What was missing in your life wasn't a girlfriend(s).

>>34132907
It's because you don't love either of them and wasted your time pursuing the wrong thing.

>>34132923
What was it then?

>>34132929
>It's because you don't love either of them
True. I actively hate my main gf and am most of the time annoyed or exhausted by the side chick.
>wasted your time pursuing the wrong thing
Well yeah obviously. But whats the right thing to pursue? I also didn't really do anything for these two. They just came to me. If they didn't I would still be an incel. I've never asked a girl out and I don't even talk to any at all basically.

>>34132936
>But whats the right thing to pursue?
That's not for me to decide, you have to figure that out on your own. It might be a woman you love and having children with her or it might just be money, I don't know you or your situation. Sometimes the only way to figure out what you want is by finding out what you didn't want.

>>34132945
I just want to be beatiful.

>>34132956
Vanity, a classic. If you aren't already; start hitting the gym, eating right and using moisturizer. Then work on getting regular good haircuts and working on your wardrobe.

>>34132956
>I just want to be beatiful.
2 gfs didn't make you look any better. The bitches probably drained the life outta you

>>34132960
Beauty is not vanity.

>>34132999
If OPs sole pursuit for fulfillment is beauty, it's vanity.

>>34132907
We've been over this rapjoosh, left and right hand aren't considered girlfriends

>>34133022
Shut the fuck up you coping idiot, beautiful people have an easier time in life. Saying beauty is vanity is like saying money doesn't make you happy. Don't play semantics you stupid coon, you know money allows for less worries therefore happiness and you know that beauty allows for positive reactions and attention without even trying so shut the fuck up

>>34132936
You don't have 2 gfs, you have one and a random bitch you fuck on the side, but if you're still feeling like an incel, it's probably because you're lacking in something despite your success. Maybe it's a lack of integrity due to your cheating, or maybe you feel inadequate for being able to get pussy but still not being where you want to be at in life. Work on yourself is pretty much my only advice.

>>34133036
Nta but it is vanity. Just because you wince and seethe at the negative connotation behind the word 'vanity' does not make it any less true. Beautiful people are never guaranteed an easy time at life, they can still be killed, they can still suffer heartbreak, they still bleed, they can still get cancer or a stroke or dementia, they can still come from abysmal upbringings, beauty doesn't protect anyone from these things. Yeah beautiful people can slow for positive reactions and attention but the minute that beautiful person opens their dumb fucking mouth and it's revealed they're socially retarded or a piece of shit then the game is up.

>>34132907
It's almost like not having a girlfriend isn't incels' problem. Who would've thought? I'm a 34 year old virgin but I'm not an incel. I just don't want to have sex, ever. The risk of STDs and pregnancy just kills any desire I have for real sex. But because I'm not an incel, I have women hit on me sometimes. Incels' problem is their attitude towards women, not the fact that they don't have a girlfriend.

>>34132907
Even though you usually become an incel because of the frustration of not having had a gf at some point in your life, being an incel has nothing to do with whether you currently have a gf.

At its core, the incel ideology states that the only true intrinsic value of a man is in its access to reproduction. Since women have unrestricted access to reproduction, the value of women is measured on how well they choose their mate. Incel consider that the utmost majority of women are wasting this choice, and therefore hate pretty much all women.

Since incel consider themselves low value males with poor access to reproduction, it follows that a girl that would pick them is also low value. Therefore when incels get a gf, instead of changing their opinion they simply hate the women that love them.

And this is how incel psy-oped themselves on internet forums into being hateful losers for the rest of their life. Bravo OP.

>>34133641
>Beautiful people are never guaranteed an easy time at life,
Right, and people who have money aren't guaranteed that either - they just have the option to have an easier time much easier than us, you fucking retard

>They can still they can still they can still
Why are you arguing against yourself you absolute moron???? People who aren't beautiful and people who are poor and don't have money are facing the exact same problems.
The difference is that... THE RICH AND BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE ARE RICH AND BEAUTIFUL AND HAVE WAY MORE CHANCE TO BE SUCCESSFUL

god you're so retarded

>>34133733
Retard number 2?
I'm with you that being an incel means understanding that the value of a man comes from their ability to have sex, but I don't think hating women is part of being an incel. Incel stands for involuntarily celibate, aka cannot get sex. What you're describing is someone who would get sex and a gf and then hate women. That has nothing to do with being an incel because as soon as you get a gf you're no longer an incel. Hating women and being an incel are 2 separate things. I'm defending this because I'm an incel, but I don't hate women. I just cannot get sex or a gf for the life of me and yeah I'm jealous, and yeah I see the inequality, but I don't hate women for that. It's the reality of things

>>34132936
>They just came to me
You feel like an incel because you didn't earn the gfs yourself

>>34132936
I wish I was you you dumb retard piece of shit, count
If those gfs are irl and not ldrs*
Then I'd nut in them every single fucking day you stupid mutt, you stinky muppet, useless dog

>>34134109
>as soon as you get a gf you're no longer an incel
Bait or retarded?
Do you also think someone who fucks a hooker can no longer be an incel because he had sex?

>>34134444
This, incel is mainly a mindset. Yeah at one time it was purely guys who couldn't get laid but now its mixed in with misogyny so even if you get pussy, you can still be an incel in mentality. Like for example, the guys who are always worried about what their gf is doing or hanging out with are mental incels to me, because you can't control ppl, either she's loyal or she's not. They have a gf, but their mindset is still one of the man they were before they got her and continues to be so.

>>34134499
>my gf hanging out with other guys and her male best friend is fine bro
kek
You are a cuck.
Even if they aren't fucking her, they all would if they could and you and your gf know this. If she still does this it's massive disrespect to you at least and cheating at worst.

>>34134109
> as soon as you get a gf you're no longer an incel
That is a nice theory that is disproved by the reality right in front of you that OP is experiencing. Being an incel is not just being "involuntarily celibate", the term stands for an ideology.>>34134109
You're the retard if you don't understand that.

I did not mean to cite 109.

>>34134444
>>34134499
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>>34136763
Incel is involuntarily celibate, it can also be a mindset, I'm an incel even though I had a gf before for 5 years, I just have no idea how to get girls and I'm only getting older and uglier and I never learned how to get a gf - I'm an incel. But I disagree that it also means hating on women, into is not a chud. Also I didn't say having sex makes you not an incel I explicitly said gf because for the vast majority of incels - once they get a gf they're no longer incels. Yes it's possible to be an oncel, get a gf, no longer be an incel, then lose that gf and go back to being an incel. That's what happened to me. When I had a gf I was a totally different person, not worried about anything, LOVING my woman and women in general, best 5 years of my life. Then she cheated on me and I went back into the market, now older, now in a different country (I moved for her and she cheated on me and left me for another guy, my story is quite tragic), so it's a different language and look here that I don't speak. And yeah man, I'm an incel again. But it doesn't mean I hate women. I'm envious for sure but as far as I'm concerned, hating women isn't part of being an incel. That's part of being a chud. The STRONG feeling that you just don't know how to get a relationship is the incel mindset. And it doesn't mean it's not true. God knows I tried and I'm trying. It's just not working out for me

>>34136777
Incel* is not a chud
Also godly emperor mandate of heaven angel las Vegas jackpot trips of truth

>>34132907
So, you have no particular problem besides emotions?
Sounds like all is well.