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ok so basically i believe theres such a thing as girl pretty which is like a starving anorexic supermodel look that girls fins ideal and boy pretty, thats still skinny but yk big tits and ass and curvy... the thing is idk if this is actually true cuz im trying to lose weight to get hotter but i might lose my ass and tits, so what do guys like more????? its like i lose either way lol. for refrence this is my build i mean its not crazy curvy but like my ass is all i have bruh i dont wanna lose it to gain nothing ykyk
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White guys prefer flat sticks over curvy big booty ass bitches, or skinny girls with big tits but that's hard to come by.
Men of color prefer curvies, including blacks and latinos.
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>>34131422
Men prefer curvy. It's been demonstrated cross culturally.
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>>34131422
Men prefer curvy
Men prefer skinny
Skinny + Curvy
Scurvy

If you have to gain body fat% to gain curves, fine. But it has to only go to the hips, thighs, ass and that's all. It's a balancing act of maximizing curves and minimizing obesity.

As for tits & ass, us men have a sacred proverb, it goes like this:
>A big ass makes up for small tits.
>But big tits can never make up for a small ass.
Ideal is both big butt and boobs, but if you can't have both, prioritize the ass over tits.

Anyway this shit is only 30% important to high value men. High value men will care more about your mindset, they would prefer you not be a skank or a mentally ill crazy chick with a body count higher than room temperature.
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>>34131422
Curvy is considered more attractive by most guys. Skinny is for fat guys and pedos.
I like all kinds of bodies though.
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>>34131518
A white man will always go for a skinny flat girl with a pretty face over a curvy girl with a mid face.
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>>34131520
>A white man
Anon I can promise you I'm as white as a bottle of milk, and was born and bred in Europe with ancestry as pure as the driven snow. Skinny girls are fucking boring.
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>>34131520
I am comparing bodies, you ape
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>>34131422
It all comes down to the face for me. If you have a pretty face, we can make it work. I can't do butterfaces.
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>>34131459
>Men of color prefer curvies, including blacks and latinos.

I'm a man of color then
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>>34131422
I'm a tall skinny dude, and I prefer skinny chicks. It's not that I don't find thicc girls attractive; but aesthetically, it just doesn't work. It feels weirdly emasculating smacking a fat ass with my chicken claw hands.

Sadly, the only girls who express interest are on the curvier side. I'm not sure how to interpret that.
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>>34131422
is the screenshot you? that girl has a hot body
she is already skinny though, i dont see how she could get skinnier than that, models arent different than her, they are just tall and build like a stick i dont think it has to do with weight loss.
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>>34131543
are you sure you dont just mean fat girls? t this is me>>34131544
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>>34131422
op picture is rather sexy. would manhandle, impregnate and start a family with.
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>>34131543
>Sadly, the only girls who express interest are on the curvier side. I'm not sure how to interpret that
Your forebearers interpreted it forever, "opposites attract".
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>>34131550
Tough to say. This is one of my exes, for instance. She can make it work, but it's too much wobble for me. I am seriously stick thin, and it's impossible for me to slap someone around and make them call me daddy when they could annihilate me with their thighs.
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>>34131576

Nigga what in humiliation fetish is this post
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>>34131584
Huh?
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>>34131555
>tfw small trashy asian girl with prominent dragon back tattoo kept asking how tall I was at work, but I was too chicken to get her digits in front of coworkers

How do I stop being so scared of girls. I've been in years-long relationships, but women continue to surround themselves with auras of mystery and dread.
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>>34131660
I'd have avoided the trashy tattooed Asian chick too. You can't turn a BPD into a wife nigga.
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>>34131669
I don't want a wife tho, I just wanna have fun sex. I've only ever been in longterm relationships, and they've all sucked the life out of me.
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>>34131422
"Skinny with big tits" (pipe dream: chads only) > skinny (pipe dream: chads only) > anorexic (pipe dream: rare and literally insane) > fat (your only option)
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>>34131689
That's because you presumably attracted crazies, similar to how you are attracting this crazy one too.
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>>34131749
That's true, but I'm crazy too. I speak that language. A white collar career chick wouldn't have the time of day for me; and I wouldn't know what to say to her anyway.
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>>34131422
Be yourself anon. If you have to change how you look for someone to "love"/"like" you, they don't actually like you.
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>>34131765
Learn a new language bro, it's easy you just need to say "I feel (negative feeling)" and "I understand where you are coming from, but I think (compromise idea)" and whatever. The healthy language shit. I used to be a crazy fuck and dated crazies too for years so I get it. It eventually gets old bro, also drives you into an abyss eventually. If you can get off crazy train sooner than later that'd be in your best interest
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>>34131785
Idk man I think it's a wash. I'm 36 and exactly nowhere in life. The likelihood of my being able to clean up and turn things around at this point is pretty close to nil
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>>34131803
I cleaned up my shit age 30. Never too late mate, just a matter of letting yourself feel down and out by doing what needs done anyway. And you should btw, cuz you more than earned it you paid your dues in crazy prison, sentence is over. Maybe it's time to try things different is all I'm saying. Peace to you
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>>34131422
Both. Her figure in the photo is fucking perfect.
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>>34131422
>for refrence this is my build
Fucking gorgeous. Don't waste energy on changing anything.

Do spend energy on cardio and stretching.
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>>34131422
i prefer whatever you call this
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>>34131940
Just realized this was you. Sheeeesh, yeah please don't change a thing. Do legs and glutes if you want a bigger ass, but that's it. You have a figure most women desire.
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all that matters is the hourglass silhouette. if you have that, you're hot. you can skew one way or the other (ass vs tits) but you really don't want the fridge build (which i've seen on girls of all weight types)
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>>34131422
yep correct curvy please
but that is not a license to get fat. It’s a mandate to go to the gym and build a big butt and thighs and tighten your core and strengthen your back while maintaining a bmi between 20 and 25
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>>34131422
nobody cares. just love me and game with me together
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>>34131422
M. I like skinny girls. Obviously. Tall, flat, model-esque, really pretty.

I fundamentally do not get men who go crazy for curves. They have no foresight. Cow tits sag past age 25. And what you're left with is a frumpy hag.
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>>34132333
>I fundamentally do not get men who go crazy for curves. They have no foresight. Cow tits sag past age 25. And what you're left with is a frumpy hag.

You're assuming they want to marry these girls.
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>>34131422
I like both, but I prefer curvy women. Then again, I'm a black guy, so my opinion probably won't matter that much.
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fake post, kys
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>>34131422
I wish bottom heavy girls like that were real
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Curvy is great, but 90% of the women who identify as curvy are just plain fat/obese and it makes them feel better about themselves.
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>>34131422
Upload a timestamp of your body to inspect your body
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>>34131422
Men aren't a hive mind - different men have different preferences. But in general I think they do prefer a more curvy shape than women think they do.
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bump
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my wife is super skinny which I love, but it would be nice if she gained some weight. I'm trying. She is 5'8 and weighs 120 lbs
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>>34131422
>posted a badly edited pic of another person and passing it off as your own

let me guess you're a tranny right
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>>34135446
Retard alert. That's not what op post says.
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>>34131422
That midriff would knock any man on his feet. Stay as you are, focus on being more interesting
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>>34131543
ur gay dude
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>>34135454
>for refrence this is my build
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>>34131422
Men like healthy bodies. Girls need a little shape to be healthy, but some girls are just smaller and it's clear to look at them and see they are healthy.
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>>34131422
If you were my girlfriend I would legitimately slap some sense into you for trying to change that body. I hate to simp but from what I can see in that pic you are gorgeous.

That's probably what you wanted to hear and I fell for it, so fuck you. Go be beautiful somewhere else without dunking on fat loser incels
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>>34131422
Most men just like pretty girls; so long as you're not anorexic or a whale, you're fine.

>>34131749
NTA, but I'm in a healthy relationship with as good a woman as you can get these days, and it's still fucking exhausting at times; what I miss about being single isn't even fucking other women, it's not feeling like I'm obligated to solve every problem someone else has or creates, or entertain their every thought, or feeling guilty for just wanting a couple hours or even days to myself. Like most men, what I really want is peace, and it feels like women would prefer being miserable to being bored.
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I have a small penis so I like skinny girls because I wouldn't push through additional layers of fat. Looks like only bbc go for fat chicks
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>>34131422
That form is perfect. Maintain it. Working out is still good, you will feel better and have more balance, strenght and protection from injury.
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>>34131422
I like skinny, petite, tiny, small tits, cute little butt.
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>>34131422
Damn. Nice hips femanon.
Honestly your body looks good. Just keep staying /fit/ and you'll mog at least 80% of women in the U.S alone.
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>>34131422
Don't get fat, period.
Men that tell you they like "THICC" women are low IQ simps and genetic dead ends.
Real men value fertile wife material, not the abomination like pic related.
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>>34131422
This isnt even a question
>Skinny
No one wants to walk around a plapper.
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>>34136893
Fertile wife material is fat, you N
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>>34131459
I guess I am a white supremacist man of color
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I prefer skinny at first & the fattening them up as time goes on. You get to enjoy all worlds if you are patient.
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Curvy women are more sexually gratifying, you can absolutely jackhammer the bitch and her body fat will absorb the shock
But unfortunately they don't look as good outside the bedroom, so you'd be less likely to introduce her to your parents, show her off to your friends, and be proud of her in general
The woman I will marry and raise a family with will probably be skinny because she will be healthy and I'd want her to instill her same healthy habits/lifestyle in our children, but of course there will be something missing from our sex life
So it's always a tradeoff I guess
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Girl power rankings
>thin with big natural tits
>thin and fit with flat tits
>A little extra (10-20lbs), with big tits
>A little extra (10-20lbs) with a big booty
Anything over 20lbs overweight is disgusting.
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>>34137337
Skinny is not neccessarily healthy. Skinny is usually anxious and might have nutrient deficiencies.
The argument for having a skinny wife is that she will grow fatter with time and therefore starting skinny is better. She won't grow too much.
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>>34136709
Fun fact: Black dudes who date white whales are rarely doing it out of genuine preference; it's usually a lack of options. Simply put, they're fucking losers and bullshit artists, and black women have grown up around busters and been exposed to busters their entire lives, and can spot a buster a mile away. White whales on the other hand, aren't so wise to their bullshit, and tend to be lacking in confidence and self-respect in the first place.

>>34136893
This.

>>34136990
There's a consistent, significant, and negative correlation between obesity and fertility.

>>34137337
There's nothing stopping you from jackhammering a fit girl, anon.



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