them out, so we developed a scattered 'emotional language' to avoid them. I think this is our only strength and autists famously get exploited by psychos all the time because they are too transparent and too honest.Pros and cons, mate.
>>34118905>Now notice something in my post OP? I initially assumed you were egotistical when you were not. You '"came across" that way to me, as a non-autist.Yeah I noticed that, also it triggered me, because I know I have a quite low, chill ego, so I was like>TF you mean, you don't know me, how can you possibly take that out of my post.>Now you understand why the autism is the biggest barrier and the most probably explanation for your social shortcomings.Yes, but that's just the tip of the iceberg. That only explains when there is interaction. My problem is, I have very little interaction in the first place.>They won't like me>They prefer to be left alone at this time>I'm not feeling to well today>I'll probably say something stupid, nah, I won't do itThat;s literally me 90% of time I could potentially have an interaction with someone. I don't take my chances. It probably stems from bad previous results.>So the trick is you gotta learn 'normie' language. Understand how they think and you'll do fine.Yeah but there is so much of this stuff, I've never heard of a good book that would explain>Hey, autist, you're doing X wrong, do it like a normie, like this:This is where normies have it in them, it's not taught. It's in their system. It's that automatism.I think this is why autism is called that. It's practically the word "automatism" without the core. Us autists, we are missing the core of that automatism.Your post is good, thanks anon. Maybe I should just outright say that I'm on the spectrum on the dating apps and mostly seek one of my own.
>>34118463You're just a kid, buddy. Guys your age are usually undervalued. You can just go on investing in yourself until opportunity comes. You might also try some trips to SEA or LatAm (more wholesome choice).Whatever the case, invest in developing yourself: health, exercise, go to Church, work on your career, etc. You'll usually meet nice chicks at the university and work. If you want serious dating and perhaps a family, Church is the place to go.Also, develop your interpersonal or social abilities. It'll help you in most areas of your life. I can't stress this enough. Take good care, kiddo.
>>34118463>Emotionally mature>as the first fucking itemGirls don’t want simps, pussies or faggots.
>>34119139>Yeah but there is so much of this stuff, I've never heard of a good book that would explainThat's because most of us normies are, without putting to fine a point on it, dumb as dirt. For some reason many of us lack the self awareness to be able to verbalize our own mental mechanisms and emotional blueprints. So no such book ever gets written to help autists gain the mythical magical tome of "How to finally understand why normies act why they act: bullet point step-by-step edition".Of the few who are self aware enough to know their own normie mindset, they still have close to zero idea how Autistic PoV truly works. So the chances of meeting a self aware normie who speaks without filter & understands autistic PoV at the same time? 1% chance or less of encountering this in the wild. Unless, you do exactly what you already pondered:>Maybe I should just outright say that I'm on the spectrum on the dating apps and mostly seek one of my own.Because the minute you unmask and out yourself as an autist, your chances go from 1% to 100%. Then it's only a matter of time before it happens. Because people who understand autism will seek it out and you'll appear on their radar, like a submarine finally coming out from hiding. My only genuine advice: I'd personally avoid doing that on dating apps. Dating apps are full of psychotic wrecks, narcissistic leeches, and borderline crazies, who would absolutely love to exploit the shit out of an autist who reveals themselves as such. They're crafty little devils, they mask just like autists do but in a shapeshifting way that's done offensively rather defensively. But I trust you will be fine. Autists always adapt and learn. They can be fooled once, but never twice. Good luck homie
>>34119186I'm over 30 now. Not a kid, not in Uni, work from home. Church is overrated, literally no relationships start there (they rarely ever did).I'm also a gnostic (not agnostic), so no church fits my beliefs. SEA and LatAm are what I was thinking about though.But I heard LatAm isn't as good anymore.>>34119206I am neither one of those labels. People may think I'm a pussy, then I show them otherwise, they are surprised and butthurt and leave.>>34119238Brutal self-aware pill kek>My only genuine advice: I'd personally avoid doing that on dating apps. Dating apps are full of psychotic wrecks, narcissistic leeches, and borderline craziesYeah I know that, I have noticed that. Autistic women on these apps suck too, they have plethora of other, more seriously fucking up issues.
>>34119139>This is where normies have it in them, it's not taught. It's in their system. It's that automatism.I think this is why autism is called that. It's practically the word "automatism" without the core. Us autists, we are missing the core of that automatism.Oh and also, I can explain this part for you. Us normies did learn it, it was taught to us. We learned it all from parents, siblings, teachers, classmates, people on TV, people in public, everyone. We internalized every single social stimulation whether or not we observed it or participated in it. And for us normies, by the time we are about 13 - 16 years old, our socialisation is about 70% complete. By age 21 - 25 it's 80%. By age 30 - 35, 90%. And it stays at 90% forever. 10% always empty because this allows for constant growth and change and adaptability to new situations throughout our lifespan. Whoever we are when we die of old age, that is our '100%'.But no, autist, we had to learn same as autists. It's just our time of learning was 1,000% easier than yours. Because we do not have constant bodily anxiety and mental burnout fatigues, we didn't have to deal with never ending sensory pains. We never had to mask irritability or fear or anxiety or even constant pain 24/7 in our social interactions and thus, we never had a barrier that hindered the integration process of the social learning.Autists lagged behind us because the autist carries a massive weight on his shoulders, a painful one. That is why everyone seems like they ran off ahead and socialised faster and the autist was left behind, alone. It's because it's true. The autist has a nervous system that prevented the learning. It's very hard to internalise social stimuli when stimulation itself is like throwing broken glass into an autist's soul. And yet the autist kept going and keeps going and never gives up in trying. Which in my opinion, is one of the most hardcore, badass, kino, based as fuck acts of courage I've seen in humans.
>>34118463You sound extremely narcissistic and arrogant, that is going to work against you. I'm not sure what "Level 1 autism" is but it sounds like some kind of excuse for being unlikable and I think you know this. Point is, I don't really care about any of the + points you made and I doubt women would either. Facial attractiveness is the most important thing, 5/10 usually means a 3-4/10 in my experience and that is going to set you back the most. Height is mostly a meme as long as you're not a midget, 5'8 is fine.Realise this: there are 106 young men for every 100 young women. When you account for age preferences in dating (competing with older men) and undatable women the competition is tough. polish/european chicks have a lot of options, you may do better in SEA but honestly ask yourself if it's worth it.
>>34119311Also, OP, see what I mean?>You sound extremely narcissistic and arrogantDid I not predict this? Other normies will predictably react in patterns. You can learn these patterns OP.
>>34119297Now compare your posts, my anon friendo, to guys like this one:>>34119311>I'm not sure what "Level 1 autism" is but it sounds like some kind of excuse for being unlikable and I think you know this.Yeah, this was my experience throughout my life as well. I would understand that, living in a shithole, but it still baffles me that online is still so backwards.
>>34119315Haha lol yeah, I noticed this post too, as I said in >>34119318Like fucking poetry. I'll take it as a confirmation of all you said kek
>>34119282Well, being +30-yo does change things a lil' bit. Yet, much of the advice still stand.The most important advice remains: invest in your self-development and learn how to socialize. Autism is no excuse. It makes it a lot harder, but it's still possible.You're messing up with the gnostic thing, though. Of course, "this world is evil" and all, but Christianity acknowledges that as well. Much like Freemasonry, Gnosticism will seduce you with "hidden secrets", and higher consciousness, and whatnot, but it's mostly about alluring aesthetics and empty transcendental rhetoric. It won't save you. And human beings are too petty creatures to save themselves alone.Btw, I happen to be Portuguese-Brazilian, from Rio de Janeiro. Latin America will demand more of your social instincts, but you'll be able to develop healthier, more equitable relations. And you still hold a lot of social value just for being a "gringo". The whole feminism bs still hasn't ruined it for guys around here – especially if you avoid major metropolises, like São Paulo.
>>34119358>ChristianityBeen there, done that. Constantly felt internally something was off. Years later I figured it out and found it in Gnosticism.I would never downgrade back to Christianity. I always liked and respected Jesus, so that makes sense to me too, as he's key in Gnosticism as well.Thanks for the info on LatAm, I love latina women, that's why I like Philippinas out of all SEA women too, they have that Spanish blood in them too.I may check out if Latinas like me and change my location on dating apps first, before flying there.But from what you say here, a guy still has to have a good initial impression:>Latin America will demand more of your social instincts
>>34119318>Yeah, this was my experience throughout my life as well. I would understand that, living in a shithole, but it still baffles me that online is still so backwards.Yep I believe you. I genuinely cannot imagine how hard life must have been for you. When I try to mentally visualise the autistic experience, I always imagine it must be exactly like the archetypical description people pass around: feeling like an alien that somehow spawned in a planet of humans. And every time you try to speak, these humans instantly perceive something negative even when your own intention is pure. That no matter what, each time someone says "you're wrong. You're sick. You're weird. You're a loser. You're an asshole. You're this, you're that, you're (negative word) + angry face". Spending a lifetime trying to correct yourself or see things their way, through excruciating mentally exhaustive effort. Yet not once, not a single time does anyone do the same for you and try to see the world through your eyes. If I were in your position, I'd have become a total fucking villain and declared a campaign of pure vitriolic hatred and fury on anyone wearing a human face. You must have the patience of a damn saint
>>34119315>>34119318>>34119321Oh, nevermind, "autism level 1" is a modern term for aspergers. I assumed it was used in a joking way as in "undiagnosed but pretty sure" which made me think you were just a dick.
>>34119426Goes to show how little the average neurotypical knows.
>>34118463>>34119395Anyway just one last bit of advice to give you, good autist:>Should I Philippinesmaxx?If you like, yes. But I say you can broaden the scope: You can (any-country-so-long-as-its-not-similar-to-yours-maxx). And it will work same as if you had gone to SEA.Except America or UK or Canada, they're fucked behind repair culturally speaking. But the reason autists often gain successes if they leave their home cultures is because any social fuck-up or social oopsie that happens no longer is associated with (you) or your autism. Instead the foreign girl you are dating will instantly assume 'cultural barrier'. And normies are extremely forgiving for cultural barriers, more than neurological barriers. Some of them even find it to be romantic, so it pays off and that's why autists often have an instinct to go to a different land to find a honey. It's because it actually works.
>>34118463tez mieszkam w polsce zostan moim chlopakiem
chyba ze masz 40 lat to nie
aha to fajnie szukasz dziewczyny a jak masz okazje to nie chcesz
>>34119395>When I try to mentally visualise the autistic experience, I always imagine it must be exactly like the archetypical description people pass around: feeling like an alien that somehow spawned in a planet of humans.Yes, I always felt like an alien. But more down to Earth explanation would be, like it's a constant gaslighting, while always knowing you are being gaslit (gaslighted?).It's a little bit like being emotionally and psychologically tortured by multitude of micro-aggressions. That's why most autists develop PTSD/CPTSD.>>34119426Yes, it's basically aspergers. I was fully diagnosed a few years ago (also for ADD).>>34119449That makes a lot of sense actually and I even had similar logical process at one point. I instantly thought of PH, because I get lots of likes there.
>>34119474Anon czy anonka? ;) Mam nieco ponad 30 lat. >>34119543Uuuu jesteś clingy? Myłem kuperek akurat i nie wchodziłem.
>>34119757anonka ja mam 20 lat za 2 tyg
>>34119793To uroczo, ale ciut za mało chyba na mnie :) Ale z ciekawości - jaki rejon? Wystarczy kierunek pł/pd/wsch/zach?
>>34119849zazwyczaj jestem na slasku bo tam studiuje
>>34119907To w sumie nie tak daleko mnie, ja Opole.
>>34119923a to ze 100km
>>34119927Tak plus/minus. U mnie w okolicy na apkach do randkowania jest tak mało kobiet, że często patrze na Wrocław albo Śląskie.Dobre połączenia kolejowe, wiem bo jeździłem za Łódź do byłej, to przez Śląskie najczęściej, to była dopiero mała część tej podróży na śląsk.Polecam zwiedzić Opole, jeśli nie byłaś jeszcze, szczególnie wiosną wygląda fajnie.
>>34119936no pociagi sa mega spoko ja zawsze do domu jezdze bo mam 2h tylko bez przesiadek
>>34119939Czemu jestes na 4chanie ;D
>>34119944bo lubie 4chan i dziwne rzeczy czasami mozna tu przeczytac czasami zragebaitowac kogos itp a ja mam przerwe swiateczna i mi sie nudzi to sporo tu siedze xd
moze keidys uda mi sie znalezc chlopaka na 4chanie
>>34119945Nie sądziłem że młode kobiety w PL bywają na 4chanie i to z tego co piszesz częściej niż ja haha.Mi sie przypomniało że istnieje /adv/ stąd mój topic.>>34119950A czemu na 4chanie akurat? Na uczelni nie znalazłaś jeszcze? Ja gdybym jeszcze był na studiach to pewnie bym tego tematu nei zakładał.
>>341199544chan jest lepszy niz reddit a na twiterze dostalam bana to siedze na 4chanie. jakbym na uczelni znalazla chlopaka to bym nie szukala na 4chanie : (
>>34118463Standards too high. You'd be my ideal boyfriend but autism usually equals rigidity when it comes to knowing what you want and an inability to adapt to other's needs/shortcomings. Unironically lower your standards or learn how to be happy alone.>>34119282>Autistic women on these apps suck too, they have plethora of other, more seriously fucking up issues.Case in point. Everyone is fucked up in their own way, whether that's normies or autists. Some are more fucked up than others. The symptoms of low level autism are almost identical to abused kids who grow up to have severe PTSD/mental illness, which is off-putting to everyone except other autists and the mentally ill.
>>34119959Jak nie przeszkadza Ci różnica wieku, fakt że mam lekki autyzm i 100km odległości, możemy się w sumie poznać, tak na luzie chociaż.I przejść z rozmową gdzie indziej, uzupelnianie tej captchy mnie męczy ;D
>>34119966spoko dla mnie git
>>34119967Ale w kwestiach social mediów od razu mówie że jestem boomer ;) mam tylko fb i to takiego "pustego", ale jakimiś zdjęciami sie podziele, spoko. Pasuje Ci fejs?
>>34119974ja bym wolala dc bo nie mam miejsca w telefonie na mesenger i facebok wiec ich nie uzywam xd
>>34119977Okej, DC może być. Tylko jak sie wymienimy tutaj? Proponuje wyślij mi nazwe lub linka na maila kofeyat672@emaxasp.comDziwny adres, wiem, bo to taki temp mail którego usune, tutaj nie bede podawał mojego prywatnego ;)
>>34119981oki
>>34119986Poszło, L66 to będę ja :)
So you guys reckon I should use the same dating apps as before and just state in my bio I have a little bit of 'tisms, or ditch OLD completely?If so, then what should I do, find some groups for people on the spectrum? There aren't really many where I live and they are quite empty.I think I have to accept, that I have much lower probability of finding a gf even though I had some before, unless I try in a place where I'm in the top.
>>34122186I recommend ditching dating apps altogether, autism or not. If you want to find some groups for chicks on the spectrum you find them in groups that are likeliest to have them. Those would be book clubs by the way, or any fandom surrounding the latest high fantasy/romance novels they read. Or you could just outright join an ASD discord or something chock-full of other autists and have your pick of the litter. You’ll have to filter through a lot of shit though, middling functioning ones with dyed hair and 300lbs and a bedroom that smells like cat piss. But there are higher functioning ones out there. Alternatively you could check in with your neuro cousins, add/adhds, and find a adhd chick. They tend to get horny as hell for autists unironically.
>>34122207>Alternatively you could check in with your neuro cousins, add/adhds, and find a adhd chick. They tend to get horny as hell for autists unironically.Well I have ADD as well so that would be nice. There IS a group I am in, they meet up like once a week or so, are based in a different city though. Maybe I should try there.IDK if book clubs would suit me, I am not interested in them, or any novels for that matter, so that would feel fake and take away too much of my energy.Also such places seem too rigid for me, my mind would be set on "they are here only for books", I need at least some level of knowlede that people are there open to new contacts specifically.
>>34118463>-High inhibitionOnly relevant thing, just stop being a fkn pussy and take every shot you can find
>>34118463Hello OP, this is going to be a bit of a long one.I am going to try to address everything in somewhat chronological order.>+Emotionally mature>+Good at communication>+Ego in checkFirst of all such claims on the internet and probably IRL will intially be met with instant scepticism as can be seen by both 34118905 and 34119311. In my opinion 34118905 is partially correct about the modesty but to me it seemed that it was instead due to many instances of people online claiming to be le very high iq, super mature, etc when they really are not. Especially the part with Ego in check. Thus while it might seem perplexing to You, as per 34119139, it is actually pattern recognition.As I understand it, this is what 34119297 said, but taken to it's conclusion as a skill and being done subconsciously, after first learning it and internalising it at an early age (see 4 stages of competence). The result being what 34118928 described as "It is what it is" due to:a) Most people learning it in a haphazard manner, following examples of others. This results in most people not actually being skilled at communication. To me it seems that, this includes You as per 34119139:>That;s literally me 90% of time I could potentially have an interaction with someone. I don't take my chances. It probably stems from bad previous results.b) People aren't assed to deeply analyse every little conversation, interaction or what have you, to save time and mental energy. Thus it's easier to see someone claim, that they have ego in check and the other thing, remember, consciously or not, the other time they met some fucking retard who claimed similar thing and conclude the same about You instead of going, "hmmmmm perhaps this fucker is different from all others, I better carefully read and emphathise with him."While the conclusion might seems unsatisfactory to You, but pattern recogniton 80% of times is correct every time.Next the book and normalfag language. 1/3
Honestly this is where I somewhat wish to call You retarded on the:>Yeah but there is so much of this stuff, I've never heard of a good book that would explain>Hey, autist, you're doing X wrong, do it like a normie, like this:People don't learn skills just by books. I did not learn to walk based on a book as my inability to read would have prevented me from acomplishing that. However the thing is, the reason I wished to call You retarded is that, there exsists not only such a book, but there is not only such a book but an entire subject on it- body language. In my school years I heard that, 90% of communication is non-verbal. The number is probably arbitrary and rather bullshit, but that does not change the point. Thus it seems rather strange to me that You claim to be skilled in communication, but then claim that it's impossible for you to get a girlfriend and the other things in >>3411913. Then I have to admit that I kind of have lied to you. I don't know a good book about this and I do believe that learning this requiers not books but observation of people during interaction. Personally it is also a weakness for me as I myslef, am quite shy.Here I am going to give You actual advice. What should be done (in my oppinion) is you should look for positive/ negative response in the chick you are speaking with, and then accordingly keep/ change topic. Honestly for this just fucking freestyle. I know that you can't just freestyle so literally talk about random shit/ whatever. Using her reactions see what kind of topics she likes then if you also like them, talk about it. For exampe if you start talking about trains and she looks somewhat unhappy, try talking about the new vidya etc. At this point you have to say who gives a fuck if she might dislike me just talk about something. Then go talk to another chick, etc. This is going to be very hard at first but will become easier so just start and don't stop.2/3
However when you learn it you are most likely going to be a better communicator than average due to actually understanding what kind of things people like, how to see that and then adapt to it. This is the difficulty that >>34119297 mentioned but better effort in general gets better results.Next is a point I personally disagree>+Shit ton of hobbies and interests (most nerdy ones are vidya, but it's 2026)Those are not fucking hobbies Anon. I play vidya and read webnovels, etc, but they are pastimes or interests but not hobbies. Otherwise you are going to have to prove to me that scrolling tik tok or watching reality show is a hobby too. A hobby would be something like zespół tańca ludowego (?). Quite likely to meet woman there, however I do NOT recommend you to join just for relationships, only if you are actually interested otherwise it's going to suck.Then afterwards you have >>34119474 >>34119543 1 (2?) girl(s?) start talking with you on and presumably continue contact. Actually funny thing of the 4 people I know/ have seen that use imageboards IRL were woman . (Shoutout to chick on 72XX to Shrek)Also please note (at least the idea) what >>34119206 >>34123400 are trying to say- You must not overthink but rather be ready to do what in Your mind might feel like incovnience them and talk. I also really fucking doubt if going to "groups for people on the spectrum" or discord would be the best chance to find a girl. Also holy blogpost.In conclusion I actually forgot what I wanted to say so fuck it, I need to sleep.3/3
>>34118463I wish I had a Polish gf again. Eating her ass was the best. Petite girl, little 4 pack inkling out from her core and beautiful white belly, hairy pussy, amazing face. My god.
>>34125698Thanks for the long posts anon, I will read them more diligently after work, but yes, I'm talking to the girl who responded ITT so wish me luck.
if your BMI is at 22, you do not have a 'fit' body. you're a fatass.
>>34126205 Retard, 22 BMI points =/= 22 bf%, 22 is like the most perfect BMI norm there is.
>>34118928>Honestly sometimes as a normie myself I wonder if the script is upside down and it's us who have the disorder, and not the autist. After all the autist PoV is so clean, tidy, organized, efficient, straightforward and honest.even many autists can't stand other autists because they can be so fucking annoying and obviously have problems relating with each other. the social dance may seem absurd but most of the stuff hardwired in our brains survived for a reason (even if it's not that important in our current, non-hunter-gatherer society)
>>34119395also while many autists are just clueless and innocent, plenty of them are also just spoiled cunts using their disorder as a shield and a clutch to act like assholes to other people.
>>34127541>>34127550Ah yes, the wonderful neurotypicals and their blame the victim mentality. Wonderfuly empathic people!
>>34118463>My main place I look for it is Badoothere's your problem. did your neighbors meet on badoo?maximize these characteristics, pic rel. i know you have some but i think there's a few you are missing that women really like. if your IQ is that high, i don't need to point them out.other than that, get on your passion more, women like a man who has something more important than them in their lives. a purpose, a goal or something significant.you need power and mastery too, like become a master carpenter. or run a successful business.
>>34119977>telefonie>>34119986>oki>>34119993>:)... so how did it go?
>>34127865Well, we are now talking outside of 4chan. I hope things go well, thanks for asking.
>>34127766Stop seething, he is right.
>>34119186>LatAm (more wholesome choice).Is SEA not wholesome enough?
>>34118463Thanks to your thread I learned more things about my autistic ass too, OP, thank you.What helped me was watching live-action movies like The Sopranos and copied their behaviors. Ditch the anime.Also, have you maxxed out in the money department yet?
>>34119395>If I were in your position, I'd have become a total fucking villain and declared a campaign of pure vitriolic hatred and fury on anyone wearing a human face.Any advice on how to go about it?
Man. Finding a 19 year old cutie off 4chan to suck you off for many years to come. I wish it was me. God. I just wish.
>>34134148Don't worry anon, no need to envy me. Nothing like this will happen. Nothing good ever happens to me, so it was probably just a mirage of the life I wish I had but never will.
>>34118873>I used to be so much better at masking in my 20s.how?
>>34118928>autists famously get exploited by psychos all the time because they are too transparent and too honest.Depends. Lots of autists are aware of that very issue (i'd say hyper-aware) and can therefore mask it pretty well
>>34134864IDK bro, I just was. I guess I wasn't as tired by masking and thought this is the natural state. I guess you could say... the mask fell off.
You're dying unloved, but at least you have other things going on.
>>34136670Shut your mouth, whore.
>>34134675Idk man. Sometimes luck strikes and you find some lonely Polish girl who actually looks quite alright and has a sex drive and just a slight bit crazyHow's it going with her? I'm really interestedPlease succeed for us dude, rooting for you pawel
>>34137201She probably ghosted him, like all those other bitches did to me.
>>34137201>>34137545Yeah not really ghosted but she's clearly not into anything serious that I'm looking for. Yet another avoidant attachment that I stumbled upon. They swarm to me for some reason but are my complete opposites
>>34118463>>+Ego in checkI very much doubt this, given the content of your post.
>>34137201>some lonely Polish girl who actually looks quite alright and has a sex drive and just a slight bit crazyAlso that's weirdly specific DESU, what kind of novel fantasy is this?
>>34118463>>+Emotionally mature>>+Good at communication>>+Ego in checkhmmmm..... yeahhhhhh.....