Succinct background: me and this girl have a mutual friend, and the mutual friend told me that this girl finds me physically attractive (we've never met or spoken, just in the same college class)I ask the mutual friend to ask the girl if she's interested in dating (this happened in December), she says yes, but I have to ask her out in person and after our final year exams (so she wants me to ask her out late January)I took this on board and have been studying for my exams during the break, but now our exam season is beginning I'm wondering if i should go talk to her during the exam period(not ask her out) to break the ice.If i do this, how do I approach it? Im socially retarded and have no idea what to do. Thanks.
>>34130082wait until after exams and then just be yourself
>>34130228I dont want to look like I'm waiting like a dog
>>34130082>How to break the iceUse a hammer or polar-class icebreaker, depending on the scale of it.
>>34130250so what do you mean by >but I have to ask her out in person and after our final year exams (so she wants me to ask her out late January)if it doesnt have to be late january then do it sooner. about being socially retarded, relax and dont think about judgement and how she is perceiving you. do your best with confidence and intentionality and whatever happens happens
>>34130082Why did you have the mutual friend ask her instead of asking her yourself?
>>34130299I'm an autistic coward
Sounds like you have made up your mind. If it was me, I would leave it alone. She is probably happily dating someone.
>>34130390>She is probably happily dating someone.What makes you say that?My friend asked if she was still interested in me and she said, unprompted, that she would say yes if I asked her out. Why would she say that if she were dating someone? Maybe I'm coping.
>>34130390No harm in asking her. What's the point in leaving it?
>>34130082"Hi. Jim told me you'd be an easy fuck. How about it?"
>>34130082If you ask me there’s no point in you waiting to ask her out even if now isn’t the most convenient time for it, and it’s not much better to break the ice now and wait almost a month to make a move. If her what her friend says is true and that she is currently attracted to you and would like to go out with you then make your move. Women change their mind all the time. Tomorrow she might decide she’s not attracted to you anymore, the day after that she might meet some new guy she’ll start seeing instead. The fact is if she really does want to date you, she won’t let exams be an excuse to say no or make you wait until the end of the month.
Just talk to her when u see her wtf
>>34130870This
>>34130082I would>unintentionally bump into her (you can arrange that) somewhere else>don't ask, say you'd do this and that, if she's interested, she could come along>be the one saying "bye"
>>34133267My friend is hosting a Chinese new year party. Should I invite her to that?
>>34133294good plan but "don't invite"say YOU are going, say if she comes along would be nicedon't be pushy neither,
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